Every time Yang Yang celebrates his birthday, I do three things: the first thing is to take a picture of him. Pen × fun × Pavilion www. ｂｉｑｕｇｅ。 info I specially prepared a growth album for him, which stores all his solo photos from childhood to adulthood, as long as you open this album, you will clearly see the change process of his appearance as he grows up, which is very meaningful. So I'm going to keep taking birthday photos of him until I can't take any more pictures of him. I think it will be a very happy thing for me and his dad to look at what he has looked like since he was a child, or for his descendants to look at how he has grown old since he was a child. The second thing is to measure the height. On his birthday, I would ask him to stand up straight against the bedroom door frame and draw a carbon pen on the door frame with his head to mark his height. Now there are many roads painted on the bedroom door frame, each of which marks his height at an age, looking at the short black line on the door frame drawn higher and higher, I always feel endless joy and happiness, this height scale not only records the growth rate of Yang Yang's body, but also records the achievements of me and his father in raising him. The third thing is to give him a birthday present. Every time I buy him a birthday gift, I ask for his advice and try to give him what he likes, which means that I pay for his choice. When he was a toddler, the gifts I bought him were almost all toys; When he was in elementary school, almost all of his birthday gifts were anime-related; In the first year of junior high school, he bought him a skateboard, bought him a mountain bike in the second year of junior high school, and now in the third year of junior high school, he wants a guitar!

Playing the guitar and learning music is of course a good thing, and I have no reason not to buy it for Yangyang. It's just that when I bought the guitar back for Yangyang, I said something like this to him: "I hope you can learn the guitar well." "I say this because the drums, art, chess, and martial arts that he learned since he was a child have all given up halfway, and I hope that this time he will persevere, not forcing him to learn a professional level, but at least he can see the score and play the rhythm and melody.

After Lu Tao saw the guitar I bought for Yangyang, he didn't say anything like "affecting learning" as before, but said, "It's good to play the guitar, young people love to play guitar." Then he picked up his guitar and played with it himself. Lu Tao played guitar when he was a soldier, but he never learned it, but it can be seen that he likes guitar very much, but there was no good teacher to teach him at that time. So he now supports Yangyang to learn guitar, whether it is because his educational concept has changed, or because he likes guitar, I don't know yet. Anyway, it's good that he supports it.

But the next day, we found out the real reason why Yangyang suddenly bought a guitar, that was because Wu Daren hired a guitar teacher for Wu Xuewen, and every afternoon after school, the guitar teacher would come to teach Wu Xuewen to play the guitar. Yang Yang said that he also wanted to learn from it. Since Yangyang learned to drive the guitar with Wu Xuewen, he didn't need his father to drive him to and from school, he insisted on riding his bike to and from school by himself, so that he could ride directly to Wu Xuewen's house to learn guitar after school in the afternoon.

Although learning guitar is a good thing, but learning with Wu Xuewen always makes me a little worried, in order to prevent Yang Yang from delaying his studies and habits and contracting some bad habits, I stipulate that Yang Yang must return home at half past seven in the evening every day. Sometimes he couldn't get home on time, Lu Tao would drive to pick him up.

Yangyang didn't go home on time today, and when I urged Lu Tao to drive to pick him up, Lu Tao insisted that I go with him.

Lu Tao is becoming more and more clingy now, no matter what he does, he always likes to pull me with him, and even sometimes he has to pull me when he goes to buy instant noodles. For example, every day when he came back from work, if he saw that I was not at home, he would always call me, and no matter where I was, he would drive to find me, as if he was afraid that I would lose it. When I worked overtime, he always had to drive me home, unlike previous years, when I worked overtime until midnight, and he didn't ask. In this way, the relationship between our husband and wife seems to have deepened than before, but the quarrel between us does not seem to have decreased at all, and it is still a small quarrel every three days and a big quarrel every five days. Our quarrels and unhappiness are mainly due to two aspects, one is still often quarreled over the issue of educating children, and the other is often unhappy because of the other party's interaction with the opposite sex, in fact, like most families, we still can't always agree on the education of children, and we can't let the other party interact with the opposite sex. However, we both have our own priorities, Lu Tao often argues with me about educating children, and I often feel unhappy that he has too much contact with a certain woman. Especially when I saw him and Yangyang's homeroom teacher and his first love Teacher Han chatting on QQ, I was full of fire. Of course, he would say that he had a lot of contact with Mr. Han in order to keep abreast of Yangyang's learning, but as a woman, I always didn't believe him. I don't believe it, but I can't say anything, so I can only get angry.

So whether I want to go out with Lu Tao depends on my mood, or whether the character of Mr. Han appears in our lives today. Fortunately, don't talk about today, I haven't found any connection between him and Mr. Han in the past week, so I'm in a good mood these days, and he said let's go to pick up Yangyang together, so let's go.

When we drove to Wu Xuewen's house, the guitar teacher had already left, and there were only five or six children playing in the room, but instead of playing guitar, they turned on the speakers, and there were a lot of snacks and drinks piled up on the table, and a few people were squirming around in the living room, as if they were having a party. It doesn't matter if I just played guitar after a while, the problem is that I saw a bottle of beer in a pile of drinks and two girls in a bunch of people!

"You're drinking?" Lu Tao also saw the beer and asked the children.

"No, this wine is left over from my dad's drinking." Wu Xuewen replied in a flash.

My attention was on two girls, one of whom I looked very familiar with, as if I had seen it there, and I was about to ask, but this girl spoke first: "Auntie, you don't know me anymore?" I'm Yang Sile. ”

"Yang Sile?" I can't really remember the name.

"She was my classmate in the sixth grade, you used to see her when you sent me to the homeroom teacher's house for tutoring, her mother is engaged in direct sales, you forgot?" After Yangyang's series of reminders, I finally remembered that her mother's appearance of a talkative salesman clearly appeared in front of my eyes again.

"You're still in the same class?" I asked Yangyang in surprise.

"No, Wu Xuewen and I are in the same class." Without waiting for Yang Yang to answer, Yang Sile answered first, speaking as fast as her mother.

What does seeing a girl say? Can't girls and boys play together? Isn't this the time when men and women don't kiss? It is not a good thing to deliberately interfere with the relationship between boys and girls. All we have to do now is bring our son back.

When he got home, Lu Tao couldn't help but ask Yangyang: "There are also girls who learn guitar with you?" ”

As I expected, Yang Yang listened and asked, "Yes, is there a problem?" ”

Lu Tao didn't know what to say for a while, but when I saw him like this, I took over and said, "Your father didn't say that there was a problem, but he was worried that something would go wrong." ”

"What are you worried about?" Yangyang's expression was not happy when he spoke, and middle school students were most annoyed by their parents talking about boys and girls.

"Boys and girls are often together, but it's easy to have problems." Lu Tao began to speak directly.

"I don't understand, why is it easy for boys and girls to have problems together?" Yang Yang said this purely knowingly, and he knew that we were embarrassed to explain the problem thoroughly.

"Aren't boys and girls prone to early love when they are together?" I continued. At this time, Lu Tao and I are in a queue, and I have to continue after he finishes speaking, otherwise I won't be able to beat this little guy.

"Puppy love is the problem? Li Dazhao got married at the age of ten, and that didn't affect him to become a great figure later. "Yangyang began to argue with us again.

"Puppy love itself is not a problem, if puppy love affects learning or causes any bad consequences, it is a problem." I say.

"If none of these situations you say don't exist, isn't it okay to fall in love?"

"That's not going to work either!" Lu Tao was in a hurry, and suddenly interjected.

"Why? Why not let one person like the other? ”

Well, we've fallen into a world-class problem again, and we can't get out of it all of a sudden. I was in a hurry, so I had to say: "That's the case, even if there are no bad consequences, the parents of that girl can't find out, they will trouble us, do you want people to come to the door and fight with us?" ”

"Trouble us? I didn't have a puppy love! ”

"Okay, good, it's good if you don't have it."

Alas, this debate is finally over, although it is still not clear in the end, but it always comes to an end, and I think Yangyang will learn some truth from it.

Although there are a lot of worries, we have no reason to stop Yang Yang from going to Wuxue Wenjia to learn guitar, and we can't forcefully prevent him from being with girls, so we can only rely on daily preaching to guide him. But after a while, nothing happened, on the contrary, Yang Yang will soon be able to play and sing songs for us. This makes us very happy, especially Lu Tao, on a whim, learned the guitar with Yangyang, as soon as he had the opportunity, he picked up Yangyang's guitar to practice, and from time to time he played and sang a song to me intermittently, so that I had a romantic mood between me and him that I had never experienced before.

One night, I came back from buying cakes outside the gate of the community, and saw Yang Yang riding a bicycle with a guitar on his back, and to my surprise, Yang Sile walked side by side with him! Does Yang Sile's family also live here? No way? Are they just dropping by? Still is? - Alas, I'm so worried about children nowadays! (To be continued.) )