"If you don't say that you can be an official, you can see what is going on at a glance, but if I definitely can't do it. ○" Wei Dahai said with a smile.

"This is also forced out, and it is okay not to understand the meaning of what they say, otherwise it will be squeezed away after three days. Li Jinghe said.

Officialdom is vanity fair and an arena of interests, so we must be good at balancing the interests of all parties and be good at understanding the intentions of leaders. If a person's ability to perceive human nature is weak and he can't see the subtext of officialdom running on the surface, he is likely to be removed before he understands what is going on. At the very least, the leader will not appreciate, because many of the leader's personal needs can not be directly said, but to rely on the subordinates to figure out, to meet, always according to the surface meaning to understand the leader's intentions, the leader can be happy, and at the same time the insight is strong and can not be too prominent, otherwise the leader feels naked dancing in front of you, you will feel that you are too smart, and this time is over, so you must also grasp the degree.

"It seems that being an official is a profession, and it is a profession with deep knowledge and extremely high requirements. Wei Dahai said.

"To be an official, you must have a strong ability to adapt, and the ability to adapt should mainly rely on talent, because many things in the officialdom cannot be said clearly, and you need to deal with the situation, otherwise either the leaders have an opinion on you or the masses have opinions on you. So a lot of times you have to be able to lie, and make it so that lies and lies are intertwined and seamless. At the same time, lying must also be supported by a strong psychological element, and the heart must be ruthless and hard, otherwise everyone will see it. Li Jinghe said.

"Are you going on the opening day?" asked Wei Dahai.

"Since Secretary Huang said it, I definitely can't go, and as for whether the people below go or not is their own business. Li Jinghe said.

"Then if Secretary Huang knows, he won't be criticized. Wei Dahai asked.

"At the time, it was just talking. It's not spending public money. He won't die and beg for nothing. After all, they are a bit related, and they have to be taken care of if they can take care of them, and it is impossible to say that there is no selfishness, and no one can do this. Besides, he has so many things every day, and he has forgotten what he has said, and no one will remind him. Li Jinghe said.

"That's just as well. Wei Dahai said.

"You're different from everyone else, and you used to have a good relationship with the barbecue square. You should go on the opening day, no one will say anything about you, and you should always be able to take a normal vacation. Li Jinghe said.

"Thank you for your attention. Wei Dahai said with a smile.

"That place is good, and there are these people in the district to take care of it, the business must not be wrong, this qiē has to be counted as your credit, without your introduction, Huang Feiteng will definitely not open a franchise store." Li Jinghe said.

"That day, I heard him say that the house was not rented out, so I proposed to Shouxin to build it. I started to want to rent a barbecue square to build a branch, because the barbecue square has not been ordered in this place yet. Business must not be wrong, I didn't expect him to open a franchise store by himself after inspection. Wei Dahai said.

"Huang Feiteng is not a fool, he has a certain brain, opening a branch is equivalent to renting out, and he can only collect some rent, but opening a franchise store is different, with considerable profits, and with the relationship between Secretary Huang, who will not give him face, not to say anything else, these people in the district are enough. Li Jinghe said.

"I started to listen to Secretary Huang's words, I really had some worries in my heart, and I talked to Shouxin on the phone, and he told me to leave this matter alone, Huang Feiteng will have a way to manage it. Wei Dahai said.

"He is also out of practice now, and he sees the problem more thoroughly, so he doesn't have the heart to go. Li Jinghe said.

"This kid is really capable, and he talks in a set way, but I still admire him for making the barbecue square like this. Wei Dahai said.

"He has a set of business, but he is too realistic, and sometimes he is too real, and he will inevitably suffer. Li Jinghe said.

"It's really not good at all, I am ashamed to live and steadfast, I am really warm-hearted, I am the easiest to stick a knife in both ribs, I am really not calculating people at will, and I am the most compassionate and righteous. If you make friends with real people, once you are in trouble, he will stand up, and when all the people around you leave you, the last one left must be real people. One of the biggest advantages of a real person is that he rarely causes trouble to his friends, and if you make a fortune, he will leave you far away and secretly be happy for you, and after a long separation, he will occasionally call you, but he always tells you that you are living well. Wei Dahai said.

"The key is that you are real and some people are not real, now it is a society of intrigue, a little carelessness will fall into it, in fact, everyone wears a mask to live, circling among all kinds of people, saying some duplicity, in the end it is yang and yin, with suspicion, so you can't be too real. Li Jinghe said.

"Is this a pleasant life? Look at how tired it is. Wei Dahai said.

"Sometimes it's not people who like to intrigue, but often it's the environment that forces them to twist their minds and intrigue for self-defense, and others lure them to do so for power, fame, profit, and so on. Li Jinghe said.

"It's not good to live your life happily, why do you have to fight back and forth, why is it like this in society, every day beware of other people's plots, and you have to plot against others, and the originally simple life has to be dragged onto a thick deck. Wei Dahai said.

At the beginning of people, the nature of the heart is good, the human heart is originally quiet and clear, but it is covered by the growing greed, and at the same time there is the temptation of wealth and fame from the outside world, and the loss of nature is the current situation, and the relationship between people is based on the word Li, and even the relationship between father and son, husband and wife, and brother is also related to the word Li. Li Jinghe said.

"This is against the laws of nature, there is no morality, the indifference between people is unprecedented, how can you live in such an interpersonal environment every day without worrying, if you only use your brains, sooner or later you will perish, just like a bird can fly, if you only care about yourself flying around, you will definitely die. Wei Dahai said.

"From an objective point of view, being a man is of course a virtue and a kind of kindness, but in today's undercurrent society, being too real may be called a stupid hat. Man is a strange animal, fighting with the sky, its joy is endless, fighting with the earth, its joy is endless, fighting with people, its joy is endless, it is really a major feature of human beings, the Creator gave human beings a different wisdom when they created human beings, but I didn't expect people to use it to fight each other, kill each other, and enjoy it, which may be the Lord never expected at the moment of Genesis. Li Jinghe said.

"Isn't it good to be an ordinary person? After all, money and power are things outside the body, and it is already good to have flowers and use, so why do you have to pursue them endlessly, it seems that people's greed can never be satisfied, otherwise why say that everyone is a devil, you must know that life is too short to be happy, and your daughter will come back when you are gone, why bother thinking about it all day long. Wei Dahai said.

"You are now eating and drinking without worry, and you Lao Tzu is behind you, naturally you will not think so much, whether you can eat or drink is definitely different from your thoughts, in order to survive you must find a way, this society is the survival of the fittest, the survival of the fittest, in order to survive must be unscrupulous. Li Jinghe said.

"To tell the truth, people are really tired of living now, not only because they are tired from work, but also because their hearts are very tired. Wei Dahai said.

"What can be done, I have to adapt slowly, the competition is becoming more and more fierce, in the society, if you are not careful, there is no good adaptability and competitiveness is likely to be eliminated by the society. Li Jinghe said.

Now society is like this, people often encounter some unexpected things in their lives, change your life, and even change your character. Everyone lives in a different environment, there are too many such and such unsuitable, not accustomed, but still have to live, if you want to live better, you must integrate into life, adapt to the environment and people you don't want to adapt to. First of all, change your attitude from your heart and realize your ideals from action. There is still a lot to learn, such as being a person, such as doing things. Being a person on the outside and on the inside, sticking to his own principles, being able to handle all kinds of relationships, and being smooth in a certain way is not a derogatory term.

"That being said, some things are not used to being unaccustomed to, and it is still not easy to accept psychologically. "Wei Dahai

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"If you don't accept it, you have to accept it, this is a strange circle, no one can escape, the reason why people will suffer is that they pursue too much, knowing that some ideals can never be realized, some questions will never be answered, some stories will never end, some people will always be just familiar strangers, but they are still struggling to pursue, wait, and fantasize. Li Jinghe said.

Therefore, people live not only physically tired, but mentally tired. Wei Dahai said.

"The reason why people feel tired is that they think too much, the body is not terrible, the terrible thing is the heart, the heart is tired, the heart will affect the mood, will distort the mind, will endanger physical and mental health. In fact, everyone has times when they are burdened by others and burdened by themselves, but some people will adjust in time, while some people are deeply trapped in it and are not happy, there are too many problems and troubles in life, and it is not realistic to live without being tired at all. Li Jinghe said.

"Life is so troublesome. Wei Dahai said.

"If you can't change it, then adapt to it, have a goal, and then you will have motivation and planning in life.

Your life will be colorful, in fact, it is changing, the age is changing, the society is changing, but the change is not so obvious, there is no clear subdivision, everyone is adapting to the society, the society is still changing, there will never be a perfect person, the happiness of the whole world is as beautiful as a flower, but the face of suffering is ever-changing. It's not so tiring to be a true self, and if you change everything, you won't be yourself. Li Jinghe said. (To be continued.) )