Chapter 334: Strange, Kind
"So it can still be like this!" Ying Xin suddenly realized. I didn't expect to say that there are a lot of exquisiteness in saying that relatives! It depends on the family background, but also on whether the person is good or not, and even the family members of other people!
In fact, it is not easy to be a parent!
"What do you know as a child? Mother-in-law's temperament is very important. After a woman gets married, she won't be with her husband all the time, but more often! She still gets along with her mother-in-law! If she doesn't get along well, life is very sad. Lin sighed.
Out of filial piety, being a daughter-in-law is naturally not allowed to work against her mother-in-law. Even if the mother-in-law deliberately makes things difficult for the daughter-in-law, the daughter-in-law can't do anything to the mother-in-law! Therefore, the relationship between the mother-in-law and the daughter-in-law will be very important. If you don't get along well, life will be sad.
If the mother-in-law lets her daughter-in-law set rules by her side every day, it will be enough. Fortunately, I have never set rules, and my mother-in-law is really a very good person. And he has a good temperament, and he never deliberately embarrasses people.
But such a good mother-in-law! What a hard thing to find! Not all mothers-in-law are so good. Some families just like to set rules for their daughters-in-law, and it's not a matter of one or two days, and some even for years!
It's always like that, even if you enter the door for many years, you still have no status in that family!
When the mother-in-law sits, the daughter-in-law will stand, that is, she will serve when she eats, and the daughter-in-law can only eat when the mother-in-law has eaten. really waited for the mother-in-law to eat well, and it would have been cold and cold for a long time.
If you really meet a mother-in-law who likes to embarrass people, no matter how good the daughter-in-law is, she will still be able to pick bones in the egg, and no one will be satisfied with what she does.
If the daughter-in-law and the mother-in-law have a conflict, it is really bad. Even the husband will be caught in the middle, and it will be difficult to be a person. With a mother on one side and a mother on the other, of course it is difficult to be a person. And many times, the husband will also stand on the side of the mother-in-law.
In the end, it is the biological mother, pregnant for ten months. After being born, he raised so much, and there was hard work without merit. If you really don't stand on your mother's side, you will definitely make people feel unfilial.
Many mothers will say that their sons have a daughter-in-law and forget their mother. So, sometimes the mother-in-law really sees her daughter-in-law as an enemy! In fact, she is married to a man. Naturally, you can't be obedient to your mother, and you can't put all your energy on your mother.
Now that you are married, you naturally have to be responsible for your own family and the lady you married!
It is very important to really find a mother-in-law who is easier to get along with. But the things of the world are really inexplicable. It is impossible for all the benefits to be taken by one person! Therefore, there will always be unsatisfactory points.
The family background is good, the husband is good, the mother-in-law is good, and the family is still easy to get along with, which is really not much. A lot of the time, it's really just one or two benefits to pick and choose.
"Mother is really worried about a lot!" Yingxin smiled. Mothers all over the world are like this! They always have to worry about their children.
"How many of you children, can I not worry about it?" Lin smiled, she was very attentive, but she still didn't plan for Ling'er! Speaking of which, I began to think that the Li family's family business was good, that child was really good, and Ling'er also liked it.
And that child is not valued in the Li family. I will probably not stay in the capital forever, in that case, naturally Ling'er will not need to be angry in front of her mother-in-law.
But unexpectedly, the child became the fourth prince. What will happen to Ling'er in the future, she really doesn't know. Ling'er's family affairs are really helpless.
As a matter of fact, I still don't know whether this family business will be successful in the end! Let's take one step at a time and see what will happen in the future, it is really unclear now.
"Then are we going to my aunt's and grandmother?" asked Su Ling. It's really been a long time since I've seen my aunt and grandmother, and it's the first time I've seen each other in my life. Actually, it's the last time I'll see you. It was when she first returned to Su's house.
Later, what Su Yuanyuan did made a fuss, and it was not easy for her family to come to the Yin family, so the people of the Yin family naturally did not come to the door. It's also that the two families still have to get married, so there will still be some contacts! I'm afraid I haven't had any contact with it for a long time!
It's been a long time since I saw each other.
It's always been a little embarrassing, it's really hard to come to the Yin family! It's also because Zhen'er got married today, so it's good to come over.
"Let's take a look! they're all here!" Lin sighed. Since I'm in the house, it's better to go and see them, but I don't know, if I see them. Isn't the old lady going to be unhappy!
"Then go ahead!" said Yingxin smiled. Actually, it's just to go and see it, and there's nothing to be afraid of!
The three of them also went to the old lady's yard, which was in a quieter place. It's better to live in a quieter place so as not to be disturbed all the time?
It's just that here today, it's very lively. Walking in the Yin family's house, Su Ling had some very complicated feelings in his heart. In fact, she is still very familiar with the children of the Yin family! She still remembers the traces of playing here in her previous life.
It's been a long time, but I still remember it!
"Eldest sister, don't you think this place is very unfamiliar?" asked Su Ling with a smile. After the eldest sister returned to the capital, she had not been to the Yin family! Although she had been here when she was a child, it was a long time ago.
And I came here when I was a child, so I don't have any memory.
"Yes, it's strange!" Su Ling sighed. "But there's always a bit of intimacy!" "Everything I play here is really a thing from my previous life." This feeling is actually quite complicated.
She returned to the capital again, and in the end there was still some change.
"You came here to play when you were younger, but years have passed, and it's normal not to remember. Lin smiled. This kid has been away from him for a few years!
Are you really so curious about the outside world? She has always felt that Ling'er is relatively well-behaved, and she has always grown up by her side, and she has almost never been to a place where there is an accident!
Occasionally, she would take her children out for a walk, but not much. Women pay attention to the fact that they don't go out of the door! They always run outside, what's going on!
The number of times she takes her children out is really very small, probably because of this, children always want to run outside! The outside world is like that, and there will always be some curiosity.
Although the life in the family is very good, it will still feel boring after a long time, and then it will be rich and prosperous. It is good in the eyes of adults, but in the eyes of children, it may not be so. always live a good life, where will the children still envy the wealth and prosperity.
Ling'er, this kid! I didn't know if I wanted to come back for a few years! Is it really that good outside? In fact, without the protection of the Su family, Ling'er wouldn't have a good life outside! Maybe with the help of the Li family, life can be regarded as good!
What's more, when Ling'er left, he didn't take much money with him! There was no shelter, and the world was still difficult outside. Maybe I didn't really suffer. If life is not good, I am afraid that I will already think about coming back!
It is such a ruthless heart! That is, children will be willing to leave their parents for so long. She is absolutely reluctant to leave her child for so long.
She just went out for a while, thinking that the children were all at home, and she would be in a hurry to come back! As a parent, the last thing she could do to her children was to be ruthless.
The child who was always by his side left all of a sudden, and he really felt empty in his heart. Even if there are other children, children and children are different!
At that time, I was really worried, but I sent out so many people and looked for so long. I always said that I would definitely find it, but I was inevitably a little desperate in my heart. Although it is said that the world is so big, so many people have been sent out to find it! If Ling'er is fine, it should be found.
Probably Ling'er didn't want to go home at that time! If she hadn't wanted to hide it, I'm afraid she would have been found long ago. But why don't you want to come back? It's really something that I can't figure out. If you want to go outside, then you should come back when you've seen enough!
She also asked, but Ling'er just said that she was curious about the outside world, and she couldn't ask anything, so she naturally didn't ask more.
"I really don't remember coming to play. Su Ling said with a smile. If there really was no previous life, where would she still remember the Yin family!
Entered the courtyard. It's really lively here, and there are a lot of people who come to this courtyard. The Yin family also has many relatives! Since it is a happy event, the relatives who can come naturally also come.
If it's a relative, I came to the house. I'm afraid they will all come to talk to the old lady! Naturally, all of them here are relatives, or people who usually walk closer.
"It's really lively here!" said Yingxin in a low voice. It's a happy event! It's all lively and festive!
But that's how it works! Since it's a happy event, of course, it has to be festive and lively, otherwise I don't feel it! Looking at such a lively and lively situation, the mood will improve.
"It's really lively. This is exactly how a day like this should be. When you get married in the future, I'm afraid the family will be even more lively!" Lin said with a smile. She is also looking forward to the time when the children get married!
It's just that I like that day not to come, the children are married, and they are about to leave their side, and they will really be very reluctant! Just like today's brother and daughter-in-law, they all cried when they saw Zhen'er leave!
Marrying a daughter is indeed a very sad thing! It is obviously a happy day, but it still makes people feel uncomfortable. But children! You can't get married! Men should get married, women should get married, and that's the way it is!
Everyone's children are like this, when the age is right, they are about to get married. No parent will really stop their children from marrying because they are reluctant to let their children get married.
In fact, when children reach their age, it is their parents who are most worried about marriage. If you really keep the child's age older, it won't be easy to say kiss! And ah! If you always drag it, you will let other people's families pick it up!
"It's still short, my mother said this again!" Yingxin was a little embarrassed. "I don't want to get married! I'm going to be with you all the time. ”
"You! It's just nice to say now! Later, you don't think like that anymore. When you really meet the person you like, I'm afraid you'll be in a hurry to get married. Lin smiled.
Children are like this, when they don't meet the person they like, they naturally don't know how to be anxious, if they have met such a person, where will they not be in a hurry!
And I don't know if it's good or not! If you really like someone, you don't know how to tolerate it. If you don't like your husband, no matter what you do, you won't be sad. But if you like it, it's even more likely to get hurt!
Man! You can really be good to a lady all the time! It's not much. There are many men with three wives and four concubines, and there are even those who spoil their concubines and kill their wives. No one's eyes are a mirror that can see a person's nature.
What she is most worried about is that her daughters are marrying the wrong people! She is really not having a good time, how can she feel at ease! As a parent, she really has to worry about endless things.
Yingxin smiled and didn't say anything more. Seeing that the people of the Su family were coming, the house suddenly became quiet. In the end, the Yin family and the Su family already have a disagreement, and others will be curious about how the two families get along!
There are still many people in the world who like to gloat. Some people are happy when they see others having a bad time!
"Old lady. Lin took his daughters forward to salute.
"Come and sit down!" the old lady smiled. In fact, she is also a person with clear grievances, whose fault is whose fault is whose fault, and she will not be angry casually. This niece and daughter-in-law is a good one, she knows that very well. And the children, she has nothing to be angry about.
At the time of that incident, Ling'er and the others hadn't been born yet! What was there to blame them for! Forget it after the matter passed! Always lingering, it just made it difficult for the children.
Since the two families are in-laws, they still have to support each other in the future. It's a relationship of both glory and loss, but they can't make trouble by themselves and make people laugh. There are always times when I still rely on the Su family!
(To be continued.) )