Chapter 296: Feeling a sense of superiority and pride
Xing Yanfang returned home, remembering the scene of the noon meal, Li Jinghe changed her name to call her mother, and felt sweet in her heart, feeling that Li Jinghe was really sensible, and spoke just right, today the parents of the two sides met, this family affair is settled, Yuan Yuan has a good job, the house is also there, the next step is to decorate the house, but also to buy furniture and electrical appliances, which requires a lot of money. Thinking of this, I calculated my family background, the family has a deposit of 50,000 yuan, this is all their savings, the daughter's marriage is a lifelong event, it can't be too shabby, although his family's economic conditions are good, this money is not worth mentioning, but marriage can not spend a penny, that will make the in-laws look down on it, people do not live for their children for a lifetime, these money is even a woman's dowry, less money is also a mother's mind.
Xing Yanfang called Yuan Yuan in front of her, took out a few deposit receipts and handed them to her daughter, this is 50,000 yuan, which is considered a dowry from her mother's family, what do you need to buy by yourself, there is only so much money at home, and you can't take it out if you have more. Yuan Yuan hurriedly said no, Jinghe said that she didn't need her money, the money was the family's savings for many years, or the family kept it in a hurry. Now that I have a job, I can support myself, and I will pay my family's living expenses on time in the future.
"If you take this, you will take it, it will definitely cost a lot of money to get married, this is a major event in your life, and you can't be too shabby to be a mother, you must be married in a beautiful way. Xing Yanfang said.
"I really don't need to, Jinghe has worked for several years, his salary is not low, he has some savings, the money for marriage is enough, and he can't be too extravagant. If you can save a little, you can save a little. It won't cost too much money. Yuan Yuan said.
"Getting married is a big event in life. Although I can't do it in a big way, it can't be too simple, I have to buy what I should buy, and if it's not enough, I'll find a way. Xing Yanfang said.
"Mom, you don't have to worry about my affairs, I have an idea in my heart about what to do. Yuan Yuan said with a smile.
Yuan Yuan went to the garment city, Xing Yanfang felt that it was not interesting to stay at home alone, and she was in a good mood. went to her sister's house and told Xing Yanfen about the noon incident, Li Jinghe had changed her name to call her mother, Xing Yanfen was very happy to hear it, Li Jinghe just knew how to do things, and coaxed her sister to be happy.
"The son-in-law you chose is good, very understanding. Xing Yanfen said.
"Because I want to decorate the house, Jinghe asked me to help with the staff, and I didn't feel at ease in my heart, so I went to their new house today. After that, his parents did not let us go, and entertained us at home at noon. I thought his father was a big official. It's definitely not good to get in touch, but it didn't turn out to be like that, he was very kind to people, he didn't have a bit of an official stand, and he took out a good wine that he had collected for many years to entertain us, which made me change my opinion of him. Xing Yanfang said.
"This is at home, and there are no outsiders, so naturally he will not put his official shelf, and then this is a meeting between the sons and daughters' families, for the sake of the son, he can't be like that, he will make you unhappy, and he will be dumbfounded if he disagrees with this family business. You are also a husband and a mother-in-law, everything is good, everything is okay, and you naturally don't have any ideas. Xing Yanfen said with a smile.
"Yuan Yuan has relied on her for life, and I can be regarded as stepping on my heart in my life, otherwise I always think about her, I used to stick with Xu Feng, and I was very unhappy, and I didn't worry about her anymore," Xing Yanfang said.
This is the best ending, and if any parent does not want their children to be better, they will be better than themselves. Xing Yanfen said.
"Who said no, if you continue to develop with Xu Feng, you will definitely not be comfortable now, then I can be regarded as bothered, Yuan Yuan is desperate to follow her, there is really no way to take her, I can't disagree because my family is poor, people will say that I hate the poor and love the rich, he is really not angry, he would do that kind of unsightly thing, and as a result, he ruined his life, and that girl dared to marry him. Xing Yanfang said.
"This is also fate, the two have no fate, if there is no one thing, Yuan Yuan will definitely not leave him, you really have no way to marry him, you really have no problem in the end, in the end, it is the two of you who worry about it, they can't even eat, and it is impossible for them to leave it alone as parents. Xing Yanfen said.
"Who said no, I always persuaded her to just not listen, and thanks to that incident, I finally broke off contact. Xing Yanfang said.
"Since both parties have no opinions, after the marriage, it will be marriage, and now it is not long before New Year's Day, and you have to prepare a dowry for Yuan Yuan, after all, marriage is a lifelong event, and it is definitely not okay to be a mother without giving a penny. Xing Yanfen said.
"I just told Yuan Yuan that I would give her 50,000 yuan as a dowry for marriage, but Yuan Yuan didn't agree, so what should she do. Xing Yanfang said.
"This is because my daughter feels sorry for you and doesn't want you to spend more money. Xing Yanfen said.
"Of course I understand what she means, but how can you do it without spending a penny, it will make your in-laws laugh, so I came to you to see what to do. Xing Yanfang said.
"This is easy to do, I bought all the household appliances before I got married, and the wedding can't be too simple, the money is not enough for me to take, and the in-laws see a lot of dowry, so naturally they won't say anything." Xing Yanfen said.
"Just do as you say, let's go to the mall when we have time, and help me take a good look at it." Xing Yanfang said.
"Okay, let's start preparing after we get married, there are a lot of things in it, and we have to be busy for a while. Xing Yanfen said.
In the evening, Yuan Yuan went to the clothing city and did not come back, the two of them discussed their daughter's affairs while eating, Xing Yanfang said her thoughts, before getting married, she bought all the household appliances, and the money was not enough for her sister to take it, Yuan Weihua had no opinion when she heard it, and her daughter naturally had to buy a dowry when she got married, and he agreed to spend as much as she wanted.
Yuan Yuan came home at nearly ten o'clock and told her mother that Li Jinghe went to the northern building materials market to buy decoration materials, they couldn't date tonight, Xing Yanfang felt that Li Jinghe not only knew how to do things, but also was very good at living, the account was relatively detailed, and she could save a lot of money by buying decoration materials by herself, which can be seen from this point, which made her even more happy, and her daughter was relieved to marry like this.
"I discussed with your father, as an escort, we will be responsible for all the electrical appliances used in the house. Xing Yanfang said.
"As I said, you don't have to worry about it. Yuan Yuan said.
"Okay, this matter is decided, and it can be regarded as the mind of Mom and Dad. Xing Yanfang said.
Yuan Yuan returned to her room, since she went to work in the court, people looked at her differently, and took care of her everywhere, which can be said to be the only promise, which made her feel a sense of superiority and pride. Although it is good in the clothing city, the sisters are very happy together, but they will always be looked at by some people, especially those ruffians and hooligans, who often harass them, use wine to spread bad words and tease, and even take advantage of them, you still have no way to take them, you have to accompany the smiling face for the sake of business, compared to the court, no one dares to bully her, and she is respectful. I also know that people are like this because Li Jinghe's father is the vice president of the city court and directly governs them, and they are afraid of his power so much respect for her, and they don't let her do a lot of work, and she is very leisurely at work, and she has never been treated like this before, which makes her feel a little flattered, after all, she has just joined the work, and she is not very old, so she can't afford to respect her so much.
There is also her own dormitory is a court senior room, only the superior leaders can live, ordinary employees have no right to live at all, to her dormitory is obviously special care, Yuan Yuan once went to the dormitory of colleagues, four people live in one, except for two desks, there is no furniture at all, basin hangers are all purchased by themselves, not to mention bathrooms and TVs. This made her feel uneasy, she enjoyed such a high treatment, others would have thoughts, thinking that her future father-in-law would enjoy such a high treatment if he was the vice president, and there was a suspicion of using his power for personal gain.
For this reason, Yuan Yuan found Dean Zhang Yuli, it was not suitable for her to live alone in a high-end room, and asked to move to the collective dormitory, but she did not agree, mainly because she was alone in the field, and her life was not as convenient as others, and the people in the court were all in the local area, and those who had a family and a job did not go home, and the dormitory was just a decoration, and some people had not been to the dormitory at all, but they could not give it, in fact, it was a waste to give it to them. Persuade her not to have any ideas, these are out of work considerations, and there is no idea, only a good rest can work well, it is not easy to come all the way to work here, as a leader must be sympathetic to the suffering of his subordinates, take care of their lives, only in this way can he do a good job seriously, not to mention that there are concerns about this, take care of the life of the workers is a matter of course, others will not say anything, who can tell him what to say, there will be a way to persuade them.
Seeing Zhang Yuli say this, Yuan Yuan couldn't say anything, and she still felt that it was inappropriate, so she contacted Li Jinghe and asked him to help talk about moving to the collective dormitory, so as to avoid suspicion and save people from having opinions about her. Li Jinghe was amused when he heard it, what is so strange about this, it is natural to live there, and it is also a chance to give them a chance to express themselves, I wish there would be such a good thing, let her live in peace, others dare not say anything, who dares to say anything can sue him, there will be a way to deal with it. Besides, it's just a transition now, people know that their relationship will not be transferred back in a short time, and it won't involve anyone's interests, so they won't have any ideas at all, and there is no need to worry about this at all.
Yuan Yuan felt that Li Jinghe's words were reasonable, although he felt that it was a little inappropriate for him to live in a high-class room, he was still comfortable living there, since the leaders of the hospital didn't say anything, it wouldn't take long to leave anyway, as long as he had a good relationship with his colleagues, he naturally wouldn't say anything. Thinking of this, Yuan Yuan's heart was steady. (To be continued......)