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Hua Junyao's eyes flashed slightly, something unpleasant happened just now, so she said, "A father was criticized by the leader in the unit, and when he got home, he scolded the child who was jumping around on the bed. The child was angry in his heart and kicked the cat rolling around him. The cat fled to the street, and a man came by on a bicycle, and the man quickly avoided it, but injured the person on the side of the road. ”

After the words fell, Hua Junyao's eyes swept over her family one by one, looked at them thoughtfully, and smiled with satisfaction.

This is known as the "kick-in cat effect" in psychology, which depicts a typical contagion of bad moods. People's dissatisfaction and bad mood are generally passed on in turn along the chain of social relations, from the high status to the low status, from the strong to the weak, and the weakest who have nowhere to vent become the ultimate victims. In fact, it is a contagion of mental illness. This brings us to the question of "demeanor".

Just now, the father was Chi Guoguo's anger, and now the second brother's face is still facing the Five Finger Mountain!

The ancients said: self-denial, revenge. Self-denial means being able to control one's emotions rationally and being kind to others, giving comfort and encouragement to the tired souls around us.

Hua Junyao doesn't want such a trivial matter to stiffen the relationship between the family, they should be unanimous to the outside world.

Hua Chengjin said suddenly, "I won't kick the cat to vent my dissatisfaction." ”

"That's right. Hua Junyao hugged Hua Chengjin and smiled.

In life, everyone is a link in the long chain of the "kicking cat effect", and when they encounter people who are inferior to themselves, they have a tendency to transfer their anger. When a person indulges in negative or unhappy things, he receives both negative and unhappy things. When he transfers his anger to others, he focuses on things that don't go his way, and over time, a vicious circle is formed. It's the same with good moods, so why not carry on your good mood with the pyramid?

"Dad, mother, don't be angry with your second brother. Hua Junyao comforted, "This is not the second brother's original intention, and it is not what the second brother wants." However, we unconsciously did this and complained about the second brother. Maybe afterwards, there are some regrets. 'How did I send God away like that?' and then kept wrestling with remorse and repeating the same mistakes.

Have you ever thought about the battle to turn the tide of emotions from the beginning? The focus of the question is on the dean and his wife. ”

Hua Songnian looked at Hua Junyao sullenly, with a somewhat tangled expression on his face, "It's easy for you to say, how to untie this knot now?"

Hua Junyao continued with a smile, "The customer pointed to the cup in front of him,

He shouted to the waiter, "Miss, come here, look at it! Your milk is spoiled, and it has ruined my cup of tea!"

The waiter said, "I'm so sorry! I'll change your glass right away." ”

The new black tea was quickly ready, with fresh lemon and milk on the side of the plate.

The waiter gently placed these in front of the customer and whispered, "Can I advise you not to add milk if you put lemon, because sometimes citric acid can cause milk to clump." ”

The customer's face turned red all of a sudden, and he hurriedly finished his tea and left.

A customer next to him saw this scene and asked the waiter with a smile: "It's obviously his fault, why don't you just say it?"

The waiter smiled and said, "It is precisely because he is rude that he should be treated in a tactful way, and it is precisely because the reason is understood as soon as he says it, so there is no need to be loud! A righteous person makes friends with kindness!"

Hua Songnian was thoughtful, he had to think about how to get the best of both worlds.

"Mother, it's almost time, it's time for me to go. Hua Songnian stood up and said.

"It's time to go, and it's getting home and it's getting dark. Nian Juying got up and said, "I'll go get you some things and bring them back to Jin Zhi and Chengzhi to make up for their bodies." ”

Nian Juying and Hua Junyao went to the warehouse and kitchen together, and picked up eggs, wild vegetables, mushrooms, cornmeal-pickled pickles, bean paste, etc. for Hua Songnian.

In the courtyard, Hua Songnian chatted with Hua honestly and asked, "Dad, how is the medicine?" ”

"Medicine? Hua honestly waved his hand.

"What's the matter, Dad, that medicine doesn't work. Hua Songnian immediately asked anxiously, "Dad, what's wrong with your body?" Isn't it going to work? ”

"Ah......h Then he smiled, "Second brother, our father's health is good, completely well." ”

"How is this possible?" asked Hua Songnian in surprise.

"Yaoyao gave our father the honey he found in the mountains, as well as the medicinal herb tonic Ganoderma lucidum to eat, and my father will be fine. Hua Henian said happily, his excited eyes were red, his father's illness over the years was like a big stone in his heart, pressing on the hearts of your two brothers.

"Really Dad, you're really good. Hua Songnian excitedly grabbed Hua Laoshi's hand and put three fingers on his wrist.

The pulse is slow and powerful, full of vitality and vitality.

Hua Songnian cried and laughed, "Dad, you're okay, it's all right, it's all right, this pulse is pounding...... It's so powerful. ”

"You silly boy. Hua Henian patted him on the shoulder and said, "Our dad is fine, what kind of cat urine are you dropping!"

"I was so happy that I wept with joy. Hua Songnian rubbed his face vigorously.

"Song Nian, come back often in the future, my mother will make you something to eat," Nian Juying said as she carried the basket to Hua Songnian.

"You don't have to send it. Hua Songnian came out of the hospital.

"Second brother, I'll send you. Hua Junyao stepped out of the threshold and said, looked back at Nian Juying and said, "Mother, I'll go and say that the second brother will be sent." ”

"Go, go!" Nian Juying waved her hand.

The brother and sister left the house and walked all the way towards the entrance of the village.

Hua Junyao thought for a while, and her obsidian-like eyes crossed a faint light, "Second brother, how is the Wei family's reputation?"

"It's good, the family is harmonious, the husband and wife are harmonious, the children are filial, and it is a very beautiful family, but it's a pity that ......" Hua Songnian stopped and said, "Hey, why are you asking this? You don't want to? No, our father has made it clear." ”

"Second brother, how is his injury, how was he injured, the bullet was still injured. Hua Junyao asked again with a smile.

"You also said that you don't have this mind, why are you asking Wei Jingyuan about his injury?" Hua Songnian said anxiously, he pointed at Hua Junyao and said, "I can warn you, if you don't listen to our father, your second brother won't just be slapped by our father, maybe this leg won't be saved." ”

"Second brother, you also know that I ran around the mountains all day long and picked some precious medicinal herbs, maybe it would be useful to him. Hua Junyao said slowly.

Hua Songnian's eyes widened, his face was surprised, and then he stabilized his emotions and said, "Wei Jingyuan is a qualified soldier, it's a pity." In order to protect his comrades-in-arms during the exercise, he was accidentally injured by a shell, and his back was blown into a blood gourd. His life was saved, his leg was saved, his spine was injured, and his lower body was paralyzed. He spoke in a nasal voice. (To be continued.) )