"It's really good, the old man has become the dean, and we will follow suit. Xing Yanfang said happily. "It's someone else's business to be the dean, and you follow what light. Yuan Weihua said.

"All the nonsense, if there is no old man to come forward, you will be mixed in, I would never dream of being an official in this life, and I will not be transferred to work in the Disabled Persons' Federation, if I was in the previous unit, I would have to be exhausted to death, how can I have a free job now, and the salary is a lot, this qiē is the credit of Lao Tzu, it is impossible to do it in your life. Xing Yanfang said.

Yuan Weihua didn't speak at a glance, what else could he say, if there was no secret help from his in-laws, how could he be today, and his wife would not be able to transfer to work in the Disabled Persons' Federation, and when his daughter came back, how could he talk to his wife when he finally went home, so that the child would be unhappy. During pregnancy, a bad mood does not affect the development of the fetus, which is a lifelong event, so you can't say anything.

"You must take care of Lao Tzu, don't make him unhappy, and you can work for a few more years if you are in a good mood, so that your life will be better, and we will follow suit. Xing Yanfang said.

"I know that this promotion was all insisted on by Secretary Gu again and again, and it was only agreed by everyone, otherwise I would have arrived today. Yuan Yuan said.

"The old man has a certain relationship, and this matter is not a problem for him, so it is natural to become the dean. Xing Yanfang said.

The mother chatted happily, Yuan Weihua and the two chatted very happily, very happy in their hearts, and of course he was happy about his daughter's happiness. It's not early, Yuan Yuan wants to go back, when she goes out, Xing Yanfang once again told her daughter that she must take care of the old man, follow him everywhere, and not make him angry, it is their blessing to be the dean for a few more years, Yuan Yuan nodded and left home.

After Yuan Yuan left, Xing Yanfang said: "The old man really has two hits. should have retired, but he didn't expect that he would be promoted to another level after his activities, it can't be said that he has no ability, and ordinary people can't do it at all. Let's go tomorrow night, as a family, we should congratulate us on becoming the dean, which is also our heart. ”

"Let's go and make some mess. He is his dean, and you live your life. There is no need to rush to slap up others, so as not to make people look down on them behind their backs and say that we are too snobbish. Yuan Weihua said.

"It's useless, how can this be to add to the chaos, the old man became the dean, this is a once-in-a-lifetime opportunity, there is a way to get the moon first near the water, there are people in the court who are easy to do, and it is not good to make use of this relationship. It's too late for people to catch up, try every means to get close to him and please him, but it's good that you ignore other people's stubble, you are really a nerd, and you don't understand the world at all. Xing Yanfang said.

"But it can't be like that. You can't do things that you can't do to make people know that you can laugh. Yuan Weihua said.

"It's really incorrigible, how can this be a slap in the horse, we are in-laws, and the two sides come and go very normally, who would say that ours is not. Xing Yanfang said.

"The in-laws return to the in-laws. These are completely different things, you can't please others just because you become the dean, let people know, I don't want people to talk behind my back, and it's not better to live my own life. Yuan Weihua said.

"Your mind is too small, what is the complexity of things, what is this. Take it for granted, and who will be able to say anything. Xing Yanfang said.

"It's not that I'm complicated, it's that I'm thinking too much. Yuan Weihua said.

In fact, many things in life are very simple, you don't have to spend a lot of effort to break your brain, the same is true of the ideal of life and love, many times it is just equivalent to the first grade of mathematics, or there is no school at all when the problem of illiterate people and rabbits in the same cage thinking, open the cage and count it, why spend so much effort to list so many equations to calculate, and more importantly, why put chickens and rabbits in the same cage. Sometimes people take the hard road and don't realize that there are some roads that they don't have to walk at all. Some people go and they are desperately hurrying, thinking that after walking a lot of hard roads, there will be heaven, but who knows that heaven is where they used to be. It can be seen that there are no complicated things in the world, only complex minds and black holes like no boundaries and no depths. It's like a tree, with many thinner branches, and countless leaves, and countless cells. Actually, it's just a tree.

"What you say makes sense, but the reality is different from what you think, the old man became the dean, after all, talking counts, and sometimes he can still use it, it's not too much to have a good relationship, and what's the low point of going. Xing Yanfang said.

"It's better for me not to go, I can't go at any time in the future, I have to go tomorrow, so that people are pleasing people. Yuan Weihua said.

"After talking for a long time, I still don't understand, it's really unreasonable, let's go tomorrow to explain that we have them in our hearts. As the saying goes, people are in good spirits when they are happy, and we will definitely be happy tomorrow. What is it in the future, if you don't congratulate you on such a big happy event, you will think that if you don't take them seriously, how will you get along in the future. No one is a roof with a door, a stove pit and a well, and nothing is asked. I usually have a good relationship, and I can talk when I need it. At such an old age, why don't you understand anything. Xing Yanfang said.

"If you want to go, I'm not going anyway. Yuan Weihua said.

"You dare, you must go with me honestly tomorrow and say more good things about the New Year, in fact, this should be your business, and you need to be careful. Xing Yanfang said.

Yuan Weihua didn't speak at a glance, Xing Yanfang knew what he was thinking, and he was unwilling to curry favor with his in-laws. It's really pedantic, the brain is not open at all, and the in-laws have become the dean, which is a great thing. Who is not happy to have such a good family, he is good, like no one else, to think that he is slapping others. How can this be considered a stammer, besides, even if it is a stammer, who does not stammer, who does not stammer, don't think that after a few days as a teacher, he will think that he will be high and high, and he will not take others in his eyes, so sooner or later he will suffer a big loss.

"I'm a little unconvinced, isn't it?" Xing Yanfang said.

"It's not that I'm not convinced, I'm saying that it's not necessary at all, the in-laws are in-laws after all, and the scale must be grasped well. Yuan Weihua said.

"You have also been the director for such a day, you are an official, you don't understand any human feelings, if no one secretly helps, you will be in that position. Xing Yanfang said.

This is something that should be grateful, and I will remember him for the rest of my life, but I can't always talk about it. Yuan Weihua said.

"As the saying goes, the grace of dripping water, when the spring reciprocates, we are in-laws, whether we repay or not, people don't care, they don't expect this, this time the old man became the dean, we should go to congratulate, at least let people feel that we have him, we must be happy when we go." Xing Yanfang said.

"But I always feel a little low, at such an age, I can't say that kind of thing. Yuan Weihua said.

"If you can't say it, you have to say it, because the old man is now the dean, and his words and deeds are more counted than before, and he has a certain interpersonal circle, everyone will give him face and make him happy, and we will be much easier to do things. At least you can work for a few more years, this is not a matter of the old man's words, there is definitely no hope for promotion, work for a few more years in a down-to-earth manner, and earn more wages than anything, so there is no loss if you say that you are low. Xing Yanfang said.

There is a word called long eyes, which means that when doing things, we must act at the right time, see the wind and make the rudder, and be good at changing faces. In this way, you can do it just right and get twice the result with half the effort. If you don't do things with a long eye, you won't look at your face, you won't judge the situation, and you will blindly go your own way, regardless of the feelings of others. In the end, it will be thankless, and you may suffer a big loss.

Long-eyed people are always able to accurately judge the heat, and do a good job at the right time and place, and it is often easy to get praise from others. People who don't have long eyes think that they have put a lot of effort into it, but in the end they can't get the affirmation of others, and on the contrary, they are complained by others and even arouse the anger of others. A long-eyed person will definitely look at the face, act when the opportunity arises, and judge the situation, but it is not exquisite. Observing words and colors is a basic technique for manipulating freely in human relations. On the contrary, if you don't know how to read words, you don't know the direction of the wind and turn the tiller, and if you don't get it right, you will capsize in a small wind and waves. This is also the so-called people who do not have long eyes, people who do not have long eyes are a leaf of obstacles, they do their own thing, they have eyes but no beads, and long eyes sometimes make people feel a little tired, but it is not difficult. As long as you are wiser, more attentive, and more diligent, you can be a person with vision.

If it is said that looking at the color is like looking, then the face should be like the weather, and there is a deep knowledge, because not everyone can be happy and angry at all times and occasions, on the contrary, laughing on the face and crying in the heart. Eye color is the most important point of attention in the face, it can involuntarily tell us the truth, let us have a deep understanding of their inner intentions, people will have different ways of treating people and things, of course, there will be different attitudes and methods towards the same person and different things. It can be said that human beings have a wide variety of opinions on everything. A correct view and method may not always be correct, and must be constantly changed in accordance with the changes of time and place. Therefore, being too stubborn and not knowing how to be flexible is tantamount to being cocooned and unable to move. Therefore, in order to behave in the world, you have to adapt to the situation, just like a lizard changing color, which color is suitable for protecting yourself, so that you can be like a tumbler, no matter who pushes and pulls horizontally, the purpose of your own work is not to fall. (To be continued.) If you like this work, you are welcome to vote for the recommendation ticket, your support is my biggest motivation. )