"There is competition in life, but there is also cooperation, cooperation has a great effect, human development and progress are inseparable from cooperation, only in this way can there be development. Xu Feng said.

Cooperation is the foundation of the formation of human society, and cooperation produces the amount of human groups. This power is incomparable to the power of individual individuals, nor is it equal to the simple addition of individual amounts. Cooperation is the source of human strength, no one can be separated from the group and exist alone, people need harmony, harmony, and help each other. After all, the power of the individual is limited, and the individual can only have power if he cooperates with others. Only with good cooperation can people have the courage to face difficulties and the strength to overcome them.

"Anyone can talk about the big truth, and everyone can say the words on the scene, but when it comes to their turn, it's another matter, people are people, after all, people are not gods, and no one will do anything that is not good for them. Huang Feiteng said.

The reality of life, the indifference of people's hearts, and now the hearts of people in society are all covered by money. If you don't have money, you will be looked down upon by your relatives and say that you have no money. You will be looked down upon by your friends and say that you are always eating and drinking. You will be looked down upon by lovers, saying that you don't have a car, a house, you are not romantic, you can't even afford the most basic bouquet of flowers, where does romance come from. Without money, you have no status on any occasion, you have no right to speak, you will always be a little follower, but anyone with a little self-esteem does not want to live like this, this is all pressure from the outside world. It is also the way to survive, everyone can't live without money, now this society has money and there is a qiē, without money you can't move an inch.

So, everyone has a selfish heart, whether it's a good person or a bad person. It's just that the selfish Cheng dù is different. In short, selfishness is a normal human nature, whether it is a human or an animal who is born knowing how to eat milk, there is a concept of what is, and this natural nature does not need to be taught by others. With age. This selfish nature will swell more and more. The ancients said that people do not do it, the heavens and the earth will be destroyed, which people do not think about themselves, and those who sacrifice themselves and dedicate themselves do not exist at all, otherwise. It's just a lack of heart.

"Selfishness is actually a kind of self-protection consciousness of human beings, which is due to the competition of human society, and over time, it seems to become human nature, but it is actually a normal state of mind. does not pose a threat to people. Qiu Weiqiang said.

"Nowadays, people are mercenary, forgetting their righteousness, looking at money, not saving any friendship, as long as it is beneficial to themselves, they can sell a qiē, and competition is even more so, which can be called extremely cruel. If you don't defeat your opponent, you won't give up, otherwise you won't survive. Huang Feiteng said.

"That's for some people who don't have self-confidence, how to look at competition. It depends on your own mentality, in fact, you can also benefit together, peers are not enemies, they are competitors, many industries are like this, it depends on how you treat them. The main thing is to be kind to others. Xu Feng said.

As the old saying goes, take people as a mirror. You can dress properly. However, in real life. There are not many people who can always discover the strengths of others, and even fewer people who always take the strengths of others as their own learning objects. Business management is like being a person, and there may be very few enterprises that can build the gains and losses of an enterprise on learning the advantages and strengths of its competitors. In the face of the dissatisfaction of competitors and the rejection of competitors, you should calm down and think carefully. We must respect our competitors, treat our opponents as friends, and take their strengths to make up for our weaknesses. We live in an era of rapid development, and life is like a symphony full of competition, and the music of competition is played everywhere. There is competition among businessmen in the shopping mall, competition among soldiers on the battlefield, and there is no such competition in learning, competition is beneficial, competition inspires people, and makes people feel a hundred times more energetic. Competition is a refueling station in a long distance, an oasis in the desert, and a sculls for a boat sailing in the sea. Competition gives people the greatest hope for struggle and greatly inspires people's fighting spirit.

"What you say makes sense, but this is not the case, no one wants to be defeated by an opponent, in order to defeat an opponent, it is absolutely not possible to rely on feelings and soft-heartedness, and you must do whatever it takes. Huang Feiteng said.

"It's not a bad thing to have opponents, it's scary to have no opponents. Qiu Weiqiang said.

"Isn't this a fool's errand, who wants to have their own opponents and let others make money, just like me, someone is building a car wash next to it, and I have to express a warm welcome, that's not a fool, I don't know how to count. Huang Feiteng said with a smile.

"It's your little conscious business concept, stuck in a self-centered circle and can't extricate yourself, in fact, it's not like you think, there is such a fable, it's very enlightening to people. Qiu Weiqiang said.

A small mouse lives in a tree hollow, and not far from the outside, lives a weasel that always wants to prey on itself. Therefore, every time the little mouse wants to go out to find food, it will be very careful, and it is because of this that it has escaped many times. One morning, however, as he was about to go out, he found the terrible weasel walking not far away. Wow, it's a dangerous day, let it go first, lest it become its lunch. Suddenly, a cat jumped out, grabbed the weasel in one fell swoop, and began to devour. The frightened little mouse couldn't help but be proud. Wow, what luck today, the abominable weasel is finally dead, and since then there is no opponent, and the danger has passed. Swaggered out to forage for food. But the good times did not last long, and the slacking little mouse only played freely in the forest for a few days, and also died in the mouth of the greedy cat.

The reason is obvious, the little mouse has always become unusually alert when faced with the threat of the weasel before, so it has escaped one disaster after another. And after the lack of opponents, it gets carried away, relaxes its vigilance, and naturally falls into the abyss of death. It follows that in many cases, the opponent is the one who makes himself more mature and more perfect. Although he sometimes hates his existence, if you understand the law of ecological balance, you may have to thank the opponents who bring trouble and even pain, because only in this way can you always maintain a progressive mentality on the road to success, and you will go further and longer.

"It's not difficult to defeat an opponent, it's rare to help an opponent, and I also have a little story about selling apples. Xu Feng said.

In one place, there are two people selling apples. An apple is good and cheap, and a bad is expensive. In the evening, the bad apple smashed the stall of the good apple. The result was that both of their apples were rotten and one was not sold. In another place, there are also two people selling apples. An apple is good and cheap, and a bad is expensive. In the evening, the good apple owner sued the bad apple of his own purchase channel and negotiated the same price. As a result, both of them sold apples very well, and after a year they both bought land and built a new house.

There is an old Chinese saying that there are too few friends and too many enemies. If the enemies unite to deal with you, or secretly calculate you, even if you have three heads and six arms, it will be difficult to deal with. There are no permanent enemies in the mall, only permanent friends.

"Like Liu Bei, his success is the result of making friends, not because he is a descendant of Emperor Jing of the Han Dynasty. Qiu Weiqiang said.

Indeed, friendship between people is so important to life, and those who do not have friendship will be pitiful loners for life. Xu Feng said.

A society without friendship is just a thriving desert. A person who feels depressed due to setbacks always needs to be comforted. However, apart from a close friend, it is the best medicine to relieve the depression of the soul, a person, when after achieving success or joy, always wants to share it with others, and what can be happier than sharing success or joy with friends.

The most precious and eternal thing in the world is the friendship of friends. Friends can laugh with you, friends can also cry for you, friends will share your joy when you succeed, your joy will become the joy of two people, friends will give you the most sincere comfort and encouragement when you are disappointed. Your frustration will be halved, and if you compare life to a flower, friendship is undoubtedly the green leaves of this flower that produce photosynthesis. Whether it is the roots of a tree or the green leaves of a flower, both are inseparable components of life.

"What kind of person has what kind of friends, a person can't live alone, you need to have friends, the reason why people will succeed is because they have friends to help, and the reason why people will grow is because they have absorbed the successful experience of others, friends are the same as books, some friends are not only good companions, but also our teachers, the most important thing between friends is mutual trust, if there is no trust, there is no meaning, it is impossible to become friends. Qiu Weiqiang said.

People who have more friends and no friends will feel struggling, and people with more friends will share when they are in difficulty, and someone to share when they are happy, so that they can experience the beauty of life, in fact, life is full of sunshine, as long as you are a person who has a heart for life, you will definitely harvest hope and find fun. Open your heart, make friends, and let life have a little more color and sunshine. As the saying goes, one more friend has many paths, relying on parents at home and friends when going out. Only by making more friends can you not be lonely and get things done. (To be continued)