140 Teaching aids
After Yang Sile recovered, he did not return to No. 2 Middle School, but transferred to a high school in another county. Pen Fun Pavilion wWw. biquge。 info
Two months later, Li Xiaoqiang was sent to a juvenile correctional center, and I heard that he would stay there for two years, and after two years, I don't know what this inferior and strong child will look like. I heard that his parents were not present at the trial, and even the lawyer did not invite him, only his elderly grandparents wiped tears from the gallery.
Yang Sile's mother gritted her teeth with hatred when she mentioned Li Xiaoqiang, saying that the sentence was too light, and he should be sentenced to ten years or indefinitely, saying that such a bad child will always be a scourge and should not be let out. And I only sighed when I heard it, sighing that Li Xiaoqiang didn't learn much about benevolence and righteousness, sighing that he didn't have a healthy psychology, and sighing that he didn't have a good growth environment. I believe that he is not bad by nature, and it should be the extreme psychological imbalance that causes his irritability. He always seems to be worried about being squeezed down, for example, his most direct competitor Wu Xuewen, whether it is family strength, social skills or appearance, far surpasses him, plus he is the squeeze object of the squad leader, these may make him feel very frightened, very desperate, and want to use transfer schools to escape, but he is not willing to be a deserter, and wants to use the method of taking away Si Le to pretend to be a winner, but he was rejected by Si Le, so his despair and fear broke out. However, I think Sile's hesitation among the boys was also one of the reasons for this tragedy.
Wu Xuewen did not listen to his parents' words and transferred to Taiyuan to study, but insisted on staying in the second middle school, he said that he was reluctant to part with Yangyang. I don't know if I'm reluctant to Yangyang or I'm waiting for Si Le.
After this bloody incident, the school has become stricter with students, explicitly forbidding students from falling in love, and requiring parents to continue their children every day without supervision between school and home. This may be the positive value of this bloody case, the so-called blood lesson!
The impact of this incident on Yang Yang is also very obvious, he suddenly became much quieter, as quiet as after being beaten by the white teacher in elementary school, he didn't go out at home after school, he rarely even played football, and the guitar was also put away by him. He looks like this makes me very worried, it took me several years to get him out of his autism, could it be that now he is going back to the past? Probably not, he is almost eighteen years old, he will not be as fragile as he was when he was a child, maybe he feels lonely because of Yang Sile's departure, I know very well that he also likes to play with Yang Sile.
I sat down and talked to Yangyang, and told him not to think too much, everything should be as usual, play when you should play, learn when you should learn, maybe you have to experience something in life, today you encounter such a thing, tomorrow may encounter another unpleasant thing, but no matter what you encounter, you must face it positively. I also told him that you are now a high school student, and you are about to enter the third year of high school, you should put your studies first now, and ensure that you can enter the university smoothly next year, and a person who does not know what the focus is and does not understand what he should do right now is the most likely to fail. Yang Yang nodded in agreement after hearing this, and he reassured me, saying that his mood and study would not be affected, but he just thought that there was only one year left before the college entrance examination, and he wanted to spend more time on studying. I was relieved when I heard Yangyang say this, and jokingly said that he finally knew that he was a college entrance examination student and remembered to study.
Sure enough, Yangyang showed unprecedented diligence in learning, getting up in the morning to memorize English words, returning late to read at night, all kinds of teaching and auxiliary materials piled up so high, looking like he was going all out to sprint for the college entrance examination, aiming to win.
One morning, Yang Yang gave me a book list and asked me to go to the bookstore to buy tutors for him.
"Okay, okay, mom will buy it for you right away. "I said yes, grabbed the book list, and called his dad out.
In the past, Yangyang asked me to buy either toys or comic books for him, and this was the first time to buy teaching aids, so this time shopping for him was my most positive one.
I asked Lu Tao to drive me and enter the bookstore as soon as I saw it along the street. Nowadays, bookstores mainly sell teaching books, and if you walk into a bookstore, you will be filled with a wide variety of teaching books of different sizes in front of you, and those literary books that used to be the main distribution of bookstores have been squeezed into the corner. The bookstore has become almost a supporting institution of the school, as if it existed only to provide teaching materials for students. Among the thousands of supplementary books, it was difficult for me to find the books that Yang Yang wanted, and finally I found them with the help of the bookstore staff.
But the day after I bought these books back for Yangyang, Yangyang also brought back a bunch of teaching aids from the school, and most of them were duplicates of the ones he asked me to buy.
"Why did you buy another set?" I asked Yangyang.
"No, these were bought by the teacher. Yang Yang said.
"There are several copies that are the same as the ones we bought, so you can return the duplicate ones to the teacher. I said.
"I'm afraid not, this is what the teacher ordered for us from the bookstore, and the things ordered are not allowed to be returned. Yang Yang shook his head and said.
It is said that teachers order supplementary books for students in a unified manner, which is also to facilitate tutoring students in the classroom, and teachers are more experienced in choosing supplementary books and can better ensure the quality, but it is not excluded that some teachers have too many students order supplementary books and help bookstores sell inferior books to students in order to get kickbacks. I found that there were multiple versions of teaching aids in Yangyang's hands for the same course, and the inferior books full of typos and questions were also mixed in. So, I was very dissatisfied with the behavior of some teachers who used students for profit, and this time I said to Yangyang:
"If you're embarrassed to ask the teacher to leave, how about your mother go to him?, although it doesn't cost much, you can't waste money?"
Yangyang was anxious when he heard this, and said to me: "Mom, don't worry about it, the other parents don't say anything, you have an opinion." ”
"It's not that there is an opinion, it's that there is no need to buy books repeatedly!"
Although Yangyang was not happy for me to go to the teacher, I still secretly found their homeroom teacher with a few duplicate books, saying that I had already bought these books for Yangyang, and we didn't want to buy them on behalf of the school. I don't want the homeroom teacher to say the same as Yangyang, saying that the book was ordered from the bookstore and cannot be returned. The teacher said that it doesn't matter if you have one or two more books, you can put one at home, one in the classroom, and read on both sides, and finally said that in the future, you parents should not buy books for their children, sometimes it is not much use to buy, and children do not have so much time to read. I was going to argue with the homeroom teacher for a few words, asking him if the school had asked the students for their opinions when purchasing these teaching aids for the students, but I thought that it would be bad to make the teacher unhappy, and it would be bad if the teacher spilled his anger on Yangyang, so I endured it and returned home without saying anything more. In this way, most of the current teachers still work as bookstore salesmen, and without these teachers with strong book sales skills, I think a few bookstores on the street would have to close.
After the return failed, I took the extra textbooks to my bedroom and read them every night before going to bed, so that sometimes Yang Yang didn't understand anything, and I could tutor him a few times. But when I picked up a Chinese tutoring book and read it, I found that there were too many mistakes in the book, either the wrong words, or the repetition of the questions, and more seriously, the problem of wrong answers. How can this work? It's okay to buy a few more books, isn't it misleading to buy a book with the wrong answer? I couldn't help it, so I went to the teacher again. Fortunately, this book is not the one that we repeated, it was purchased by the school, otherwise it would not be clear. This time, the teacher had nothing to say and returned the money to me.
But when Yangyang came back from school at noon, he had an annoyed face as soon as he entered the house, and before I could ask him, he blamed me and said, "Mom, I said you don't want to go to the teacher, you want to go, guess what the teacher said? The teacher said that he would no longer buy teaching aids for me in the future, and said that he couldn't explain to you!"
"Hey, if you don't buy on behalf of you, you won't buy on behalf of you, what's the big deal, let's just buy it ourselves." I said disapprovingly.
"What the teacher talks about in class are all books that the teacher bought for us, what if we buy them differently? Do you want me to leave the classroom and study completely on my own?"
"Then we won't buy the books according to the list of books purchased by the teacher?"
"That's so easy, some books can't be bought. ”
"Really?"
Looking at Yangyang's sullen appearance, I feel that I have made trouble for him, offended the teacher, this problem is a big problem, he told the principal in elementary school because I told the principal about the teacher falling and injuring Yangyang, and the teacher has not given Yangyang a smile for five or six years, and now the college entrance examination is approaching, and the teacher is still offended? But there is no mistake, we can't find the teacher to apologize, right? At this time, I missed the head teacher of Yangyang Junior High School, Mr. Han, who was Lu Tao's first love, and was very good to Yangyang. Of course, most of the teachers are good, but we met two people who are difficult to compliment. Later, I thought that it doesn't matter if we lower our heads a little for our own sake, and this is not to say that we are spineless, but to adapt to this society. I said that the world is imperfect, and sometimes we can't be too upright, and we have to bend when we should.
I looked for a Sunday, and went to the teacher's house under the pretext of looking for a teacher to understand Yangyang's learning situation, and forcibly asked for the book I returned again, and told the teacher that it was inevitable that half of the words in the book would be misprinted, and the compilation level of the book itself was still high, so let Yangyang take it and learn. Before leaving, I also put two toys for the teacher's two-year-old child, pretending that Yangyang had played with it when he was a child, and now it is useless. Seeing the teacher send me out of the door with a smile, my hanging heart finally let go.
A few days later, Yangyang gave me another book list, saying that the teacher had designated me to buy it. I asked him if he didn't always buy on behalf of the teacher? Yangyang said that the teacher would not buy on behalf of the teacher in the future, and made a list of books for the students to buy by themselves, and told me that they had to go to the underground bookstore outside the West Gate to buy them.
Well, since it was the teacher's will, we had to carry it out quickly, so Lu Tao and I ran around the street with a book list. At first, I didn't believe that only the underground bookstore that Yang Yang said had these books, but after running several bookstores, I really didn't buy them, and finally had to drive to the underground bookstore. In fact, this underground bookstore labeled "Genius Bookstore" is very famous in the local area, and most of the books designated by the teacher to buy are in it. Although the bookstore is located in a bustling business district, nor near a school, but is tucked away in the basement, it is the largest bookstore with the largest number of local customers. In other words, the owner of this bookstore has developed most of the teachers in the county into his salesmen! I have to admire his marketing ability, that is to say, the quality of the books is not good, the size and location of the store, as long as it can break into the school, it will be the hegemon of the local book market. (To be continued.) )