I have collected many inspirational stories and told him one every day before going to bed. Pen Fun Pavilion wWw. ｂiquge。 infoI want to tell a story to make him understand that it doesn't matter at all that he is not a cadre or not, as long as he works hard, he will be recognized by others, and he will definitely succeed in the future. One night, I read with him the book "If You Give Me Three Days of Light" by Helen, a blind and deaf American writer, and let him know about Helen, a person with a disability and a strong will, and I told him:

"People like Helen, who suffered bad luck at the age of two and became blind and deaf, are so confident that you, as an able-bodied only child, should be happy and happy, and not always worry about small things. ”

Yang Yang listened and said, "I don't bother my mother now." ”

I said, "Don't worry about why your grades have dropped?"

Yang Yang thought for a while and said, "I don't know, maybe it's because I didn't meet a good teacher like Sullivan like Helen." ”

I confess that it was Mr. Sullivan who changed Helen's fate, she taught Helen to write and speak, and she continued to enlighten and encourage her, according to Helen, "She is the one who came to reveal to me the truth of the world, to give me a deep love." "She is the one who reshapes life". But we can't expect every teacher to be like Sullivan. Teachers are also like all people, most of them are ordinary people, they all have seven emotions and six desires, and they can't simply ask how noble the teacher must be. In other words, the overall literacy level of teachers and the overall literacy level of the whole people are synchronized, and when the literacy of the whole people is not high, you don't have the luxury of expecting how pure and noble the teachers are.

So I said to him, "You can't expect every teacher to be as good as Sullivan, there are so many Sullivans in the world? You didn't meet Sullivan in your whole class, but it's not that all of you have bad grades?"

"Maybe my brain is getting dumb. But he said so.

"I don't think you're stupid at all, it's that you don't study hard enough. ”

"I'm working my mother, but my brain is getting stupid. ”

Yang Yang had the idea that his brain had become dumb again, which showed that he was inattentive or unable to concentrate in his studies, and his learning efficiency had decreased. The reason for his lack of concentration may be that his self-confidence has declined, and the reason for the recent decline in his self-confidence must be that he did not go to work, that is, the teacher's disapproval of him.

"No matter what you do, as long as you work hard, Edison and Hua Luogeng became scientists by self-study. ”

"Then I'm going to teach myself at home, right? Maybe I'll become Edison in the future." Yang Yang joked with me with a smile.

"Go, Edison and Hua Luogeng want to go to school and can't go to school, it's not that they don't want to go to school, if they go to school, they will become scientists faster. I gently tapped him on the head and warned him not to talk nonsense.

"But I don't want to be a scientist mom, I don't want to spend all day in the lab, didn't I tell you? When I grow up, I just want to open a toy store!"

Speaking of this, I put him to sleep, because I couldn't convince him for a while, and it might take some time to get him to raise his faith and study hard, and he couldn't just rely on preaching, he had to think of other ways.

I know that when a child thinks that he has not been recognized and treated equally by the teacher, it is difficult to get out of this kind of entanglement, not to mention children, even many adults are difficult to comfort themselves or self-reliant. Take myself as an example, I am over 30 years old, and I don't feel good when I see my colleagues being promoted and reused one by one, and my first thought is that the leader is unfair, and I don't want to face my own problems. In fact, I know very well that even if you do a good job, it is your own problem to not get the common sense of leadership, because you do not have the ability to gain the trust of the leader. This is a kind of interpersonal ability, especially when you don't meet a leader who is good at using talents to work for the common good, and it is sometimes more important to get closer to your leader than to do your job well. Of course, if you are a person who is pessimistic about fame and fortune and career, it is enough to do your job well. But who can completely despise fame and fortune? Perhaps only those monks who have escaped into the mountain gate and devoted themselves to cultivating Buddhism can do so. And Yang Yang is just a child who has not been in this world for a long time, he obviously can't think so deeply, and completely inherited my and Lu Tao's nature of not being good at showing themselves, and will not please the teacher, but blindly thinks that the teacher is unfair to him.

It seems that if you want to regain your yang and self-confidence, you must get the support of the teacher! I decided to go to Mr. Bai's house once this Saturday, I think it is more convenient and time-consuming to communicate with the teacher at the teacher's house, and I also decided to give the teacher the pot of gentleman's orchid that I have at home, I think it will definitely work, although I don't like to do things to bribe others, but now I have to follow the trend and follow the example of others when I have nothing to do.

Unexpectedly, just Friday today, there was a situation, and it was very serious!

At noon, I went to pick up Yangyang at the school gate as usual, and when all the students and parents left, the school gate was empty, and Yangyang was not seen coming out of the school. Strangely, I walked into the school and came to the door of Yangyang's classroom, and saw that the classroom was empty, and there was no one inside. I arrived at the school gate before school ended, and I was standing across the street from the school gate, and I looked at every student who came out of the school, and I really didn't see Yangyang. Isn't it right that I didn't recognize Yangyang? No, Yangyang should be able to see me, and besides, I told him not to run around and wait at the school gate when he can't find me, so he shouldn't have left alone.

I went to the school communication room again, and wanted to ask for Teacher Bai's mobile phone number from the janitor, and make a phone call to ask her if she knew about Yangyang's whereabouts. But the old man in the communication room didn't know Mr. Bai's mobile phone number. At noon, all the teachers are coming home from work, who should I ask? I called Lu Tao, but Lu Tao didn't answer, and I didn't know where he was. Just when I was hesitating whether to call the police, a middle-aged female teacher walked out of the campus, saw me standing at the school gate, and asked me what was the matter, I said that I didn't receive the child, and asked me what class the child belonged to, and I said Yangyang's class number, and then the teacher suddenly remembered something, and told me that he saw Teacher Bai take a little boy out of the school gate, as if the little boy was injured. But the teacher didn't know where Teacher Bai took Yangyang, and he also didn't know Teacher Bai's mobile phone number.

I had no choice but to call my mother-in-law, because Lu Tao had not been able to contact her. In addition to Lu Tao, the first thing I thought of was my mother-in-law, not only because she was Yangyang's grandmother, but also because she was powerful in my mind, I was less panicked with her by my side, and I felt that calling my mother-in-law was more effective than calling my brother-in-law and sister-in-law. After more than ten minutes, my mother-in-law arrived at the school gate to meet me, and my mother-in-law said that Mr. Bai must have taken Yangyang to the hospital, so my mother-in-law and I went to the nearby Chinese medicine hospital, but we searched all over the hospital and did not find Yangyang, and then we took a taxi to the people's hospital a little farther away, and did not see Yangyang and Mr. Bai. Did Teacher Bai really take Yang Yang away? Could it be that the little boy Teacher Bai was carrying was not Yang Yang, but another child? It seems that I have to call the police! I took out my mobile phone, and as soon as I pressed out a few numbers of 110, I called, and when I answered the phone, it was Teacher Bai who spoke, and she said that Yang Yang was injured, and she was taking Yang Yang to bandage in a small clinic on East Street. My mother-in-law and I knew that we would run to a larger hospital, but we didn't even think about a small clinic.

When my mother-in-law and I hurried to this small clinic on East Street, we saw Yangyang sitting honestly on the hospital bed, with a circle of gauze obliquely wrapped around his head against his right eye, and his right eyelid was swollen, looking like a frightened captive, and his face was pale.

"What's going on, Mr. Bai?" I asked Mr. Bai, who was standing aside, in surprise.

Teacher Bai obviously hesitated for a moment, and then said, "He accidentally fell." ”

"How did you fall?" I still want to know the details.

"I was in class and I heard him talking in the back row, and I went over and asked him to stand up, and he fell down before he could stand up. The teacher explained.

The experienced mother-in-law immediately heard the problem, and asked the teacher with an unhappy face: "You must have dragged him, otherwise how could he fall like this without anyone touching him?"

In the face of doubts, Teacher Bai stood there and didn't say a word, it seems that she may indeed have touched Yangyang, otherwise she would defend herself. But I didn't want to hurt my teacher because of this incident, so I hurriedly stepped forward and grabbed my mother-in-law and said, "Mom, don't say that, I think it's just a skin injury, it doesn't matter, let's go back, it's not early, Yangyang hasn't eaten yet." ”

Of course, I didn't eat either, but I knew that emphasizing the fact that Yangyang didn't eat would be more eloquent. Sure enough, the mother-in-law was not ready to fight, she said to Teacher Bai: "Let's talk about this matter tomorrow, let's take the child back first." She knew that it was more important to take Yang Yang back to eat right now, and she, like me, also thought that Yang Yang was not seriously injured, she just let out her anger, and she didn't want to hold Teacher Bai around.

Before going out, I thought I should confirm Yangyang's injury with the doctor, although it didn't seem to be serious on the surface, only the doctor was qualified to draw conclusions, so I turned around and asked the doctor, "It's okay, doctor?"

"It doesn't matter, two stitches, and it will be fine in a few days. The doctor said.

I originally thought that after asking this sentence, I would go home with my mother-in-law with Yangyang, and I didn't want the word "stitches" to sting my mother-in-law, and suddenly my mother-in-law exclaimed: "What?

"The doctor said it would be fine in a few days, it really doesn't matter, let's go back, Mom. I comforted and urged my mother-in-law, but I regretted it in my heart, I shouldn't have said that more.

But my mother-in-law ignored me completely, withdrew one leg from the door, turned around and glared at Teacher Bai angrily, and said, "If we spend money to hand over the child to you, you will be responsible, aren't you? Now that the child is injured like this, what are you going to do? Just bandage it and it's over?"

At this time, Teacher Bai, who had been silent for a while, heard her mother-in-law say this: "Auntie, if you have any requirements, just say it!"

"Okay Mom, don't say it, let's go!" I urged my mother-in-law again, grabbed my mother-in-law's arm and used some force, trying to pull my mother-in-law out of the clinic, but my mother-in-law stood still and decided to confront Teacher Bai.

The mother-in-law said, "What's the request, you should at least apologize?"

When I heard my mother-in-law's words, I let go of my heart, and I thought that my mother-in-law was going to claim compensation from the teacher!

"Okay then, I'm sorry!" Mr. Bai bowed slightly at the request of his mother-in-law and apologized to us.

"Forget it, pay attention to it in the future, now every family has this one baby, it is a treasure in the palm of the parents' hands, you have to take care of the children. At this time, my mother-in-law was relieved, and finally said a word and I took Yangyang out of the clinic.

"Thank you, Mr. Bai!" I walked out of the clinic door, and I suddenly turned around and said something like this. I mean that the teacher can bring Yangyang to the clinic in time to bandage, which should be thanked. And I never thought of holding the teacher responsible, and even I thought that the teacher was not wrong at all, it was Yang Yang's fault first, he should not have spoken in class, and the teacher had this accident in order to educate him.

But as soon as I said it, I regretted it, because I was immediately reprimanded by my mother-in-law: "Thank you for what? She beat Yangyang, do you want to thank her?"

I was too scared to speak, because the more I talked, the more I was reprimanded.

After we left the clinic and walked for a while, Yang Yang, who had never said a word, spoke: "You scared me to death, you dare to quarrel with our teacher, let me dare to go to school again in the future?"

The situation just now frightened Yangyang, and I hurriedly said to Yangyang: "Don't be afraid, grandma is right, you are responsible for hurting the teacher in class." ”

"The teacher has a responsibility and doesn't dare to say it, don't you know that I am under the rule of Teacher Bai? offended Teacher Bai, how can you let me stay in the class? unless you change classes for me!" What surprised me was that Yang Yang used the word "rule" when describing his relationship with the teacher, and I could clearly feel the fear in his heart.

"Then don't be afraid, if this teacher treats you badly in the future, grandma will change your class. Mother-in-law cheered Yang Yang up.

I didn't say anything more, I planned to go home and talk to Yangyang again. (To be continued.) )