Liu Jia's son is one year older than Yangyang and has entered kindergarten, I think she should know more about kindergarten than I do. I called her www.biquge.info and asked which kindergarten was better, and she said that her son Wu Kai's Little Star Kindergarten was the best kindergarten in the county, and I immediately said that my family Yangyang would also go to this kindergarten. Because of the economic conditions of Liu Jia's family, the kindergarten chosen for his son must be the best in the county.

A week later, Yangyang and I returned to the rental house in the city from the countryside, and the next morning, I asked for a half-day off from the unit and took Yangyang to Little Star Kindergarten. As soon as he entered the kindergarten gate, Yang Yang was attracted by all kinds of large plastic steel toys in the park, with my help and protection, he first slid a few slides, then rode a wooden horse, sat on a swivel chair, swinged, and so on, played for half an hour, I forcibly took him off the toy and brought him to the principal's office.

"How old are you?" asked the principal, staring at Yang Yang.

"A little over two years old. I said.

"Two years old? No, not old enough, we only accept children over the age of three. "I didn't expect to be rejected by the director as soon as I entered the door.

"Principal, just take him in, no one will help me take care of the child, and if I don't send him to the kindergarten, I won't be able to go to work." I pleaded.

"It's not that I don't accept it, it's for the sake of the child, such a young child can neither go to the toilet, nor eat, let alone wear clothes, and you send him to kindergarten to make the child suffer. The director explained.

"I'll pick him up at noon and deliver him in the afternoon, so there's no question of food and clothing. I said.

"What about going to the bathroom? Does he take off his pants? Does he know what to tell the teacher?" asked the principal again.

"I try to let him go to the toilet before I send him here, and when I come, as long as the teacher takes him to the toilet at the end of class. "I still don't want to take Yangyang away, because if I take it back, how can I go to work in the afternoon?

"Things are not as simple as you think, such a young child's speech communication skills and comprehension skills are too poor, it is difficult to manage, you still take the child back, next summer will be about the same." The principal stood up as he spoke, expressing that he did not want to talk to me any more.

"As long as you take in the child, no matter what the problem is, I will definitely not blame the kindergarten. I swear.

"You say it nicely now, if something really happens to your child, you have to get into trouble with us**, I have been working with children for more than 20 years, and I know the psychology of parents very well. After saying this, the principal walked out of the office under the pretext that something was wrong, and I had to follow.

As soon as I arrived at the unit, I quickly went into my own office with Yangyang in my arms and closed the door for fear of being seen by the director.

"Wow! Bring the little baby and let the aunt hug it. Sister Wang, who was in the same office as me, saw Yangyang excitedly coming over and hugging him.

"I sent him to the kindergarten in the morning, but the principal refused to accept him, saying that he was too young. I said to Sister Wang with a sad face.

"Two years old is really not old enough, why are you in a hurry to send your child to kindergarten?" Sister Wang's expression was the same as that of the principal, and she was puzzled by me.

"No one is looking at him, and I can't bring him to the unit all day. I said.

"He has both a grandmother and a grandmother, so why doesn't anyone watch him? Sister Wang said.

"Grandma's aunt doesn't like it, grandma's aunt doesn't like it, the nanny is irresponsible, you don't want to send him to kindergarten and put him there?" I put on a look of helplessness.

"I don't think it's his aunt and aunt who don't like him, it's that you don't have a relationship with others, okay?" Sister Wang thought it was me who had the problem.

"Heaven and earth conscience, I really haven't offended them, that's the way it is. I said aggrieved.

"I won't talk about your family's affairs, but if you really want to send your child to kindergarten, I can help you find someone to intercede and promise to help you send your child in, do you want your child to go to that kindergarten?" Sister Wang suddenly changed her attitude, sat down and put Yangyang on her lap and said to me.

Hearing that Sister Wang was interested in helping me, I said happily: "Little Star Kindergarten, just go here!"

After hearing what I said, Sister Wang immediately called her brother, who was the deputy director of the Education Bureau, and after a while, her brother called back, saying that he could send Yangyang tomorrow.

When I brought Yangyang to Little Star Kindergarten again, although the principal frowned and had no smile on his face, he did not refuse again, and called a young preschool teacher to take Yangyang away. I followed the preschool teacher to the door of the classroom, and when I saw Yangyang and the children sitting together happily playing with toys, I was relieved to leave.

But when I came to the kindergarten to pick up Yangyang at noon, I found that Yangyang's eyes were red and swollen, his face was full of tears, his clothes were dirty, and his pants were still wetting half of his legs.

"Mom, whoa!" Yang Yang rushed over to me as soon as he saw me, hugged my legs, and cried out in a sad voice.

"You're here, your child has been crying all morning!" said the teacher before I could speak.

"Was it nice to see him when I left?" I asked curiously.

"At first, it was fresh, and after playing with the children for a while, I suddenly started looking for my mother, and I couldn't find you, so I cried, and the more I cried, the more I cried, I only cared about your children in the morning. The teacher was tired when he said this, and it seemed that Yangyang had indeed made a fuss all morning.

"Yangyang, can't you play with children? Why are you crying?" I asked, squatting down and wiping my tears for Yangyang while taking out a handkerchief.

"Ahh

After I took Yangyang home, I hugged Yangyang and thought about it for a long time: How could this be? I remember when my eldest sister's daughter went to kindergarten, not to mention how happy she was, she was jumping and bounceing back, and she never cried, and why did Yangyang cry? Is it timid? No, Yangyang usually behaves no more timid than other children. Is he too dependent on me? You can leave him at your grandmother's house or grandma's house, and you don't cry and cry for your mother. That's probably because kindergarten is too strange to him, after all, he is only a little more than two years old, and he doesn't know what kindergarten is at all, and when he sends it in the morning, he may not know that I want to put him down alone, and then he can't find me, of course he wants to cry, and he even thinks that I don't want to throw him away? Thinking of this, I decided to ask the director for two more days off, and I accompanied Yangyang to kindergarten for two days to help him adapt to the environment.

In the afternoon, after I called the director to ask for leave, I rode a bicycle with Yangyang to the kindergarten, and as soon as I arrived at the gate of the kindergarten, Yangyang began to shout: "No, no, no!"

I picked him up from the back of the bike, but he went straight back and refused to go in. By the time he came to the classroom, he was already kicking and punching, shouting and screaming, scaring the children in the classroom.

"Mom won't go, Mom is with you, okay?" I comforted Yangyang.

"If you are not suitable, you have to let him adapt alone, otherwise he will never be able to leave you, and besides, parents are not allowed to stay in the classroom in kindergarten. "The preschool teacher didn't agree with me.

When I was in a dilemma, the preschool teacher took away the crying Yangyang and said to me, "You leave quickly, let me take care of him!"

I could only listen to the teacher and withdrew. When I walked out of the kindergarten gate and pushed the bicycle, I could still hear Yangyang's heart-rending cry from afar, and I felt a pang of pain in my heart, and tears blurred my eyes in an instant.