"A magnanimous person often has more love than resentment, and he is optimistic, cheerful, open-minded, and tolerant without sadness, depression, or anxiety." Chen Zihao said. For people's shortcomings, they are comforted with love, and they are moved by reason and affection, so that the listeners are moved, admired, and respected. In this way, there will be no emotional estrangement, opposition in action, and psychological resentment between people. Therefore, we must learn to make big things small and small things, deal with complex things as simple as possible, and never complicate simple things.

"It's not that our girls are greedy, we have to make things clear, Hu Er's scar is really not a thing, don't say hello when you saw us just now, I didn't even look at it, I only had his brother in my eyes, I really don't take us seriously, you must know that if you don't come forward to intercede with him, he can still come out, isn't this a monkey with lice, blind, looking at his stinky virtue, I was very angry, if it weren't for so many people present, I really wanted to come forward and beat him, there was no such thing." Xu Feng said.

"He doesn't know what's going on, and he thinks we're watching his jokes, so naturally he's resentful, and it's understandable to ignore him, so don't be like him." Chen Zihao said.

"He doesn't want to think about it, what are we going to do, who will take care of him if he has nothing to do, besides, if he wants to rectify him, it's not easy, call the leader of the police station, this matter will be solved, and we need to come forward in person, why don't you even understand this truth, it's just a big bastard, something that four or six don't understand." Xu Feng said.

"No one is born so good, so noble, everything needs the right guidance, leading to the good is beautiful, leading to evil is evil." Chen Zihao said.

"People like Hu Erscar didn't discipline his parents well, let alone us, this kind of person doesn't cry when he doesn't see the coffin, doesn't give up when he doesn't see the Yellow River, doesn't hit the south wall and doesn't look back, it's hopeless, only the police can cure him, he should really be educated in it." Xu Feng said.

"The world, all living beings, not everyone is the same, there will always be a character you don't like, unsatisfactory practices, tolerate others, tolerate others' unintentional harm, understand others' occasional radical words, and give respect to others' alternatives, such tolerance will get a kind of return, and the reward comes from others' respect and tolerance for you." Chen Zihao said.

"As the saying goes, if you know how to repay your kindness, you will repay your kindness, and we don't want to get anything in return, as long as you can get by, you will be in the middle of it, and you will be kind enough to help him but not appreciate it, you really don't have a little conscience." Xu Feng said.

"When it comes to conscience, although it cannot be seen or touched, it is really reflected in everyone's actions." Chen Zihao said. Some people don't know how to repay their kindness, which is unconscionable. Some people take his dedication for granted, but they also have no conscience. Some people blame others for what they have done, and they still have no conscience. Some people know that they are indifferent to the difficulties encountered by those who are gracious, and they have no conscience. Some people are gullible and hurt those who love themselves by believing in the provocation of villains, which is really unconscionable. Some people do things that have no conscience and shamelessly accuse others, then, there is no doubt that their conscience has been eaten by dogs.

"Who said no, Hu Erscar is rampant and domineering on weekdays, doing evil, without a little conscience, sooner or later he will be retributed." Xu Feng said.

"Whether a person is good or bad depends on his heart and eye." Chen Zihao said.

A person with a good heart is good, and a person with a bad heart is not good. A person's mind is the internal factor that determines his ideological consciousness and moral character, and it is good if his mind has a good ideological consciousness and moral character. If the mind is bad, the ideology and moral character are bad. A person's behavior, speech, and behavior are concrete manifestations and reflections of the good and bad of his mind. People with good hearts do not do bad things, and the situation of good intentions doing bad things is another matter, and specific problems need to be analyzed and treated. A person with a bad heart does not do good deeds, and even if he does a good deed, he will serve his bad heart.

"People with good eyes are loyal to their work and career, dedicated, conscientious, hard-working, and what they do. People with bad eyes are disloyal to their work, disrespectful to their careers, procrastinating, loose, afraid of hardship and tiredness in their work, perfunctory and responsible, and they are afraid of being heavy, and they have to get by. Xu Feng said.

A person with a good heart is friendly and kind to others, respects his parents, respects his brothers and sisters, is sincere and practical, and has good interpersonal relationships. People with bad hearts have no charitable heart, are unfilial to their parents, disrespectful to their brothers and sisters, insincere to others, and have no popularity. People with good hearts are happy to help others, are kind and charitable, care for the poor, sympathize with the weak, help others and feel happy, but can't help others unhappy. People with bad hearts are close to the rich and far away from the poor, only asking others to help them, never wanting to help others, just wanting to get benefits for themselves. People with good hearts never care about personal interests, and in the face of honor, treatment, status, and money, they do not fight or grab, they are humble and concessional, they take advantage of them and are uncomfortable, and they do not care about losses. People with bad hearts and eyes put personal interests first, retreat from the things that suffer losses, rush forward with the things that take advantage, and do not give in to the honor and treatment. A person with a good heart is a good person, never bad people or bad things, never takes ill-gotten gains, looks down on those who seek mercenary, and hates those who deceive, steal, and rob. A person with a bad heart is a wicked person, always a bad person and a bad person, for the sake of money, he has no scruples, unscrupulous means, cheats, deceives, does everything, does all evil.

"Human beings are emotional creatures, and when they get better, they will donate their organs, blood and even their lives, but if they become bad, they can be said to do all kinds of evil, bringing disasters to society and mankind." Chen Zihao said.

Kindness is to love and promote life, the emotion of love is constructive, and only when the emotion is beautiful can you become a good person. Evil is trampling on and ignoring life, and hatred is a bad emotion that is extremely destructive. Kindness reaps kindness, and hatred can only be exchanged for hatred. At the crossroads of good and evil, people should be led to goodness and integrity, in the pursuit of beauty, a person does not advance or retreat, and depravity begins unconsciously.

"My teacher once said that there are two most dangerous professions in the world, one is a teacher and the other is a doctor. To a certain extent, teachers are more dangerous than doctors, quacks harm a person, and quacks harm a group of people, destroying the spirit and heart of children. Xu Feng said.

Once, he took his students to Hangzhou, visited Yue Fei Temple, and saw the statue of Qin Hui kneeling on the ground. In the evening, he asked the students: Do we have to whip him? We need to remember history, not hatred. He believes that in terms of spiritual culture, people will become what they eat. Therefore, he said that education is to cultivate talents, and to produce fewer bad people, no bad people, and to cultivate peaceful and honest workers, which is successful education. To educate people is to educate good people, to turn people who may become bad people into good people.

"A person's emotional intelligence is very important, parents and teachers, it is necessary to let students contact and associate more beautiful things, less touching and describing cruel and cruel killings, and less involvement in evil and treacherous and more treacherous. Imagine, if a person sees a flower, he will love it so much, will be moved by the beauty of life, and be happy with it, how can he not respect life, how can he go to kill people with a knife, how can he do ****** and ****** things? Chen Zihao said.

"To be a person is to be the same as what is on the outside, walk straight, act rightly, do it properly, act honestly, fairly, sincerely, say one thing or two, and uphold justice." Xu Feng said. No matter how big or small, no matter who you treat, you are completely sincere. It's not about currying favor, it's not about getting understanding, it's not about getting things straight, it's just about the people who should do it. And the wrong mind, trickery, duplicity, scheming, tricks, one set in person, one set in the back, saying gentleman's words on stage, and petty personnel off the stage, are definitely not the criteria for doing things for people.

"Be kind to others, be kind to yourself, no matter what, to be a human being is not to be seen by others, but to be true and comfortable for yourself." Chen Zihao said.

Although there are no fixed rules for the study of being a human being, there are some general rules. If you can calm down and study these general principles, you will feel suddenly awakened. People are not afraid of shadows, feet are not afraid of crooked shoes, and the body and mind are peaceful and stable. Good conduct, confidence in being a talent, hard in doing things, selfless in the bottom of the heart, wide in the world, and broad in the outside and inside. As the saying goes, endure for a while, so as not to worry for a hundred days, endure anger for a while, and have no bitterness for life. Practice has proved that forbearance for a while, the sea and the sky. Let three steps, calm the waves. Let people be distracted and forgiving, and end up open-minded and enjoy their lives.

"An open-minded person, even if he has 10,000 kinds of rich money, will be seen as worthless as a crockpot, and a narrow-minded person, even if his interests are as small as a hair, will be seen as big as a wheel. Open-mindedness is a kind of openness. The soul is like a clear spring, which does not tolerate the slightest filth and hypocrisy, it is black and will never be white, it is a deer and it will never be a horse, and the name may be changed, but the nature cannot be changed. Xu Feng said.

"Forgive others with a heart of forgiveness, blame oneself with the heart of blame, a person should be magnanimous, do not care about small things, do not care about personal gains and losses, focus on the overall situation, unite people who have different opinions from oneself, this is called a happy heart." Chen Zihao said.

Learn to be detached and open-minded, always keep in mind that the water flow is always quiet in a hurry, and the flowers are often idle. Let the things outside the body go naturally, see through and think openly, the flowers in the dream are not enough, the illusory things are not moved, and conform to nature. With magnanimity and open-mindedness to tolerate others and accommodate oneself, think openly, see through, afford to take it, and let it go. Gain indifferently, lose calmly. (To be continued.) )