After being frightened last time, I set a discipline for Lu Tao: If he doesn't get home at 8 o'clock in the evening, he must call me to inform me of his location, so that I can find him back at any time, otherwise I will call the police! I am not restricting his freedom, but only for the sake of his safety. www.biquge.info I have seen several cases on TV where he was frozen to death because he was drunk on the street, or crushed to death by a car, or robbed and stabbed, and his family was close at hand but he didn't know it, I couldn't let this happen to him, and I would have to blame myself for the rest of my life. Don't say I'm unfounded, danger is everywhere, we must guard against all kinds of dangers with neurotic alertness, because the slightest danger can be fatal!

Maybe he didn't want his family to call the police because he couldn't find him, Lu Tao went out to drink less at night, but he brought his friends back to eat more often, which increased my burden, every time a guest came, I had to be a chef, although the cooking skills were not high, I also had to have a whole table of cold and hot dishes.

But I didn't get Lu Tao's thanks for my hard work, but he had a lot of opinions about me. Once, as soon as his friends had left after dinner at my house, he said to me with an annoyed face:

"Every time it's fried shredded potatoes with green peppers, can't you change the dish?"

"I'm good at this dish, what if I change it to someone else's taste?" I said.

"Can't you learn a few more dishes?"

I was not happy when I heard this, and said, "You are not satisfied with my free chef, if you are not satisfied, you can change it, I don't want to be it, every time I am tired and my back hurts!"

"My friend's wife cooks better and faster than you, but people never say they're tired, and you just do it a few times and you shout tired, really!"

"Hey, if you really don't like me, please fix me tomorrow, and you can go find a new wife!" I said to him.

"Look, as soon as I talk about you, you don't like to listen to it, look at our house, isn't that day as chaotic as if it had just been a Category 12 typhoon?

"Don't you speak with a bad conscience, I won't clean that day?" I stood up angrily.

"If you clean every day, why is it still so messy?"

"Nonsense, can there be a little bandit at home without messing around? Besides, this is not a military camp, why do you do it so neatly?"

"Okay, since you don't listen to my advice, I won't bring my friends back in the future, and you won't call me everywhere when the time comes!"

"Okay, just by what you say, I won't look for you if you die outside!"

In the face of such a conscienceless thing, my heart is extremely cold! If there is a next life, I will not get married again! Even now, I often want to end this marriage, but as soon as I see Yangyang, my heart softens. I think that when I insisted on giving birth to him, I should have tried my best to provide him with a comfortable and complete home, and not overemphasize my personal feelings. However, as long as I see Yang Yang happy, I feel very happy, as long as I see Yang Yang's smile, all other troubles are really not worth mentioning.

When the weather heats up, Children's Day arrives. This year's "June 1st" is the first Children's Day after Yangyang went to kindergarten, and he was also selected to participate in a dance performance, so early in the morning, I asked for leave with the unit and made a special trip to accompany Yangyang to the kindergarten for the "June 1st" Festival.

According to the teacher's request, Yangyang and I arrived at the kindergarten at half past seven in the morning, because before the show started, the children had to put on makeup. But what I didn't expect was that Yang Yang was actually dressed up as a girl! The teacher wore a white dress for him with a bow on his head! I asked the teacher why he dressed Yang Yang as a girl, and the teacher said that there was one girl missing, and there was one more boy, so let Yang Yang make up for the girl. But a three- or two-year-old child, wearing a girl's clothes and putting some lipstick on his lips, really can't tell that he is a boy. Girls are girls, it's good to be on the show.

After the children put on their makeup, we parents and children were taken by several buses to a theater where the June 1st art show of Yangyang's kindergarten was to be held.

When I came to a strange environment, I saw that Yang Yang was a little nervous and refused to come down in my arms. When it was time for them to take the stage, the teacher asked the parents to send their children to the backstage to line up, and then asked all the parents to quit. Together with many parents, I hid outside the back door and watched the children from a distance, and after a while, I saw several children start looking for their mother, and then the line began to mess up. Maybe the parents don't come with them, and everything will be normal, but the children know that their parents are around, so they start to make a commotion.

"You stay away, don't poke your brain at the door, otherwise the children will be disobedient and will have to find their mother. The teachers said anxiously to the parents.

"Alright, alright, let's get out right away. The parents agreed in unison and began to retreat.

"Mommy, Dad!" As soon as the parents walked away, they heard the children's calls one after another, and I couldn't help but look in again, just in time to see that Yangyang was also looking for his mother, and his eyes were still shining with tears, and he was about to cry. I saw this and left quickly, and I thought he wouldn't see me and wouldn't look for it anymore.

Parents returned to the audience, and when they saw their children's classes perform on stage, they were so excited that they all pointed their fingers and showed off their children to their neighbors. But my seat was a little farther away from the stage, plus the children on the stage were wearing the same clothes, and to make matters worse, Yang Yang was wearing women's clothes, and I didn't recognize Yang Yang on stage until the end of the performance.

"Is your son on stage?" asked a parent next to me.

"Up. I said.

"Which one?" asked again.

"It's the one among the girls. I pointed my finger casually at the stage.

"Girl, isn't your child a boy?" the other party wondered.

"Yes, it's a boy, but the teacher made him dress up as a girl. I laughed.

"Really?" the other laughed.

After the performance, I took Yang Yang to a photo studio and recorded his historical image on camera. But after the photo was taken, there was a joke again, and the photographer asked me:

"How old is your daughter?"

I hastened to explain: "It's not a daughter, it's a son." ”

"Then why are you dressed up as a girl?" the photographer was surprised.

"It's a show requirement. I said.

"Your son likes to play girls?" the master asked again.

"No, there are not enough kindergarten girls. I said.

"Also, since the national family planning, many families want boys, so that the current children are out of gender, the newspaper said, when these children grow up, there will be a lot of boys who can't find a wife, you have to find a daughter-in-law for your son as soon as possible, otherwise it will be left. The photographer smiled and said to me.

After listening to the master's words, I realized that it is indeed not only the problem of one less girl in the Yangyang class today, in fact, in every class, and even every school, there may be fewer girls than boys. As far as I know, several of my acquaintances have secretly done fetal sex determination during pregnancy, and some have had an abortion when they found out that they were pregnant with a baby girl. The situation is even more acute in rural areas. According to the national family planning policy, urban workers are only allowed to have one child, and for rural women, if the first child is a girl, they can have another child, and if the first child is a boy, they are not allowed to have another child.

However, Yangyang is handsome, and it shouldn't be difficult to find a girlfriend when he grows up.

Coming out of the photo studio, I took Yangyang to the supermarket that had just opened a few days ago, and I wanted to buy him a "June Day" gift.

This is a large supermarket chain, I heard that the headquarters is in Taiyuan, and there are dozens of branches throughout the province. There are all kinds of daily necessities in the supermarket, as soon as you enter the supermarket door, you can push a shopping cart with your hand, and then wander among the dazzling variety of goods, and you will take it from the shelf and throw it in the shopping cart, this feeling is very enjoyable, as if these goods are given for nothing without paying for it. Of course, someone will stop you at the exit, and when the cashier asks you for money, you are too embarrassed to return the purchase, so you have to pay hard, so since the opening of this supermarket, the money in my wallet has disappeared very quickly.

I paid more attention to food, and Yang Yang soon found two large rows of shelves full of toys! Seeing Yang Yang standing next to the shelves for a long time and refusing to leave, I thought that since he likes toys, let's buy him a toy as a gift.

"Yangyang, which one do you like? Only choose one!" I said to Yangyang, bowing my head.

But Yangyang didn't say anything, his eyes were soaked with tears, I panicked, I didn't know what was wrong, and hurriedly asked Yangyang: "Baby, what's wrong?"

"Mom, can I only take one of so many toys?" Yang Yang said to me as he looked up at the row of toys with tears in his eyes.

"Yes, we can only buy one! "I took Yangyang's little hand and hoped that he could choose a favorite toy for himself.

But Yang Yang didn't make a choice, because there were too many toys, and he obviously didn't know which one to choose, or whether he wanted both.

In the end, I helped him choose a set of wild animal toys made of rubber, which can help him identify various animals, which is very beneficial.

Later, I couldn't forget Yangyang looking at his beloved toys soaked in tears in the supermarket for a long time, I thought, when I have money that day, I must buy a lot of toys for my son! In fact, my son is sensible, he did not force it, nor did he spill it, but used tears to control his desires, he probably knew that his mother did not have so much money, not everything can be bought home. (To be continued.) )