Benjamin Franklin once said that poverty itself is not terrible, but what is terrible is the idea that it is destined to be poor, or that it must die of poverty. Indeed, it is not terrible for people to be poor, what they are most afraid of is that they lose themselves because of poverty, lose the courage to struggle, and are willing to fall, then they can only live a poor life for the rest of their lives. Many people think that they have done their best to fight poverty. In fact, they didn't do as much as they could. As far as it is concerned, much of the world's poverty is caused by laziness, extravagance and waste, and unwillingness to work hard. Xu Feng said.

"It is an immutable law that people's lives are good or bad because of the way people think. If you think the probability of success is high, it is great, and if you think the probability of success is small, it is small. If you want to get out of this strange circle, you must have enough endurance, because not following the crowd will bring a lot of ideological pressure to yourself. You know, there is always a group of people who act according to their own thinking, and it is that group of people who often succeed. Brontosaurus said.

There are several strong qualities of human beings, all of which are incompatible with poverty and hardship. Self-reliance and self-reliance are the cornerstones of a strong character. We often find that among those who are poor and unhappy, but who still struggle, these people are very strong. But a person who has lost his courage, lost his self-confidence, or is poor because he is too lazy to work hard does not have such a strong character. This kind of person is only weak compared to those who have developed a great deal of spirit and morality in the constant pursuit of wealth.

You are determined to show your true colors in the world, and you must move forward on the road to success and prosperity. And when there is nothing in the world that can overturn this determination of yours, you will find that from this self-esteem and self-confidence, you can gain infinite strength.

Mediocre people often only see the glory and halo on the heads of successful people. But I don't see the pain and suffering behind the successful people. Everyone is hungry for success, envy the energetic stars on the stage, the athletes on the sports field surrounded by flowers and applause, and the personable leaders at the meeting. But who knows how many years of obscurity the stars have experienced under the thunderous applause stage, and how many sweaty days the athletes have endured behind the dazzling brilliance. Behind the fame of the leader, how many nights of hard work are hidden, no pay, no suffering, no hardship, will always be a mediocre person. Life never gets better.

"You're right, everyone's life is not ordinary. Xu Feng said.

If there is no pursuit, no ideal, no goal, you will lose yourself, you will live a very empty life, you will be very confused. I don't know what I'm living for. You have to know exactly what you want. In fact, what you want is very simple, all you want is happiness. What happiness is, he has no specific concept. Maybe it's a feeling, maybe it's spiritual, maybe it's material, I feel that both are indispensable, especially in today's society. However, spiritual richness. appears more important. The power of the spirit is infinite, and the mind is magical. Only when the spirit is rich can there be a higher level of pursuit. People should have material pursuits. The quality of life is guaranteed, but we should not be confused by the material, behind the material is the dedication to the ideal. Only by realizing one's ideals and completing one's mission can this life be meaningful. To be a person with cultivation and taste, to live freely, to face difficulties and challenges at all times in life, and to dare to face the waves of life is the real strong. Always be prepared and work hard for a better life.

"I think that a person's life should be about doing something, and it is not appropriate to deliberately pay attention to and care about the ordinary and extraordinary, otherwise the result will backfire. Remember to treat one thing with all your heart, and at the same time learn to seize the opportunity, and don't let go of an opportunity that can make you extraordinary, remember that the extraordinary is to be extraordinary glory, and the ordinary is to be ordinary happiness. Brontosaurus said.

Life is like this, it is not a fruit plate full of delicious food, just waiting for you to enjoy, it also has another taste of suffering for us to taste, only after tasting, your life will become wonderful. As the saying goes, you will never see a rainbow without experiencing wind and rain. Yes, no matter how smart a person is, if he does not taste suffering, does not pay hardship, and does not shed sweat, his life will not become wonderful, complete, and successful.

When he got off work, Li Tiecheng sent someone to pick up Qin Yaru, Xu Feng followed the car back to the barbecue square, Wei Dahai and Pan Xueliang were talking to Chang Shouxin about something, seeing Xu Feng coming, Chang Shouxin told him that they were discussing the opening of the franchise store, and in order to expand the influence, they had sent invitations to relevant people in advance, inviting them to come to the barbecue square to participate in the celebration ceremony. Xu Feng nodded when he heard this, and he held another preferential and big reward activity, which could increase the popularity of the barbecue square.

"I've already thought about this, and it's better to follow our old method and implement a big discount for three days after opening. Chang Shouxin said.

"This is feasible, and it can be profitable but quick turnover. Xu Feng said.

"The opening day was lively, and the grass platform team has been found, and it is still singing for three days. Chang Shouxin said.

"In this way, the reputation of the barbecue square will be greater, and I am not afraid that there will be no business, so you Chang Da Boss will wait to count the money at home." Xu Feng said with a smile.

"After all, the franchise store has just opened, so the first three kicks must be kicked out, even if it is a loss of money. Chang Shouxin said.

"To celebrate the opening of my franchise stores, I gave a plaque to each of my franchise stores. Wei Dahai said.

"I'll give you a piece then. Xu Feng said.

Chang Shouxin said about the opening of the franchise store related matters, the shortcomings of several people and added, everyone felt that it was very perfect, Chang Shouxin was very happy, said: "Now everything is ready, just wait for the opening of the day." ”

"Now that everything is in place, the nervous heart should also relax, and I will not invite us to give a big meal today, and congratulate the successful opening of the franchise store in advance. Wei Dahai said.

"I said you know how to eat, and if you continue like this, you have to eat it. Xu Feng said with a smile.

"It's not that exaggerated, the barbecue square has so much profit, enough for me to eat for a lifetime. Wei Dahai said with a grin.

"It's not enough to eat a few meals, you still want to eat for a lifetime, how greedy you should be, we can't afford to support you. Li Tiecheng said.

"It's too stingy, you're not as refreshing as Boss Chang, and you don't have an opinion when it comes to eating. Wei Dahai said.

"He doesn't want to answer you, he doesn't want to be like you, he lets you everywhere, you have to inch in, I really don't know how to read at all;. Li Tiecheng said with a smile.

Chen Fei walked in, saw them laughing, and knew that they were happy with the sea again, so he couldn't help but be happy, and said, "The sea must have made people grab the words again, otherwise they wouldn't be so happy." ”

Wei Dahai said, "Chen Fei, I have come up with so many ideas for Shouxin, do you think I should eat him." ”

"As far as your little idea is concerned, if you want me to say that it is useless, it is a little unfair to care about your meal. Chen Fei said with a smile.

"I said no, but everyone has a clear heart and a bright eye, and they don't rub sand in their eyes. Pan Xueliang said.

"No matter what, as long as it's a little useful, I'm done. Wei Dahai said.

"Your face is thicker than the walls, and we can't compare to it. Li Tiecheng said.

"No matter how thick it is, as long as you can manage the rice, you don't dare to ignore my rice, otherwise you will have a good look. Wei Dahai said.

"Don't just be poor, on the day of the opening, you must be there and do a good job for me. Chang Shouxin said.

"There is no problem, I dare not say anything else, it is more than enough to entertain guests, please rest assured that Boss Chang is here. Wei Dahai said.

"That's what you do, you mix in officialdom all day long, you haven't learned anything else, but you have learned to socialize. Pan Xueliang said.

"Entertainment is a science, know how to socialize, will add a touch of color to your interactions, learn to socialize, will make your life more happy and harmonious, learn to socialize, know how to shape the image of entertainment, how to speak and do things when socializing, see through the unspoken rules in entertainment, learn to be flexible, flexible and witty to deal with the world. Establish good interpersonal relationships, and you will surely win thousands of miles in social entertainment and sit on success. Socializing is also an art, don't underestimate it, socialize with customers, naturally be able to get a steady stream of orders, socialize with leaders, and naturally get the greatest support from the boss, so that the work can be carried out smoothly, and socialize with colleagues, and naturally be able to borrow a wide range of strength, at least it will not bring external obstacles to your work. Wei Dahai said.

"Eating and eating out of knowledge, you are making excuses for yourself. Xu Feng said.

"Dinner is also a science, and in daily life, dinner is an indispensable part of the party, and it can also be called an art. A simple meal, there is a lot of knowledge and exquisiteness in it. If a person has one meal a day, then he must be a person who likes to socialize with others, if he has two meals a day, then he may be an authentic businessman, if he has three meals a day, it means that he is a person of some status. Wei Dahai said.

"What if he has n meals a day?" Xu Feng said.

"Then he might be a waiter at a restaurant. Wei Dahai said.

The dinner invited by classmates can be casual, like a family member, a dinner invited by friends, can be generous, like a host, the dinner invited by the leader, it will definitely be a little restrained, cautious, like a stranger, the dinner you invite the leader must be respectful, but also quick-sighted, like a servant.

In the workplace, socializing is essential, and different people have different feelings about socializing. Some people want to maintain their relationship, some people want to promote business, and some people want to keep their jobs. Chinese people have always paid attention to courtesy and exchanges, injecting emotional factors into pure interests and working relationships. More often, entertainment is an investment, is a way to get closer to the relationship, in a cultural context like China, this is an inevitable pass, whether you want to or not, only in this way, can you gain a foothold in the workplace, in order to gradually realize your dreams.

"Don't talk nonsense here, hurry up and eat, no one will treat you for a dumb person. Chang Shouxin said with a smile. (To be continued)