Chapter Eighty-Four: Psychodrama
The day after I returned from my trip to Pingyao, I began to use my brain, I wanted to find a way to send Wu Xuewen back to his mother, and it was best to let him take the initiative to go back! I couldn't let Wu Xuewen live in my house anymore, not all because I was tired of taking care of him, but more importantly, because I was worried that he would gradually alienate his parents and become dependent on me if he lived in my house for a long time. Pen | fun | pavilion www. biquge。 🔥 What I should have done was to fix the relationship between him and his parents instead of acting as his babysitter.
After two days of thinking, I came up with a plan to let Wu Xuewen return, which can also be said to be a set of family repair plans, and I made this plan like a script, what is the specific content and what is the result, please see the following:
This Friday night, when I came back from work, I bought a hamburger for Yang Yang and Wu Xuewen to eat, this move was the last sugar-coated cannonball attack on Wu Xuewen, plus he and I got along for nearly a month and just experienced Pingyao Tour, he should have been easy to accept my persuasion.
I chose to talk to him after he went to bed, so that he could listen attentively without being affected by the TV and computer. I handed him a bottle of yogurt, moved a chair and sat down next to his bed, and started a conversation with him like a counselor:
"Do you want your mother?" I asked.
He was silent for a moment, then said, "Yes!"
"Do you want to go back to your mother?"
"Yes!"
"If you want to go back to your mother, why don't you go back?"
"Someone squeezed me out?"
"Who?"
"That stinky man!"
"Why are you going to live in my house forever because of that stinky man?"
He was stopped by my question, sucking on the yogurt and not making a sound.
"Do you think your father and mother love you?"
"Love!"
"Do you love them now?"
After thinking for a while, he said, "Love." But now I'm a little angry, they divorced me without consulting me, and they all found someone else, leaving me homeless. ”
"If they don't get divorced, they get angry and fight every day, are you willing? They find someone who really loves them, don't you want to? No matter who they are with now, their love for you has not changed, you see you live with me, your mother comes to see you every day, and your father also calls a lot, and your father bought you a laptop some time ago, which shows that they care about you very much. ”
"But I don't want to live with anyone else. ”
"Is your stepdad treating you badly?"
"It's ok. ”
"Did he buy you a present?"
"Bought. ”
"What have you bought?"
"Bikes and skateboards. ”
"Since your stepfather is good to you, you should also get along with him, and your mother is very sad that you run out now. ”
"I just don't want to accept that man. ”
"Okay, let's talk about it today, you can think about it after you go to sleep, and think about what you should do. ”
I know that although Wu Xuewen does not give in, in fact, his heart has been touched, because during the conversation, I saw the tears soaked in his eyes, and he did not become emotional and angry when he talked about his stepfather like he had done the previous times. His emotions had calmed down now.
The next morning, I suddenly pretended to be panicked and said to him, "Oh no, your mother was hit by a motorcycle!"
"Really?" he asked me, a little incredulous.
"Really, aren't you going to see your mother?" I asked him deliberately.
"Where is my mom now? is she at home?" he asked again.
"At the hospital, do you want me to take you there?" I asked.
"Okay Auntie, you can take me to see my mother now!" he said without hesitation.
"Okay. I said.
When Wu Xuewen heard me say this, he ran downstairs in a hurry.
The original play was done with the help of one of my classmates who was a doctor at an orthopedic hospital. When I took Wu Xuewen to the ward of the orthopedic hospital, Wu Xuewen's mother and my fellow doctor had already made preparations according to my arrangement: my classmate had already tied a thick gauze to one of Wu Xuewen's mother's calves! and Wu Xuewen's mother also pretended to be in pain and lay on the hospital bed. Seeing me and Wu Xuewen coming in, my fellow doctor came up to me and recited the lines I had made up for him: "I have bandaged the patient, you can take the patient home to recuperate after you pay the medical fee." ”
"How much does it cost?" I asked deliberately.
"Five hundred yuan!" said the classmate who stretched out five fingers and shook them in front of Wu Xuewen's eyes.
"Five hundred dollars, but I didn't bring that much money, I only brought twenty dollars. Speaking of this, I turned my head and deliberately asked Wu Xuewen's mother who was lying on the hospital bed loudly: "Did you bring any money?"
"No, I've spent all my money this month. Wu Xuewen's mother pretended to wipe away her tears when she said this.
"What should we do, Wu Xuewen, we can't afford to pay the medical fees now, and we can't carry your mother!"
Wu Xuewen was obviously stumped, standing in front of his mother's hospital bed for a while, he didn't know what to do, thought for a while, and said, "Why don't you call my father?" and let him send the money?"
"Yesterday your father called me and said that he had gone on a business trip to Beijing and would not be back for three or five days. I said it deliberately.
At this time, Wu Xuewen looked at me, then at his mother, and then asked his mother, "What about that uncle?
We all know that when he says that he and Uncle are referring to his stepfather.
"Your uncle went to Taiyuan in the morning, I don't know if he will come back now, or I will call him. Wu Xuewen's mother said, picked up her mobile phone and called her current husband, after the phone was connected, she continued to recite the lines: "Are you back? I was hit by a motorcycle, and the motorcycle that hit me also ran away, thanks to a kind taxi driver who sent me to the hospital, but now I have no money to pay for medical treatment, and I can't go home." ”
"You wait, I've already returned to Taigu, and ten minutes have passed. "I also arranged this sentence of the other party.
About twenty minutes later, Wu Xuewen's stepfather arrived, and he was still very talented in acting and asked his wife with a look of nervousness and worry: "How is the injury?
"The doctor said it was a muscle contusion, but the bones were fine, and the doctor told me to go home to recuperate. Wu Xuewen's mother said, "You should hurry up and pay the medical fee now." ”
At this time, the stepfather pretended to run downstairs, and after a while, he ran up again and said to Wu Xuewen's mother: "I have paid all the medical fees, I will carry you downstairs, let's take a taxi back." Then he picked up his new wife and went downstairs.
Wu Xuewen and I followed behind, and as we went downstairs, I said to him, "Look, if you don't have your new father today, who will pay the medical fees? Who will carry your mother home? That's why your mother wants to find another father for you, she is for someone to take care of your mother and son." ”
Wu Xuewen didn't answer, which means that he began to think about this question.
I put Wu Xuewen in a taxi with his mother, and I rode my bicycle back home. As soon as I entered, I packed his bag and clothes, and sent them back to his house along with the computer his father had bought for him. When I came to his house, his mother was still acting in bed, and his stepfather had already made a pot of egg noodle soup for him and his mother, and was serving them both rice.
"Mother Yangyang, can you also eat a bowl of rice I cooked?" Wu Xuewen's stepfather said to me.
"No, my family's meal is ready, I'll go back and eat it later. Speaking of which, I put down Wu Xuewen's schoolbag, clothes and computer, turned around and walked out, and turned back to him before going out and said, "Xuewen, take good care of your mother these days, don't run around!"
"Okay Auntie!" he promised me!
Oh my God, I finally sent this little trickster Wu Xuewen home!
The next plot was told to me by Wu Xuewen's mother over the phone, she said that Wu Xuewen helped her wash her feet every day, served her food, and helped her stepfather wash vegetables. I told her to just pretend for a week, and then you said that your leg didn't hurt anymore and that you could walk, and then you got out of bed, and you should do whatever you wanted.
One day a month later, I met Wu Xuewen, his mother and his stepfather who came back from outside happily, I asked them where they went, they were all so happy, they said that they had just come back from watching a movie, a very funny movie.
Seeing Wu Xuewen return to his mother and accept his new father, my mood was finally relaxed. But I just feel relaxed for them, and when I come home and see Yangyang, I still can't relax, because Yangyang is too addicted to computers and watches some Japanese anime on the Internet every day.
One day, Yang Yang suddenly asked me to go to the bookstore to buy a Japanese teaching CD for him, and I said do you want to learn Japanese? It turns out that the Japanese anime he watched on the Internet only has subtitle translation and no dubbing translation, so he is determined to learn Japanese in order to be able to understand Japanese directly without staring at subtitles and watching videos!
"What kind of child are you raising? Other children are learning English, and your son wants to learn Japanese?" Lu Tao's mistake was committed again, and he was pushing the blame on me again.
"My child, he is not yours?" I pushed Lu Tao back with a word.
Learn Japanese, learn Japanese, it's not a bad thing to learn Japanese anyway, it's better than playing games. At Yangyang's request, I bought him two Japanese textbooks and two Japanese teaching CDs at the bookstore. I think in the process of learning Japanese, he can reduce the time he spends watching videos, so that he can protect his eyes, otherwise he will be at the computer for a long time, which will be very bad for his eyes.
Sometimes I also think, am I really buying the wrong computer? But then I thought, if I didn't buy a computer, Yangyang might be in an Internet café now, and people can also learn a lot through computers, in this Internet era, without computers, they will not be able to keep up with the times, people are sending emails, you are still writing letters, can you do it?
Surprisingly, Yangyang's interest in learning Japanese is much faster than learning English, and it didn't take him a few months for Yangyang to speak some everyday conversations in Japanese. (To be continued.) )