"There is a good saying, the rooster presses the hen, the first level presses the first level, and the official level crushes the person to death, so all aspects must be taken into account, so as not to be passive and difficult to get along with in the future. Ke Liang said.

"Isn't it just a driver, a big fart, it's not that complicated. Ge Kang said.

"Officialdom pays attention to absolute obedience, and no matter what you do, you must listen to the leader, this is the way of being an official. Ke Liang said.

Obedience is no stranger to everyone, and as soon as a person is born into this world, he is inseparable from these two words. When I was a child, I had to obey my parents, I had to obey my teachers when I went to school, and after I joined the work, I made everyone consciously and unconsciously accompany it, I wanted to obey your superiors, and my subordinates had to obey you, and obedience was unconditional, and when you received an order, you had to follow the instructions at the first time. The subordinate is absolutely subordinate to the superior, this is the rule of officialdom, requiring the subordinate to obey the superior, and it is right to be the wrong official, first implement and then theoretical, no matter what decision the leader makes, the subordinate can only comply with the implementation, if the subordinate does not carry out the superior's order, the subordinate will be retaliated against, and even squeezed out of this unit, a small official can put on a full shelf, be the master, be the emperor, and can exploit the value, personality, remuneration and dignity of the subordinate outside the scope of work responsibilities and business.

"The driver is not easy to use, is this official a little bad. Ge Kang said.

"After all, now I am a deputy, and I don't have the final say, especially when I go to a new department, I must slowly understand and adapt, so I have to compromise for the time being, but if something is man-made, there will always be a way to solve it. Ke Liang said.

"I know this, that's why it's like this, I would have scolded him a long time ago. Li Jinghe said.

"That is, there is an old man who is afraid of something. It should be horizontal, and the secretary didn't dare to snort. Ge Kang said.

"This is not the case in officialdom, you must learn to tolerate appropriately, you don't have to be too competitive, under normal circumstances, you don't care about the gains and losses with others, and you have to endure it again when you can't bear it, and you have to have enough self-confidence and smile. That's how it will be taken care of. Ke Liang said.

Seeing that the time was almost up, Li Jinghe called Liu Zhenhua and asked him to rush to the door of the hotel and wait.

"Why don't you put him back and let him eat casually below, so you don't have to call him. As a leader driver, you must always be by the leader's side. Ge Kang said.

"I didn't just take office, and I didn't know anyone, so I asked him to go back first. Li Jinghe said.

"It's not okay to be an official like this, you have to establish your prestige. A little driver is a fart, and he can think so much about him. Ge Kang said.

"Don't talk nonsense, Jinghe's approach is right, there must be an adaptation stage for everything, especially in officialdom, you must have self-control. Zhou Jun said.

It is well said that self-control is the ability to control oneself, which refers to one's own impulses. Feelings ** exert the correct control zhì. Ke Liang said.

Self-control refers to the sense of control over the events around you, over your present and future. Decide whether you can control your success or failure, and whether you can control your relationships. Whether you can control the direction of your life. Why should we have self-control, self-control is a reflection of a person's maturity. Without self-control, there are no good habits. Without good habits, there is no good life, and the easiest people to achieve great things are those who can control themselves. Lack of self-control and talking about success is like a blind person talking about colors. Give yourself a chance to create a zào. To create a zào opportunity for yourself is to be able to concentrate on doing one thing well. Concentration is self-control, something internal. Learning to control oneself is an improvement to oneself. With self-control, you will be at ease in doing anything. On the other hand, poor self-control is a lack of motivation for a large extent. Usually. There are four motives for human beings, one is the force of love, the second is the driving force of career, the third is the reaction force of discrimination, and the fourth is the calling force of mysterious things. And you have been living a passive life, not actively applying the above four traction forces. There is no pursuit without a crisis, and a crisis will really come without a pursuit. The pressure of parents is a kind of strength, and the coming of a crisis is also a kind of force, if you find the wolf behind you, you will desperately move forward to that wolf. Why? List all the terrible consequences that you can have if you don't work hard. The most important thing is that the one who can pull the whole body is the most vicious wolf. Controlling oneself is often when oneself is rational, and not wanting to control oneself is often when it is emotional. So it seems that the problem of sensibility cannot be solved with the goal of reason. I think everyone feels this way, and no one can avoid it completely, so we can only improve. First of all, don't feel oppressed by yourself, try to find something in your life that you feel comfortable doing, such as the so-called indulgence, occasional indulgence, and then make some small plans for yourself, the difficulty is not too high, but it must be completed, if it can't be done, then find the reason.

After eating, everyone walked out of the hotel together, several people's drivers have started the car and waited, saw the leader come out, quickly got out of the car and opened the door, the leader got on the car and closed the door, and then got on the car and waited for the leader's order. Li Jinghe saw that Liu Zhenhua had not yet arrived, so he dialed his phone and learned that he would arrive immediately, so he asked him to hurry up. I was very unhappy, I really didn't make a face for him, I had already called him, I should have arrived at this time, and I waited in front of the door early.

"Why, the car is still here, do I want to send you back. Zhou Jun said.

"No, the driver will be there in a moment. Li Jinghe said.

"Alright, let's go first. Zhou Jun said.

"Jinghe, let's go first, call me for something. Ke Liang said.

"Okay, you go first. Li Jinghe said.

After three minutes, Liu Zhenhua drove over, saw Li Jinghe standing at the door waiting, parked the car beside him, and then got out of the car and opened the door, Li Jinghe lowered his head and got in.

"Secretary Li, where are you going now?" asked Liu Zhenhua.

"Go home first. Li Jinghe said.

Liu Zhenhua then started the car and said on the road: "Secretary Li, I'm really sorry, I came out immediately after receiving your call, I didn't expect the traffic jam on the road, and it turned out to be late, this is my fault, and I ask for your forgiveness." ”

Li Jinghe glanced at him, what else could he say after saying this, and said casually: "It's okay, safety on the road is the most important, and it doesn't matter if it's late." "If you have a heart, there are still a lot of thieves, and you are afraid of blaming him, so you will take the initiative to admit your mistakes. It wasn't too late to call him, it was totally possible to arrive early. But he didn't arrive in time, and justified himself on the grounds of traffic jams, which made him lose face in front of people. This kind of person has a flamboyant tongue and has a certain amount of social experience, but he is not very good at doing things, taking today's incident as an example, he has left enough time, but he is still a few minutes late. The traffic jam on the road is purely an excuse, and there are only two points that can be explained, one is that he came out late for something, and the other is that he did it on purpose. The first point can be forgiven, who can still have nothing to do, and there is nothing to arrive late, if the second point is not to be taken as a different matter, that is, not to put him in his eyes, deliberately give him a look, to see how he treats him. The most infuriating thing is that he is deceiving him, if he really has something to say directly, there is no need to make up a reason to deceive him. In short, Li Jinghe's impression of Liu Zhenhua is very bad.

Li Jinghe inadvertently raised his head and found that Liu Zhenhua was paying attention to him through the mirror. When I saw him look up, I quickly looked away, obviously observing his expression. I am even more unhappy in my heart, drive your car well, why should you pay attention to your expression, what does your expression have to do with you.

At this time, the mobile phone rang, and I saw that it was Liang Jiguang's number, and asked him to have dinner in the evening, and several buddies from the court gathered together to congratulate him on his promotion to deputy secretary.

"Don't refuse, today is Sunday, everyone is resting, just have time, one is to express my gratitude to you, and the other is out of buddy feelings, everyone is happy together. "Liang Jiguang.

"Okay, but find a small restaurant in the middle of nowhere, so as not to make people talk about it. Li Jinghe said.

"The hotel has been booked, let's go to Shunda Road Farm Paradise, the food tastes good, it is very remote, no one will pay attention. Liang Jiguang said.

"Well, be on time in the evening. Li Jinghe said.

When he arrived downstairs, Li Jinghe wanted Liu Zhenhua to go back first and pick him up at dinner in the evening, but there was something wrong with it, so he told Liu Zhenhua to wait in the car, and went upstairs after speaking. Li Jinghe returned home, Yuan Yuan was waiting for him, because he was angry with Liu Zhenhua, his face was a little unhappy, seeing that he was a little unhappy, he asked: "What's wrong, why are you a little unhappy." ”

"It wasn't for the driver's business, so I called him early, but I didn't arrive, and I lost my share in front of people. Li Jinghe said.

"It's not surprising, traffic jams on the road are normal, and it doesn't matter if it's early or late. Yuan Yuan said.

"It's annoying that I don't tell the truth, I informed him early, I could have arrived early, but I arrived a few minutes late, saying that there was a traffic jam on the road, and it was impossible to encounter a traffic jam at that time. Li Jinghe said.

"Maybe there is something at home, and it is understandable to go late. Yuan Yuan said.

"The reason why I am unhappy, if I have something to say, I can not take it to heart, why make up a reason to deceive me, who believes that there is a traffic jam on the road. Li Jinghe said.

"It's not worth being angry about this, you don't have to be like him. Yuan Yuan said.

"It's not okay to go on like this, don't make a face for me at all, do you still have me in your heart, Dad is right, the driver must be his own person. Li Jinghe said.

"Then what do you want to do, do you want to change him?" Yuan Yuan asked.

"Yes, it's just that there is no suitable candidate yet, so we have to wait and see, but it will be a matter of time before he is replaced. Li Jinghe said. (To be continued......)