Chapter 841: Persuasion!

For example, the older generation such as Mr. Yan, in this life, what storms have not been experienced? Especially after that turbulent era, even death is not strange to them, and they are not afraid!

Living to their age, some things have been completely seen, and they don't take it so seriously for money and interests!

Perhaps, the only thing that can be remembered by them is the rise and fall of the family! This is not the life and death of a single person, but the rise and fall of a big family!

Therefore, Old Man Yan thinks that if there is a character like Xiao Feng among his descendants, it will protect the Yan family for decades, so what is he afraid of dying?

It's a pity that among the younger generation of the Yan family, there is not a single person who can carry the crown! His most optimistic grandson, Yan Zhipeng, is competing with his family, and would rather fool around than take the Cotai Avenue that has been arranged by his family!

With Old Man Yan's connections and power, what he arranged for his grandson is definitely a golden road leading to Rome!

Yan Zhipeng doesn't need to be very good, as long as he doesn't make big mistakes, then Old Man Yan will be sure that he will rise step by step!

In this way, although it can't make the Yan family more prosperous, at least it won't let the Yan family perish, but this guy is also a stubborn person, so Old Man Yan is helpless, and he doesn't bother to care about him anymore......

Whenever I think that the Yan family has no successor, I only rely on him and the second generation to support him, and the old man Yan is in such a mood, so he pulls out the cold!

After a hundred years, what will be the future of the Yan family?

Old man Yan sighed, although the second generation of the Yan family has developed well, there is no one who can carry the beam, even if it is Yan Zhipeng's old son, it has not met his expectations!

Looking at Yan Zhipeng next to him, Old Man Yan was even more powerless, what did this guy want? In the third generation, he was the most intelligent and courageous, he was originally the one he admired the most, but it was what worried him the most!

"Alas, alas, alas!" Old Man Yan sighed three times in a row, hating iron does not make steel!

Yan Zhipeng saw the old man sigh and shrank his head, anyway, he is also digging into the horns of the bull, and if he doesn't let me do what I like to do, then I won't do anything, how can I love it!

Don't look at Yan Zhipeng, who is usually afraid of Old Man Yan, and he is quite filial, but when it comes to this matter, he has no need to discuss!

"Elder Yan, you are strict. Xiao Feng couldn't cry or laugh when he heard Yan Lao's praise, "I'm not very good, I just like to toss around." ”

"Toss, isn't it just a toss to live this life? Toss understands, glory and wealth; toss doesn't understand, poverty ...... destitute" Old man Yan waved his hand: "At least, in my opinion, Xiao Xiaoyou tossed very clearly." ”

Xiao Feng was silent for a few seconds, Old Man Yan's words made sense! Moreover, living to this age, especially the old man who has been dominant in this life, every sentence is full of truth and wisdom......

"I really envy Jing Lao, and I also admire him, he has cultivated you so well, in this regard, I am really inferior to him!"

Listening to Old Man Yan talk about this, Xiao Feng was quite grateful to Old Jing, in fact, the old guy didn't force him to do anything, let alone force him to set a certain path, and then forced him to follow this road!

Whether it was in his childhood or when he was growing up, Jing Lao never said, 'What you have to do', and never asked, what you want to do, let him develop!

Therefore, Xiao Feng's childhood, in addition to not knowing his life experience, was still very complete and happy!

This can be seen from the fact that Jing Lao did not force Xiao Feng to practice ancient martial arts, so if he were to change to other old people, he would have been forced to cultivate all day long!

But what about Jing Lao, he handed over the mental method to Xiao Feng, and he didn't even say what this mental method was for, and let him practice it by himself or not!

If Xiao Feng hadn't discovered later that this mental method would help sober up and improve his mental state, it is estimated that he would have forgotten it long ago!

Hoping for a son to become a dragon is the expectation of everyone, especially in China, and even more so for parents and elders! Even, in order to let children become dragons and phoenixes, they do not hesitate to sacrifice their children's childhood, freedom, and health......

And Jing Lao has never had such thoughts and expectations! Perhaps, he also has it in his heart, but he has never expressed it, let alone imposed his thoughts on Xiao Feng or Jing Bei'er!

Judging from these alone, Xiao Feng is very grateful to Jing Lao, although he didn't know his background before, he was happier than most Huaxia children!

Well, maybe it's these two words, he just watched from the side, as long as the child doesn't touch some bottom lines that can't be touched, then he won't discipline more......

"Elder Yan, do you know how my grandfather cultivated me?" Xiao Feng thought for a moment and asked with a smile.

"I'm also curious how he raised you to be so good. Old Man Yan nodded.

"Hehe, if I say that my grandfather never cultivated me, let alone forced me, and imposed ideas on me, would you believe it?"

"What?" Old Man Yan's eyes widened.

Xiao Feng subconsciously took out his cigarette, suddenly thought of something, and just wanted to put it away, but saw Old Man Yan waving his hand: "Smoke, I don't mind." ”

"Brother Feng, my grandfather also smokes. Yan Zhipeng also said a word next to him.

Xiao Feng hurriedly handed over one, and Old Man Yan took it and looked at it: "Heh, it's still a special offer." ”

Old Man Yan didn't ask where Xiao Feng's special cigarette came from, but he lit it and Meimei took a puff: "Xiao Xiaoyou, you go on." "Hmm. Xiao Feng also lit a cigarette and took a puff: "Let's put it this way, when I was in school, my grandfather never told me, how many points you have to take this semester, how many ...... you have to take the exam?"

"Oh?

"No, in fact, he didn't ignore me, but guided me, so my academic performance in school has always been very good......

All the way to high school, he didn't say what he wanted me to do in the future, what I had to do...... Later, when it came to the college entrance examination, he didn't ask me where I wanted to go to university. ”

Next to him, Yan Zhipeng's eyes lit up when he heard this, why didn't he have such an enlightened grandfather! He looked at Xiao Feng, and then thought of his childhood and the things he would do when he went to school, he felt like he was in tears!

The expectations of his parents, grandfather, and family pressed on Yan Zhipeng's body like several mountains, making him a little out of breath!

Although he is also excellent in character and learning, he and Xiao Feng's mood is completely different, he is like being in a sea of swords and fire, more like a soulless puppet, living for his parents, for his grandfather, for his family, but not for himself......

"As for the university, hehe, I went to the school to report, and then I left, came to the capital, and then I went abroad to ......" Xiao Feng didn't elaborate on these things, because some things involved secrets.

"Then you ......"

"My grandfather said that what he applied to me was a free-range policy! He said that in the world, there are too many wealthy families, and there are too many children who have been cultivated, and most of them are like people carved out of a template, and they can't go their own way. ”

"Can't get out of a template?" Old Man Yan's heart beat and he repeated these two sentences.

"Yes, everyone has their own wonderful, and everyone has their own way! My so-called wonderful has nothing to do with money, power and status, but where he thinks his value lies!

I've heard Dapeng say that you have paved the way for him in the next ten or even twenty years, but society is changing, can you really pave the way for him for a lifetime?"

Old Man Yan glanced at Yan Zhipeng and shook his head slowly: "No, with my old bones, I don't know how long I can live, how can I think of such a far......"

"Hmm. Xiao Feng nodded: "If I have to say, what is the difference between me and the children of other families, it should be the difference of 'independence'! Since I was a child, I have never relied on anyone, and my grandfather also told me that it is better to rely on others than on yourself......

The children of the big family, doing some things, there are too many favors and conveniences, even if they can't handle it well, the family power will help them do it!

For example, in the same tiger, I am a tiger foraging in the jungle, and the child of a large family is a tiger in a zoo or circus. They grew up in the sight and under the lights, and I was only accompanied by endless forests and challenges......"

Old Man Yan nodded thoughtfully. In fact, the truth is very simple, with the old man's experience, he naturally understands it, but he doesn't want to think about it, but does it according to his own plan!

Now that he heard Xiao Feng say this, it touched him greatly, making him not only ask himself, did he do something wrong all these years?

"Elder Yan, I don't deny that you have arranged a shortcut for Dapeng, as long as he goes on, he will definitely achieve achievements! However, he is your grandson, you should know him very well, if he relies on himself, he will not be able to achieve achievements?" Xiao Feng asked seriously.

Old Man Yan raised his head, looked at Yan Zhipeng, who was full of anticipation and apprehension, opened his mouth, but sighed: "Alas, ......"

"Elder Yan, I am willing to be friends with Dapeng, not only because of his temper, but also because he is not a bad breed! On the cruise ship, his ability can be demonstrated, he is almost as a leader, comforting the other children in the capital, this is his ability, isn't it?

After the cruise, we went to Kaibili Island, and he also showed his excellent physical and mental qualities......"

Although the matter on Kaibili Island was top secret, Yan Zhipeng was involved, and he would definitely tell Old Man Yan as well, so Xiao Feng didn't hide it.

"Xiao Xiaoyou, I understand what you mean, maybe I used to be too conformist, maybe I should really give him some freedom and let him step out of his own path. Old Man Yan said in a deep voice.