Yuan Weihua was writing an essay at the desk, the phone rang, someone answered the phone, and then asked him to answer the phone, and when he heard the phone from the director Zhang Jun, he asked him to go to the office immediately, and he had something important to say to him. Hearing that the director was looking for him, Yuan Weihua felt a little strange in his heart, why did he suddenly think of him when he was an official today. In recent years, no leader has looked for him, and the official who has the most contact with him is the office director, who is his immediate boss, and he has a job and says it to his face, and he has never called him, let alone the director. Usually out of politeness, occasionally meet and talk to him to say hello, he is the director, the emperor of the bureau, he has the final say in the compound, the official shelf is also big, he doesn't even raise his head, just "hum" and leave, he doesn't look at him at all, he knows that he has no status in his heart, he doesn't take him seriously, he understands that he is boring, he sticks a hot face to a cold ass, he is angry but there is no way.

It's no wonder that there is no contact at all on weekdays, and the meeting is also a symbolic nod, not to mention a treat and gifts, so many years I don't even know where the director's family lives, because I am angry in my heart, I can't get used to his unbeatable style, sometimes I just don't see it when I meet, and I bow my head and pass by him. How can he take him seriously, this is also the reason why he has not been promoted for many years, who does not use his own people, just his own bad temper, and nothing good will think of him. My wife has said many times that his elm head is not open, and he is a tendon thing, usually if he lives a little more and has more relationships with the leader, he will not end up with today's result, although he does not seek to be a big official and make a lot of money, at least he can do his own things, such as the matter of children going to work. Anyone else does. But not when it comes to him. It's obviously deliberately making things difficult for him, and you can't say it, so you have to admit that you are dumb and lose.

Someone has secretly advised him before, life should be realistic in the world, and you can't be too stubborn in your behavior and actions, and stubbornness sometimes makes people think that you have a lot of personality, but more often it gives people the feeling of stubbornness and unreasonableness. After a long time, no one will pay attention to you. Not to mention being an official, seeing that you can't get up to the wall, rotten wood can't be carved, it's useless, there is no more than you, there is no more than you, just as an ornament, naturally I won't take you seriously. There is a way to know the current affairs for the junjie, so that you can adapt to the development of the trend, don't put the teacher's stinky shelf, think you are high. Thinking that you are great, this will not work in society at all. will push yourself to a dead end.

To learn a way of thinking about the world, many people have too many obstacles in their lives because of excessive stubbornness and ignorance. If you are just blindly stubborn, the final result will inevitably lead to self-destruction, and stubbornness is a psychological characteristic shared by almost all people. In fact, the original meaning of stubbornness is to choose the good and be stubborn, to adhere to the principle, to persevere, and to be honest. In the complex reality of life, if you are stubborn about everything in general, then you will go to the opposite of it. Flexibility is a way of thinking that people learn to live in the world after suffering from countless stubbornness. From stubbornness to flexibility belongs to the category of quantitative change. Since it is a variable, there is a degree. Change has a degree, and if it exceeds the degree, it will lose its principle.

Now is that environment, the so-called villain gains power, traitor wins, rotten socks change vests, and little ghosts ascend to the city god, because they know the leader's mind, know what the leader thinks, and know what the leader needs, so they do everything possible to please them and please them. The leader is the person who likes to flatter and vote for what he likes, which leader is not willing to wear a high hat, listen to flattery, and do not want his subordinates to be close to him and listen to him. If the top hat is well worn, and the flattery is smooth, the leader will be happy, and only when he is happy, you will be happy, and you can benefit from it.

As the saying goes, how can people not bow their heads under the eaves, this is also a roundabout tactic, in order to recuperate, to show weakness, to show weakness so that others can ignore you, in order to wait for the opportunity to make a comeback. How can people not bow their heads under the eaves, that is, they seek perfection through compromises, and seeking perfection is not equal to seeking glory from the seller, nor is it flattery, and retreating is a kind of elastic self-help, and it is another strategy and wisdom for success in life.

So a little lower is not a loss, more contact with the leader, usually nothing to hang out, drink and play cards, take the opportunity to contact the feelings, especially during the New Year's holidays, etiquette to visit, there is a way is not to blame many people, reach out and do not hit the smiling person, so as to get the leader's favor, what good things will think of him. Otherwise, I haven't even eaten a piece of candy, I haven't smoked a cigarette, and I have avoided walking when we meet, so naturally I won't think of him. Yuan Weihua listened to it and disagreed, this is a sloppy slap horse, flattery, and a pander, catering to the psychology of the leader, and losing the dignity of being a human being, he can't do it.

What is the matter with Director Zhang looking for him today, and he is personally calling to find him, you can find the office director for work matters, he is the leader's microphone, there is no need to look for him, this is also not in line with his character, what kind of work to talk about with an ordinary worker, and it is an important thing, is it that he made some mistakes, think about it and there is nothing big wrong, so as not to alarm the director, do you see that he is not pleasing to the eye, and want him to move the place, where to put him? He is already so old, which department is still willing to want him, and he can't wait to leave quickly. Now what is worth a lot of money the older you are, but the older you are, the more unpopular you are, if that's the case, you have to make your own report, leave your post in advance to rest, if you really want to leave, you really don't want to leave, Yuan Weihua came to Zhang Jun's office nervously.

Seeing Yuan Weihua come in, Zhang Jun stood up, warmly asked him to sit down, personally brought him a glass of water, and took out a cigarette to entertain him, Yuan Weihua waved his hand to express his gratitude. It was a little flattering to see the director so enthusiastic, I had never seen his smiling face in my life, and he was so close, he didn't know what to say for a while, and he didn't dare to say anything while sitting on the sofa.

"Old Yuan, how many years have you been working in the office?" Zhang Jun asked gently.

"I've been working in the office since I was transferred in and I've never changed jobs." Yuan Weihua replied, I don't know the purpose of his questioning, does he really want him to leave, this kind of thing is embarrassing for others to say, and only the director of the bureau can say it, but it doesn't look like his expression, his face is kind, his tone is gentle, and he doesn't have the stern expression he used to have, what is he going to do?

"Is it also an old comrade? It's not easy to do it for so many years, and I've really wronged you. Zhang Jun said.

"Director, did I make any mistakes, if there is a mistake, you can say it directly, and I will correct it immediately." Yuan Weihua said. I don't know what he means by saying this, but I still wonder about his intentions in my heart.

"Where to say, I want to talk to you today, on behalf of the organization's opinions, I read your resume, you are a teacher, have a certain cultural foundation, know how to engage in staff education, want to give full play to your talents." Zhang Jun said.

"You want me to change jobs, I'm so old, what else can I do." Yuan Weihua said.

Hearing this, Yuan Weihua felt a little panicked in his heart, it seems that he really wanted him to change his position, the leader is the leader, he speaks artistically, he doesn't say his thoughts directly, he speaks in a gentle voice, so that you can't speak, and he is ruthless and not soft at all. Now I really regret it, I didn't have a good relationship with the leader before, and I ended up doing this outcome, engaging in staff education, although he was a teacher, occupied the podium, but how did he understand the staff education work, that bit of knowledge has already passed, this is not to squeeze the widow to marry, the rooster lays eggs, and it is difficult for him to embarrass him, and he wants to drive him away and don't say it directly, let him bring it up himself, the wrist can not be said to be vicious, so that he can kill people without a knife, and he has to say that he is good.

"You misunderstood what I meant, at present, the cultural literacy of the employees of the enterprise is low, and they can no longer adapt to the needs of the development of modern forms, because there is no talent in this area, it has always been a lack in the bureau, and we leaders feel embarrassed." Zhang Jun said.

"But what can I do, I'm just a primary school teacher, and I've been so many years that I'm not competent at all, so I ask the leader to ask another master." Yuan Weihua said.

"It's not that you're going to be a faculty member, you're in charge of it, you have experience in education, you have to do it, and no one else can do it." Zhang Jun said.

"I don't understand what you mean, is it difficult for some strong people, if you have anything to say, I will do it if I can, if I can't do it, I can't force it, so that people don't say that I don't when I stand in the pit, so it's better to go home and pick up the child." Yuan Weihua said.

It's bearable, it's unbearable, it's really unbelievable, it's just too deceitful, so that Yuan Weihua can't bear it, thinking of the grievances he had suffered, the fire in his heart came up, he didn't take him seriously, he was about to be fifty years old, and he bullied him like a child, let him play, squeezed him home, and forced him to a dead end, without a little humanity. In this case, you can't be polite when you speak, tomorrow you will be home, and you won't see him in this life, and you're afraid of what he will do at this point, there is a way for people to fight for a breath, and the Buddha fights for a pillar of incense, and people can't see his weakness, even the clay man also has a dirty nature, and he has to bite him twice before leaving, so that he will be disgusted with him, so that he is not happy, it is best to anger him to death, and he will not pay for his life, and he will find himself in a qiē.

"Lao Yuan, don't worry, listen to what I said, the bureau means that you should be the director of the training center, responsible for the staff training of the enterprise, it turned out to be with the office, in order to do a good job in training, now it is to be separated separately and focus on employee training." Zhang Jun spoke his mind.

"I see." Yuan Weihua said. (To be continued......)