Chapter 186: The Difference Afterward
Su Ling tasted those familiar dishes, which she used to like to eat. In fact, she is not a picky eater, mainly because the cooks are skilled, and she can eat almost anything.
In fact, her taste is similar to that before, and the dishes she used to like to eat, she almost still likes to eat now.
Most of the dishes she likes to eat are still Jiangnan cuisine. His family used to live in Jiangnan for a long time, and they followed the local customs, so they slowly began to eat Jiangnan cuisine. I ate a lot, and gradually I got used to it, but I also think that the dishes in Jiangnan are actually very good.
Although my father and mother have returned to the capital for a few years, they still have the habit of eating Jiangnan cuisine, and of course, there will be dishes from the capital on the dinner table. There are Jiangnan cooks at home, so the dishes of Jiangnan are authentic.
has lived in Jiangnan for the past few years, and she actually eats mainly Jiangnan food!
"If only you liked it." Lin vigorously served Su Ling vegetables, and Su Ling watched his bowl get fuller and fuller, and then they all pointed up.
Su Ling smiled. "Mother, don't always give me vegetables! Eat it yourself, I can't put it in this bowl. ”
Lin glanced at Su Ling's bowl, and it was indeed all pointed, and he couldn't see the rice below, so he didn't continue to serve vegetables to Su Ling. Yingxin took care of Brother Chun with her heart, and served vegetables to Brother Chun from time to time.
Brother Chun is small, and his arms are not long enough, so he can't catch the dishes that are a little farther away, so he can only let the person sitting next to him take care of it. Although it is also possible to arrange for people to cloth dishes, the Su family has never had this rule.
Eating by yourself and letting others watch it always doesn't feel good. And it's just a dish, and I have long hands, so why do you have to let people serve it!
Simple things like eating and dressing still have to be done by yourself, and everything is served by others, and good people are used to nothing.
My grandfather and grandmother have always refused to let people make dishes, and my grandmother has never let her daughter-in-law set such rules. In many families, mothers-in-law like to let their daughters-in-law set rules. The main thing is to serve the meal. When eating, let the daughter-in-law help the cloth vegetables, and wait until the meal is finished before the daughter-in-law can eat.
In fact, when I wait to see that people have eaten well before going to eat, the food will already be cold. The better thing is that when you first enter the door, you will give way to the rules. It didn't last long. Some people will make people set rules for a long time, and they really like to toss people.
Generally, concubines often have to make rules in front of their wives. If you encounter a harsh housewife, even if you have to set rules for I don't know how many years!
But anyone who can think about their daughter will not be willing to let their daughter be a concubine. Isn't that a waste of sending it away?
After dinner, someone brought water to rinse his mouth, and after a simple gargle, he brought fruit and tea.
"Yingxin, your eldest sister's willingness has not been packed up, so she will temporarily live in the same courtyard with you. You sisters need to get along well! Lin said with a smile. The two children haven't seen each other for a few years, and they are still unfamiliar, so they must slowly get acquainted with each other.
However, there is no difficulty in getting along with my own children, and I will definitely get familiar with them after a few days. After all, they are sisters. It's not an outsider who came out of nowhere.
In the past, when Ling'er was still at home, she loved Yingxin and Brother Dong the most.
"Mother, don't worry! I'm sure I'll get along well with my eldest sister. Yingxin said with a smile. In fact, as time passed, she really didn't remember the appearance of her eldest sister very much. But when she remembered the past, she also remembered that her eldest sister loved her very much.
In the past few years, she has been looking forward to the return of her eldest sister. Although she suddenly met, she still felt a little rusty in the end, but she would try her best to get along with her eldest sister.
"There's nothing worrying about my mother, it's just a confession." Lin smiled.
After talking for a while, it was getting dark, and it was not too early. The eldest man let the children go to rest. Brother Dong has to go to school tomorrow, so he should rest early. As for Brother Chun, children are young and tend to sleep more. I've already started to doze off.
Su Ling and Yingxin walked out of the courtyard where their father and mother lived and went to Tingzhi Garden. The maid followed behind her with a lantern. The wind was blowing, it was very windy, but the weather was gradually warming up.
"Will the eldest sister always live at home in the future?" After walking for a while, Yingxin suddenly asked.
"Why do you ask?" Su Ling smiled. Of course not all the time, but now that I'm back. She's not going to leave too soon, either.
"Thinking that the family always has to be separated." Yingxin sighed, "Compared with my uncle's Zirong, I can only come back long after I get married." Now that Sister Zhen'er is also married, she is almost going to get married! We'll all be separated in the future, and I'm afraid we won't see each other for a long time! ”
"You! What do you want to do at such a young age! Su Ling laughed. Let's think of something fun! In fact, even if they will be separated in the future, they will not see each other for a long time. As long as you know that the other party is doing well and living a good life, that's it! ”
She has already lost her relatives once, but in fact, she is very content to see that her family is still alive. Even if we will be separated in the future, it will not be easy to meet. As long as she knows that everyone in her family is doing well, she will be satisfied.
As long as she is still living under this starry sky and living a good life, she has nothing else to ask for.
At that time, in fact, everyone has to take care of their own small home, even if they live close, they may not always be able to sit together. People are like this, everyone has their own things to do, and you can't always think about being with your family!
It's good to be able to get together during the Chinese New Year.
"Is that so?"
"Of course it is! You may not understand it now, but when you really grow up, you will understand. Su Ling smiled. Speaking of Jen'er, I want to see her too! Why don't we go see her tomorrow! ”
"Zhen'er seems to be having a very bad time, looking very haggard, and her face is very pale." Yingxin sighed. "And no one wants to see it! I've been there twice, but I just met in a hurry, and I didn't say anything. ”
"Let's take a look." Su Ling sighed. It's strange to be locked up in a house and can't go anywhere. Anyone who is locked up like this, and can't even get out of the yard, won't feel happy.
Even if she is a very homely person, she is willing to stay in the yard and not go out, it is a matter of voluntariness. If you know who locked her door, you'll be in a hurry. This is the difference between voluntary and compulsory, although it seems that the result is the same, but the state of mind is completely different. (To be continued.) )