I went to see her twice during my hospitalization, and although I comforted her and told her a lot of great things about cherishing life, I knew that it was not a word of respect and cherishing life that could stop a desperate person from choosing to commit suicide. Pen Fun Pavilion www.biquge.info especially for minors, the reason why they choose to commit suicide is often very related to the attitude of adults towards them, such as Xingxing and Si Le. Seeing today's Si Le, I can't help but think of the stars who have left this world, and the poor stars have not been able to get the understanding of their parents until they die. What is even more tragic is that such a tragedy cannot wake up all parents, and many parents still treat their children very subjectively. However, I was shocked enough by these tragic things that when I faced Yang Yang now, I was always cautious, always afraid that I would hurt him by saying something inappropriate. I suddenly realized that raising a child is so terrifying and terrifying, and if you are not careful, you will lose all your efforts!

Before Wu Daren left, he sent Wu Xuewen to the school's student dormitory, which was tantamount to entrusting the guardianship to the school. After becoming a boarding student, Wu Xuewen did get more constrained, but his parents took less care of him, which was not necessarily a good thing for him.

After Wu Xuewen lived in the school, Yangyang couldn't go to his house to learn guitar, and Yangyang's guitar has been thrown in a corner of the study for the past few days, like an abandoned child.

"Why don't you sell the guitar?" Lu Tao said to me one day, looking at the guitar in the corner.

"What are you selling?" I certainly disagreed.

"Yangyang is no longer learning, what's the use of letting it go?"

"It's not that he doesn't learn, it's that no one teaches him, no, let's hire a guitar teacher for him, we can't let him learn anything and give up halfway, right?"

"Ask a guitar teacher? If you don't spend money, he won't be able to learn the same thing. ”

"How do you know that he can't learn what to do? If he can't become a musician, it's okay to reach the level of playing and singing by himself? If he gets used to giving up halfway, I'm afraid that when he grows up, he will lack perseverance in doing other things, and he won't be able to concentrate on what he does, and then it will be bad. So my opinion, since he has already bought a guitar, he has to let him learn it. ”

"Okay, just do as you say, or you'll say I don't understand education. ”

"Yo, when did you become negotiable?"

"I was good at discussing, but you weren't good at discussing. ”

Now it is really easy for me and Lu Tao to communicate, and we haven't quarreled for a long time.

The cost of hiring a guitar teacher is very expensive, 80 yuan for an hour of teaching, but fortunately, Lu Tao's business has done well in the past two years, from a stall in a shopping mall to two independent stores, so we can still afford this fee.

After Yang Yang knew that he was going to hire a guitar teacher for him, he actually wanted to invite his classmates to come to his home to learn with him, just like Wu Xuewen.

"Do you want to transfer the battlefield from the martial arts scholar to our family?" Lu Tao replied to Yangyang's request.

"What? The last war was started by Si Le's mother, what does it have to do with our children?"

"It's a mess when the students get together, so let's learn by ourselves. I said to Yangyang.

"How boring is it to learn alone?" Yang Yang was unhappy.

"Shall you let your classmates come to our house once on the weekend?" I relented.

"Okay. Yangyang also compromised.

After a lot of things in our family, our temper has become smaller.

A week after the guitar teacher came to teach Yangyang at home, I talked with the guitar teacher and listened to the teacher's evaluation of Yangyang, in fact, I mainly wanted to understand Yangyang's talent in music.

In this way, Yang Yang's talent in music should be average, but it doesn't matter, we don't make up our minds to make him a guitarist, the guitar can bring him fun, become a hobby and specialty for him.

On weekends, my house is lively, three or four children crowd into my house to learn guitar, and Wu Xuewen is also there. And Lu Tao and I always make sure that at least one of us stays at home and takes care of the children in case there are no accidents.

But on such a lively weekend, Yangyang's homeroom teacher, Mr. Han, came to visit. It just so happened that Lu Tao and I were at home. Because the guitar teacher was teaching in the study, I didn't call Yangyang out. However, the reason why Teacher Han came to the door was usually because of something wrong with Yangyang, so after a brief greeting with Teacher Han and a cup of tea for her, Lu Tao and I waited for her briefing.

"Yangyang's scores have been declining for three consecutive exams, and now he has slipped to the back of twenty in his class and one hundred and fifty in his grade, do you know?"

"The results of this exam are out?" I asked, looking at Mr. Han's anxious and worried look.

"Yes, the results came out the day before yesterday, didn't Yangyang tell you?"

"Nope. I shook my head and said.

"I think it's the guitar that distracts this kid, he's in his third year of junior high school now, and he's going to take the high school exam in half a year, can you suspend his guitar learning? ”

"This-I'll talk to Yangyang, Teacher Han, you can also persuade Yangyang, today's children are very willful, they have to listen to their own opinions on everything, and we can't be parents. I said.

"You can't be too laissez-faire with your children, laissez-faire is irresponsible, I found that you control children too loosely, Yangyang's IQ is very high, if you manage him strictly, it is not a problem for him to remain in the top ten of the class, but if you keep taking this kind of relaxed education, he may be in danger of going to high school. ”

"Well, we'll have to talk to him. ”

During the conversation with Mr. Han, Lu Tao didn't speak, but when Mr. Han got up to leave, he suddenly took out a box of special Longjing tea given to me by my niece and gave it to Mr. Han.

"No, no, how could I ask for something so expensive. Teacher Han pushed the tea back.

"Take it and drink it, I have several boxes at home, and I can't drink it. Lu Tao insisted on giving the tea to Mr. Han.

"Teacher Han, take it, I do have several boxes at home. "I stepped forward and grabbed Teacher Han's hand, for fear that she would put down the tea box.

In the end, Mr. Han was very gracious and took my box of dragon wells and left. After Mr. Han left, my smile suddenly disappeared, and I said to Lu Tao with an annoyed face: "Why don't you give away the tea that my nephew bought for me?

"Except for this box of tea, our family has nothing to give. ”

"It's okay not to give it, but the teacher's home visit doesn't have to be a gift. ”

"Teacher Han cares so much about Yangyang, and has visited our home many times, why don't you have any gratitude?" Lu Tao began to frown at me.

"I'm also very grateful to Teacher Han, but you can choose another thing to give Teacher Han a gift, why do you give away what others gave me? I think you didn't give Teacher Han a gift entirely because of Yangyang, you yourself wanted to give Teacher Han a gift, right?"

"Okay, I won't talk to you, I don't want to quarrel with you. ”

Now Lu Tao and I really rarely quarrel, but I found that as soon as Teacher Han appeared, we were prone to unpleasantness, which made me wonder whether to thank Teacher Han or hate her.

But now I can't take care of the box of tea, and the important thing now is to talk to Yangyang again. After the guitar teacher left, I pulled Yang Yang over.

"Why didn't you tell me when the test results came out?" I asked him.

"I was about to tell you that Teacher Han is here. Yang Yang deliberately showed that he was very aggrieved, in fact, I knew that he really didn't want to say his test results.

"Are you going to keep your studies slipping?" I asked again.

"Of course not. ”

"Okay, then I'll wait for your next exam results. I don't want to force you to study, and I basically haven't forced you, but I want to tell you that a waiter in a restaurant is required to graduate from high school now, and it will be difficult for you to find a good job without a college diploma in the future. ”

"Do you think we have high requirements for you?" Lu Tao also interjected.

"Not high. ”

"Isn't it okay for you to study hard?"

"That's right. ”

"Then can you guarantee that you won't regress in the next exam?"

"I'll try. ”

Yang Yang's head began to be lowered, but he was still holding his guitar in his hand. At this time, Lu Tao took the guitar away from his hand and said, "Can you stop learning guitar?"

"No!" Yang Yang shook his head firmly, and then said, "I promise to improve my academic performance." ”

"Well, we believe you. "After I finished it, I let Yang Yang go to sleep, because it was indeed a little late.

In this way, we did not stop Yangyang's guitar learning. However, Yang Yang was still trustworthy, and a month later, his academic performance began to pick up, although the ranking was not in the top ten of the class, but finally stopped declining. I can't guarantee how good my son will be in the future, but at least I can guarantee that he won't be left behind. (To be continued.) )