In fact, the third room of the Shen family really doesn't manage much about this, when they were in the Shen family's old mansion before, because Shen Chenghou and the Li family's temperament really made the old Shen head feel nothing, so there was really no opportunity to teach the children how to get along with others. Pen ~ fun ~ pavilion www.biquge.info

Of course, it was also because Shen Jingwen and Jingsheng were studying in the countryside at that time, and they went home after studying every day, so they didn't care about anything else.

It's not like it is now that it lives in the school directly, and it is the best school in the county, and the students in it are all very sensible children.

Of course, Qixi will notice these things, but Qixi will not say that all the things are directly out of their hands, or that Shen Jingwen and Shen Jingsheng will do all their things, and then tell them how to do it.

She will guide many things, especially the cultivation of their character or the study of other very important things, after all, they are not too old and have not experienced much, Tanabata will not say that it is like some people think, so let the children all go on their own.

Because I think that some things are right for children to explore and summarize their experiences by themselves, but some things are not necessary, especially Jingwen Jingsheng is a smart child, sometimes appropriate guidance will allow them to save a lot of effort, and they will quickly move in a better direction.

But even so, Tanabata won't say anything to meddle in, just like who they choose to associate with in the academy or how far they get along, etc., brothers and sisters naturally talk about it occasionally.

But most of the Tanabata just listen to them, and occasionally try to analyze them when they have questions, rather than directly giving conclusions.

For example, if someone says something bad behind them, then Tanabata will not rudely give a conclusion not to associate with them, but will guide them to pay attention, such as why this person did what he did.

Is it because they have unintentionally disliked some words and deeds that they don't care about, or is it just because those people themselves are willing to be jealous?

This nature is fundamentally different, and you have to find a specific reason to decide how you get along with them.

If it is really such a bad character, then Jingwen Jingsheng will naturally keep a distance from such a person, and they will not force everyone to like them, especially such a jealous person, who is not very good in nature, even if such a person is tolerated and then catered to him, he will always have bad thoughts about you in the future.

And if it's another reason, then it's also a good time for them to introspect, after all, even if they are sensible, but they are just young children, there will be some places that they haven't noticed, and if they can find the reason, they can also make themselves better.

These are naturally of great benefit to how they judge how to get along with people, especially Qixi also tells some things to let them understand for themselves, if they meet such people, in addition to analyzing what the reason is, they also have to think about how to get along with these people in the future.

This is naturally not whether it is to keep a distance or explain a misunderstanding after the analysis mentioned above, but to say that if you really meet people with bad conduct, then in addition to keeping your distance, you must also think about noticing the words and deeds of these people.

Because although they are not very old now, they are all studying in the same school, especially although Jingwen and most of the children understand that the people they will take the exam together in the future will definitely not only be from this school, but with many people.

But not everyone thinks like this, and if there is really that kind of narrow-mindedness, then you must be on guard against it in your heart.

After all, in the eyes of those people, it's all about competition, and don't underestimate anyone, don't think that if you are a child, you just will be jealous and won't do anything, and don't speculate with malicious intentions, but there should be precautions.

Especially when you grow up, you have to learn to be an official or do business, and the people you will have to deal with in the future will be even more diverse, so learning these things now will be beneficial to the future.

That's why they're still studying, but when they go home, they're going to sit and listen to whatever they're talking about.

So in fact, there is a person like Qixi who will guide them, Jingwen and others really know much more than other children, and it also makes them more comfortable when dealing with things and getting along with others.

Of course, they won't talk about these things casually, this is their own way of getting along with each other, not to mention that there is no need to tell others, because other people's families will definitely teach their children well, and they are all children who have high hopes for them, so naturally they have their own ways of teaching.

And to say that they all guide children in a good way, so they will teach children who are so well-behaved and motivated, and these children can get along well because of their similar temperaments.

Of course, they don't talk about these things casually now, but when they get along, it is reflected everywhere, just like the way they get along with each other as freely now.

It's just that although they watched Jing Sheng and the others come back with a lot of food, they all knew that they were about to start studying, so the big guys smiled and said a few words, and they all went into the house.

And after Jing Sheng put the food back, they all followed the big guys, and they were all very attentive when they were studying.

Although they all know that there will be delicious food when they rest for a while, they can concentrate when they are studying, because these children, who can be admitted to this school, are really very self-controlled, of course, they know what is the most important thing, and they must study hard when they come to the school.

When Mr. said that he could let them rest, they all immediately remembered the delicious food brought back by Jingwen and the others, and the few who had a good relationship with them all packed up their things and ran directly towards Jingwen and the others.

Although they didn't speak, their actions showed everything, that is, they wanted to follow Jingwen and them back to eat, because Jingwen Jingsheng brought back so much food, they didn't even need to ask and knew that they had their share. (To be continued.) )