"Are you always fighting against your own thoughts, if so, it means that the most terrible enemy is yourself, we can do many things well, but we always say to ourselves, I can't do it, fight between affirmation and negation." Xu Feng said.

"Don't say it, I'm like this sometimes, I can't help but be irritable, and when I see the scenery after other people's success, I am very depressed, and even extremely pessimistic, complaining about what I did in the first place, I always feel that everything is not as good as others, and I feel that I have lost a lot." Huang Feiteng said.

"There is a nursery rhyme that says well, turtle mother, back doll, turtle baby, laugh haha, little hedgehog, see it, let my mother carry it, ouch ouch thorn, hedgehog hug mother's back, mother sue sù little hedgehog, can't learn everything." Xu Feng said with a smile.

"It's not me who learns, because I have that ability, but I still go to the back of others, and I feel really uncomfortable when I see others earning money." Huang Feiteng said.

"If you want to say that you are not bad, you have money and a car, and we are not alive compared to you." Wei Dahai said with a smile.

"Who is afraid of having more money, the more the merrier." Huang Feiteng said.

"You are saddened by loss, because you are used to having and are afraid of losing, and the more you have, the happier you are, and the more you lose, the more painful you are. Indeed, loss will bring pain, but more often, it is precisely because of loss that you get more, and there must be a loss, and the same loss must also be gained. Life doesn't matter about gains and losses, whether you are in a good mood or bad depends on your own inner thoughts. Qiu Weiqiang said.

"Although there are many things in the world, they are all created by people. How you understand it, what kind of happiness and troubles you have. But people's troubles are generally contagious. So we want to rule it out. Troubles are caused by your own thoughts, because what seems to you to be happy or upset is not necessarily seen that way by others. There are a lot of things like this. So people struggle with their own ideas all their lives. But we should learn from the great men, who created things instead of being trapped by them. Xu Feng said.

"People are born with talents, each person has obvious differences, each person lives in a different family environment and hard work, of course, there are differences in achievement, this is a natural phenomenon." Qiu Weiqiang said.

"But I'm just a little unconvinced, and I'm in the same world. Why can't others," Mr. Wong said.

"You don't have to be sad or give up on yourself because your grades are not as good as others, as long as you can understand your own conditions, do your best, continue to pursue exploration, keep learning and exploring, and always strive to grow, you will become a great person in the future." What I am most afraid of is that the requirements are too high, beyond my own ability, which is of course asking for trouble. In vain, he was so remorseful that he lost his fighting spirit. Just imagine, a person who can only carry 50 kilograms on his shoulders and a weight of 200 kilograms on his shoulders will obviously feel very tired and tired, and will not be able to complete it. Therefore, we must be steady, understand the path we should take, and move forward firmly. Qiu Weiqiang said.

"Scientists once did an experiment in which a cheetah and a herd of goats were placed in a cage separated by barbed wire." Chang Shouxin said.

At first, the cheetah kept ramming the barbed wire fence in an attempt to capture the goats over there, but the barbed wire made the cheetah's repeated attacks in vain. The experimenters put some live chickens in the cheetah's cage every day, and the cheetah had no shortage of food, but it still wanted to break through the barbed wire fence to prey on goats. Slowly, the cheetah covered himself in bruises, but in vain and frustrated. After holding on to the barbed wire fence for a while, the cheetah was convinced that it would not be able to overcome the obstacle, and that it would no longer collide in vain, but that it would be safe with the goats as if the goats on the other side were just a beautiful landscape in front of them. Later, the test personnel removed the barbed wire, and the cheetah, which had been hit again and again, had no reaction to the goats that had lost their protective barrier, and only roamed in their fixed area every day, never going to the goats, and never dared to cross the thunder pond for half a step.

This revelation reveals that if you don't get out of the shadow of failure, you will be eroded by failure, and you will eventually lose your chances of success. Some people are on the road to success, or they do not lack the enthusiasm to fight, but they lack the perseverance to persevere despite setbacks. After being defeated by failure, some people lose their enterprising spirit, bow their heads and bend down in the face of failures and setbacks, and finally can only be with failure. The folk proverb that once you are bitten by a snake, you are afraid of the well rope for ten years, which is what you say about this kind of person.

"A famous person once said that failure is never fatal unless you throw in the towel." Qiu Weiqiang said.

If you slump in the face of failure and become a coward who lets failure be defeated at one time, you are undoubtedly brave and unwise. If you don't know how to reflect after suffering the blow of failure, and you are not good at summing up experience, but you will either break your head and bleed into it with your blood, or you will get twice the result with half the effort, even if you succeed, it will be like a flash in the pan, which is a brave and unwise person. If you can judge the situation and adjust yourself after suffering the blow of defeat, attack again with both timing and strength, and move forward bravely to victory, this is a successful person with both wisdom and courage.

"It's not that I poured cold water, it's not ordinary difficult to do anything now, it's not easy to succeed, I've learned all these years of experience." Huang Feiteng said.

"To find a way to succeed, don't find a reason for failure, successful people never think that there is no way, but these solutions have not been found, or the time is not ripe." Xu Feng said.

Successful people are always looking for ways to succeed, taking out loans if they don't have money, looking for sales if they have too much backlog, and promoting if they don't sell well. And people who fail are always looking for reasons to retreat, doing this will definitely not make money, and doing that will definitely lose money. Those who want to be successful and have the means to do things are always very smooth and easy to achieve their goals. And those who believe that fate is destined by God to do something will have thousands of difficulties, and those who complain when they encounter setbacks are often bumpy and not easy to succeed in doing things. This is because this kind of person magnifies the difficulty of doing things, thinking that this difficulty cannot be overcome, so he often wanders in the same place and cannot surpass himself. Those who are confident think that things are not as complicated and difficult as they think, and that as long as they practice for a while, or carefully look for patterns and observe carefully, they will have a way to deal with a situation, and soon these methods will be able to be used by him freely.

"Sometimes, you just know that something is wrong, but you don't know what the problem is, and you can't find a solution. Therefore, the first step to success is to find yourself the crux of the problem, and then based on the crux, come up with a solution. Just ask yourself a few more questions, find the answer to it, and you will find a solution to the problem. Qiu Weiqiang said.

Therefore, when faced with a big problem like success or failure, you must not only think of excuses, but also think about how to succeed. In fact, failure itself is not terrible, what is really terrible is to attribute the cause of failure to others or external conditions, and it is not your own fault that you are all wrong, you are just unlucky, or the timing is wrong. These people do not learn from their failures, do not find reasons from themselves, and use excuses to constantly forgive themselves and perfunctory others, thus losing the courage to admit their mistakes, and at the same time losing the reason and motivation to progress. The excuse of failure makes it impossible to break through and overcome one's weaknesses, and the guide is constantly failing. Only by acknowledging one's own shortcomings and finding ways to make up for one's shortcomings and make progress will one continue to surpass oneself and achieve success. No matter what the situation is, the first thing that comes to mind should be to actively find a way to solve it. On the road of life, all people will encounter all kinds of tests, successful people are good at constantly finding solutions to them, but also like them, do not shirk, actively find the habit of finding a way, so as to achieve success.

"The survival of a person depends on hope, and if a person wants to achieve great things, he must have great hopes." Chang Shouxin said.

Hope is the goal of life, hope is the flame of life, and it is the driving force for a person to move forward bravely in the thorny and bumpy journey of life. People who are full of hope for life will be able to use their vigorous vitality to open up their own bright future. In a person's life, unfortunate encounters are inevitable, only hope can overcome it, and a life without hope will be gray and bleak. People who can't face the reality bravely, as soon as they encounter obstacles and setbacks, they will inevitably collapse, hope is the hormone of the weak-willed, which makes people cheer up and work hard, so hope is the sunshine after the storm, and the pain of life disappears because of hope. If there is no hope in the human world, there is no difference between humans and animals. Human beings' actions are all from hope, are all based on hope and faith to move forward, only hope can awaken the sleeping mind, if a person is muddy, the nature will gradually weaken, or even completely annihilated, there is no hope, can never work hard, maybe a moment can be excited, after a while but retreat. The progress of the world is the continuation of human hopeful activities, hope is endless, human activities are endless, so although people's ** is dead, their spirit is endless. (To be continued......)