On the third night after the start of school in Yangyang, Wu Xuewen's mother came to my house with her little daughter Tian Tian. Pen Fun Pavilion wWw. ｂiquge。 ｉｎfo

"Yo, it's Xuewen's mother here, come on, please come in and sit. As soon as the mother and daughter entered the door, I greeted them, "Come on, Britney, how about a piece of chocolate?"

Xuewen's half-sister is five years old, with a round and chubby little face, just like her name, sweet and cute.

"Thank you, Auntie. Tian Tian took the chocolate I handed her and thanked her politely.

"Yo, the mouth is so sweet, no wonder anyone likes it when they see it. I touched Britney's little face and said. I would also like to have a daughter, but national policy does not allow it, and as a public official, I can only have one child.

"Yangyang went to school?" Wu Xuewen's mother asked me after she sat down.

"Yes, I won't be back until half past ten, I'm tired of going to high school. I replied.

"Yangyang doesn't live in school?" Xuewen's mother continued, taking a sip of the green tea I had made for her.

"No, he doesn't want to live on campus. I shook my head and said.

"Why? Most of the high school students have to live in the school, and even many children in the city choose to live in the school, and the high school curriculum is tight, so it is more convenient to live in the school if you get up early and return late. ”

I laughed when Xuewen's mother said this, and said, "Because you can't play with computers in the student dormitory, don't you know that Yangyang is a person who can't live without computers?"

"Do you still have time to play with the computer when you're in high school?"

"Yes, for Yangyang, it is possible to have no time to do homework, and it is impossible to have no time to play with the computer. ”

"You can't spoil him all the time, high school is a critical juncture, and if you don't work hard, it's too late. ”

"I'm not blindly spoiling him, I just don't want to move the computer at home like Liu Jia, I know very well that if Yang Yang is not allowed to play with the computer at all, Yang Yang's learning will only regress and will not progress, do you think, can a person who is in a bad mood study well? Their generation is a generation that grew up with computers, without which their lives are like a desert, without color and aura. ”

"It's not that serious, is it? We didn't even have a radio when we were kids, so we didn't live well?"

"If you want to say this, in ancient times there was no electricity, and now you don't have electricity to live? Therefore, the times are different, and you can't compare the children with us. But then again, the computer itself is a very energetic learning tool, children will learn a lot of things through the computer, we should consider how to guide children to use the computer, not let the computer just play the role of a toy. ”

After my example and argument, Xuewen's mother was finally convinced, she sighed and said: "Alas, you are right, you really can't compare the child with our childhood, I was still talking about Yangyang just now, in fact, Xuewen's performance is far inferior to Yangyang." ”

"It's much better than before, at least his high school entrance examination score is 500 points, which is a big improvement for him. I said.

I didn't want to learn Wen's mother still sighed: "Alas, what is stronger, what is progress, Xuewen is not even going to school now!"

"What?" I was a little surprised, "you mean Xuewen didn't go to school today?"

"It's not just today, I didn't report to school on the first day of school!"

"It's not okay not to go to school, what are you doing if you don't go to school at a young age? If you don't go to school, you will ruin his own, so you have to let him go to school quickly!"

"Alas, you don't know, what methods have been used, there have been thousands of good things to say, but he just didn't listen, saying that he wanted to start his own business and support himself. ”

"What then?"

"Isn't this looking for you? I really can't think of a way, Wu Daren asked me to ask you for help, and he said that you might be able to persuade you to learn literature. ”

"I? I'm not sure. ”

I really didn't expect Xuewen's mother to come today because Xuewen went on strike!

"Whether you're sure or not, you'd better go and persuade me tomorrow, okay?" Xuewen's mother continued to tell me.

"Oh, this—" As I hesitated, an important person suddenly came to mind, and I asked, "Why hasn't Daren come back?"

"He has been abroad for a few days, and he will not be back until another week. ”

"Okay, I'll go with you tomorrow to persuade you to learn literature, if you can't persuade him, you can only wait for his father to come back." ”

"Okay, I'm sorry for you, I'll come back to you tomorrow. ”

"You're welcome, I'll definitely go tomorrow. ”

In fact, I also want to help Xuewen, anyway, he I watched grow up, and he played well with Yangyang, in my eyes he is like my other son, and he is also very worried about him.

The next day happened to be Saturday, and I asked Yangyang to call a few more junior high school classmates, and I followed Xuewen's mother to Xuewen's residence. Xuewen still lives alone in the three-bedroom house that his father bought for him, and when we walked in, we saw that the interior was full of messes and dirty, so that people could not feel the luxury of this house anymore, but had a desolate taste. Wu Xuewen nested in the middle of a pile of miscellaneous things, like an orphan with no relatives. I think for his father Wu Daren, it seems that he can make up for the debt that he can't keep his son by his side to raise him with this big house worth hundreds of thousands of yuan, and for his mother, pushing off the guardianship is an excuse for her not to guard her son every day. I believe that the two of them love their son, but not enough, they have a bit of a dilemma between raising children and reorganizing their marriage, and they put their son on hold together. Although I can clearly feel Xuewen's mother's concern for Xuewen, this does not win me to understand her, I am a person who cannot tolerate any parent who is not responsible for their children. Maybe I'm at the other extreme, and I'm taking my children too seriously, completely more than myself, and maybe in the eyes of others, my approach is not worthy of praise.

As soon as I entered the door, I didn't immediately mention the matter of going to school with Xuewen, but asked Yangyang and his classmates to play with Xuewen for a while, and only after they giggled did I come over.

"Xuewen, I heard that you play the guitar the best, play a song for your aunt?" I said, touching the guitar beside Xuewen.

"There, so-so. Although Xuewen replied modestly, he happily picked up the guitar and played it for me.

Looking at Xuewen with the guitar in his hand, who can say that he is a child who is not obedient and does not follow the right path? The problem is definitely not with the child!

Xuewen was playing and humming, and several children next to him also sang along, and for a while, this messy room became romantic and warm.

After learning to play and sing, I praised: "It's really good, it's so talented, you can be admitted to a conservatory in the future, and then study systematically in college, and if you don't enter a band in the future, you can also be a guitar teacher." ”

Xuewen's mother reacted very quickly, and immediately understood what I meant, and said with a black face: "Xuewen doesn't plan to go to college, I want to start a business!"

"What? to start a business, is it impossible?" I said aloud in deliberate surprise.

"I don't believe you ask Xuewen. ”

After receiving Xuewen's mother's words, I naturally talked to Xuewen: "Really, Xuewen, you don't go to school, you want to start a business?"

"Yes, I don't want to go to school anymore, I want to go straight to earning money. Xuewen lowered his head as he spoke, obviously lacking confidence.

"Xuewen, Auntie knows that you are a child with a bright brain, and knows that you must have the ability to make money, Auntie just wants to hear about your business plan, Auntie is a person who has come over after all, and can help you with your staff. ”

"Plan?" Xuewen raised his head when he heard this, as if he had never thought of the word "plan", he thought for a while and then shook his head and said, "I don't have a plan yet." ”

"You don't have a plan yet, since you don't have a plan, what are you going to do tomorrow? Or what are you going to do the day after tomorrow? If you want to start a business, you have to have a goal and a choice, right?"

"I thought about it slowly, and then I did it. "As I expected, the kid's mind went blank.

"Since you haven't figured out what to do, it's better to go to school first, Auntie thinks it's better for you to prepare with both hands, otherwise you won't be able to start a business in the future, and you will miss your studies again, and you won't be empty-handed?"

Xuewen resisted again when he heard the word "school", and pouted: "I really don't want to go to school anymore." ”

At this time, I sat down in front of Xuewen, took his hand and said: "Xuewen, in fact, my aunt thinks that it is too early for you to start a business now, and the odds are not great, you are still a child after all, go out to work, you have a low diploma, you can't find a good job, and now the recruiters of the unit are going to graduate from a bachelor's degree at every turn, what kind of job do you say? Do you want to serve dishes in a restaurant? Do you do business, you have no experience and no capital, and you are not proficient in any line, how to do it?" Why don't you continue to go to school, accumulate some knowledge, get a diploma and then go into society, what do you think?"

"But I just don't want to go back to school. ”

Xuewen repeatedly said that he didn't want to go to school, which means that this child is starting to get tired of school, but disgust with school is just a symptom, and there is a root cause of this appearance, for Xuewen, that is, a lack of love! He is very lonely, so he feels that everything is not good there, and he always wants to change the environment. (To be continued.) )