368 Educational Philosophy
Zhang Hao and Christina plan to take Xixi to experience an authentic Halloween, they believe that Xixi will definitely be quite interested, and they feel that such a different festival will definitely make Xixi happy. Pen ~ fun ~ pavilion www.biquge.info
It's Halloween, but it's actually Halloween Eve, and children put on make-up costumes, put on masks, and go door-to-door to collect candy. Of course, there are also jack-o-lanterns and the like, and there are quite a few games here.
Although there will be a lot of ghost costumes, which can be a little scary, it is not very important, and the most important thing is that the children will enjoy the game.
"Dad, today Ricky is not well-behaved at all, he bullies children. "Xixi is a little talker, and as soon as he got in the car, he started to get into chat mode," he made Mitty cry, and we were all angry. ”
Zhang Hao suddenly became nervous and had to be nervous; school bullying is an extremely difficult problem to solve all over the world, and some studies or some legends say that in American schools, half of the people have been bullied, and the remaining half basically belong to the group of bullies.
What stuffs people in the trash can is a more traditional way, and there are many forms, some are direct attacks, some are verbal attacks. It may be all kinds of slander, it can be deliberate sabotage, etc., and there are still a lot of those little villains.
Especially for older students, the more and more ways of bullying are in school, if not worse.
The nervous Zhang Hao asked, "Xixi, did anyone bully you?
Xixi immediately came to her senses, and the little girl said happily, "Dad, we won't play with Ricky anymore." He wanted to play games with us, and we ignored him. ”
Zhang Hao came to the spirit, Xixi's way of dealing with it is good, and in the face of school bullying, many people will choose to swallow their anger, and this will undoubtedly encourage the arrogance of the abuser. Therefore, you still need to have the courage to fight back, and you can't think that it doesn't matter to you and don't care, otherwise maybe such a thing will happen to you.
It's just that all of a sudden I feel like something is wrong, Xixi they are now at the kindergarten level, children of these ages, unless they have been influenced by extremely good parents since they were young, otherwise normally speaking, it will not be too bad, at most they are naughty and mischievous, and they can't be called bad.
It's just that now Xixi and the others don't seem to be like this at all, these little guys may have helped the bullied Mitty at first, but gradually it seems to be developing in the direction of bullying that Ricky. Although there is no direct fight, many people know that school bullying also includes some cold violence.
Forget it, Zhang Hao knows that the world of these children is difficult to understand, one moment it may be a mutual enemy, but the next second it may be to sacrifice blood for the alliance. These little ones are incredibly fickle, there's no doubt about that.
The most important thing is that Zhang Hao feels that his baby girl must not be the one who is bullied in the school bullying incident; of course, if someone really dares to bully her, she must dare to fight back.
Zhang Hao is patiently talking to the little guy about some things, Zhang Hao naturally doesn't want his baby daughter to become a little bully on campus, of course he wants to discuss some things with Xixi, Xixi still needs to learn, she will definitely encounter more and more things and people, her world must be more and more colorful or it is also a speechless and depressing thing.
Back at home, Xixi naturally won't keep secrets, but in an instant, Xixi was taken by Christie to get an education. Compared with Zhang Hao's simple and crude education method, Christina is more attentive to educating Xixi, and she has a lot of things to say about such things, in short, it seems to be more quality, more rational or more in line with the correct values that most people think.
Zhang Hao hugged the little wolf and began to instill some concepts in the little wolf since he was a child, "Son, you are a man, we can't bully the weak, we can't bully girls." But if someone bullies you, you have to learn from your uncle. Your uncle is very powerful, if someone bullies him, he will lock people in the locker room, and if someone dares to bully his teammates, he will call his teammates to tie up the big bad guy in the trash can. You have to do the same, if someone dares to bully you, you have to fight back, and if someone bullies your friends, you have to stand up. ”
Yu Xiu next to her was angry and funny, she knew about it, "You still said this matter, your mother-in-law is not very angry." He scared a student out of school last time, right?"
Zhang Hao naturally knew about this matter and didn't pay much attention to it, "I heard that it was the little brothers in the school who bullied their rugby team." Besides, if he can't be like a gentleman, he will be looked down upon. I still have the same attitude, I don't bully people, but I can't bully people anymore. ”
Yu Xiu scolded with a smile, "It's not good to fight, how good it is to be a good student, what is the point of being brave and ruthless all day long." Adrian is the same, if he practices hard now, he will definitely get a college scholarship, how can he always fool around. He's going to get into trouble every once in a while, and the naughty students he says are like him. ”
Well, Zhang Hao doesn't deny this, Adrian is indeed a young star in rugby, but he is really restless at school.
Christina came out of the study with Shioshi, who looked confused, and Shioshi looked a little blurry now, a little unsure of how to face the naughtiness of bad children the way her dad told her. Because the way my mother said that I was dealing with it was completely different from what my father said, and even some places still seemed wrong to my mother.
Xixi's little doubts were soon forgotten, and the little girl happily ran to harass the big-faced cat; the big-faced cat still wants to sleep lazy, how can this work, Xixi wants to take the big-faced cat to play games, maybe it's just watching the big-faced cat sleep lazy and want to play a prank.
Christina hooked her fingers, and Zhang Hao followed Christina dejectedly to start a conversation.
"I need to keep you away from our children, I don't want our daughters and sons to be old-fashioned cowboys at all, and I don't want their fathers to be more and more authentic old-school cowboys!"
In the face of Christina's accusation, Zhang Hao exclaimed, "My dear, this is very wrong. I'm not an old-school cowboy, not really. Old-school cowboys are hard-working, and I'm not industrious at all. And you know, my style is not rough at all. ”
Christina gritted her teeth even more and said unhappily, "Of course, you're not an authentic old-school cowboy, because old-school cowboys are more industrious." You've just learned some of the headaches of some old-school cowboys, but you've not learned the good qualities of them!"
Zhang Hao was silent, of course he knew his character, speaking of old-school cowboy or traditional style, that is, like a tough guy, he didn't want to have trouble, and he didn't want to have problems, but if someone wanted to find trouble, then he would solve it with the toughest attitude.
Perhaps, to some extent, Zhang Hao's personality is in line with some Americans' impression of the traditional western cowboy; it can be said that he is bold and generous, but he can also be said to be quite tough in some things.
Christina is criticizing Zhang Hao, of course she likes Zhang Hao's character, she thinks that such a tough attitude is the most manly. It's just that it's okay for her to like this kind of character, she doesn't want Zhang Hao to educate her children in this way; according to Christina's understanding of Zhang Hao, if many things follow Zhang Hao's attitude, there will really be two more little cowboys in the family.
For example, Zhang Hao said that when some people are restless, Zhang Hao's education method is to fight back in the strongest way......
Zhang Hao lowered his head to receive education, he also felt a little funny, and it was indeed the case to reflect on it. Although the old-school, traditional style has a very good place, but for children, this kind of education is not necessarily the best, and it seems that Xixi really can't make a little cowboy.
In the matter of education, I still can't say anything, I still need to listen to Christina's opinions, although some of her opinions seem too conservative and correct to Zhang Hao. However, for a child, this kind of education is good.
Talking and laughing, there is no need to make a big fuss about this matter, it is true to pay attention to it, but it will not affect life.
It's time to get ready for Halloween with a happy Tide, and now she is dazzled, and she sees a lot of interesting clothes, such as little devils, elves, centaurs, werewolves, etc., strange but very interesting.
The little girl thought about it for a long time, because she had a lot of images she wanted to dress up.
However, when he was distressed, Xixi also made a decision, "Dad, buy a little pig for my brother, my brother is a little fat pig!"
The little wolf who bites the pacifier in silly music is now simply not expecting that his first Halloween image will be decided like this, little fat pig......
Seeing that Xixi was choosing Halloween costumes, Zhang Hao and Christina were also choosing.
Seeing Zhang Hao wincing at the police uniform next to her, Christina glanced at Zhang Hao coquettishly, well, don't think that only children will dress up in strange and funny images on Halloween, in fact, adults will also dress up.
In such a situation, there are naturally too many opportunities to choose from, for example, Zhang Hao is now making up for Christina's appearance in a nurse's uniform, police uniform, or flight attendant uniform......
As for Christina, although she was angry and funny, she didn't object, well, the two of them were like this in previous years, although the roles in the dress were a little different, but every Halloween the two of them were very involved.