"Whether life is good or not is lived by yourself, as long as you feel that you are living well, then it will be fine." Su Ling smiled and said, "Knowing that you're okay, I'm relieved." ”

I hope that in this life, Zhilan can really live a good life! Zhilan is indeed a very good woman, in fact, she thinks that Zhilan can manage her marriage well. When it comes to marriage, many people think that it is just a matter of two people living their lives.

In fact, how to live a good life for two people still requires two people to manage it with their hearts. And in more traditional countries, marriage is not considered to be two people's lives, but a family's life.

Most of the time, when a woman gets married, she has to deal with her husband's family. If the family has a large population and a more complex relationship, such a marriage will be relatively more difficult to manage.

In addition, if both parties are only children, and they have to support both parents, there will be a lot of people in the family. And if the parents live together, there will be a lot of conflicts.

It's like some families I've seen before, both parties are only children, and then after getting married, the woman's parents have to support them. The man's parents, as well as grandparents, grandparents, and grandparents, such a family, in fact, is really scary when you think about it.

When there are more people, there are naturally more belongings, and it is difficult to afford to support so many people, and the relationship is also very complicated.

But here, there are almost no such families, and many families have several children. Just like Zhilan's family, there are younger brothers and sisters, and in the future, parents will also have younger brothers to support. When it comes to the money needed for life, in fact, the old people who have served the Su family all their lives, the Su family will also provide for them.

And the population of the Zhou family is also very simple, and now Zhilan is also a mother-in-law, a father-in-law, and a family of three, which can be regarded as a very simple family.

"Miss, don't worry about slaves." Zhilan smiled. "Actually, when I left, the old lady rewarded me with a lot of things. I thought that I would be able to make a small deal with the money and live without such a tight life. But my mother-in-law and my father-in-law said that it was my dowry, so don't move. ”

"Actually, you're right. If you do a small business, you will have a stable income in the future, and your life will slowly get better. Su Ling said with a smile. So what do you have now? ”

"It's me and my mother-in-law doing some needlework, and my mother-in-law's skills are very good. I've been doing this for years, but I can find a job. ”

"That's it, and it's not a long-term solution. Needlework hurts your eyes, and you can't be young and your eyes are bad. Surin sighed. Doing needlework to get by, this is really not suitable.

If it's just a regular occasion, do it once in a while. Naturally, it's nothing, but to live with this craft, that is, to be busy doing needlework all the time, and have little leisure, which really hurts your eyes.

It's still very different to do it once in a while, and to do it as a job.

"I know that, but I don't know what to do now!" Zhilan smiled. The main thing is to make money, and many times it is necessary to have capital. And if you do needlework, you have almost no capital. And it's not a good time. The fabric and thread will still be made by others.

Purely manual work, there is little cost. It's just that I can't make any money, and it's just to make ends meet. She still has a little money in her hand, the lord and the lady have a lot of rewards, and the dowry prepared for her by her father and mother is relatively rich.

It's just that if the mother-in-law doesn't agree to use it, she can't insist on it. If she has to insist, her mother-in-law is afraid that she will think that she is disgusted with the current life too bitter. Or she will think that she thinks she has savings, and then looks down on the Zhou family!

So, after saying it once, she didn't have much to say.

"Let's take a look!" Su Ling didn't know what else to help Zhilan for a while. If Zhilan is short of money. She can also help. Originally, this time, she was also going to take some silver money to Zhilan.

She really hopes that Zhilan can live a good life, at least not suffer in food and clothing. Since she was a child, Zhilan has never suffered anything. Zhilan's parents still have some face in the Su family. When you go out, you have to be respectful.

Zhilan has had a good life since she was a child, and then she entered the house, and she did all the work of frugality, and it has always been good to eat and wear.

In fact, the eldest girl of the Su family is afraid that she is better off than some of the daughters of other people. It's no wonder that some maids are very reluctant to leave, in fact, leaving is to get married. After getting married, it is difficult to have a good life when I was in the house before.

But when the age comes, you still have to get married, even if you are not in a hurry, the elders must be anxious. So we can't keep putting it off.

"Yes! It's rare for the eldest lady to come over, so don't always talk about slaves. Is the eldest lady doing well all these years? ”

"Me! Actually, it's okay. My parents think I'm suffering outside, but I really think it's good outside. Although the food and clothing consumption cannot be compared with the house, but in those years, I lived a very happy life. ”

"That's fine, in fact, after the eldest lady left, the people in the house were very worried, for fear that the eldest lady would not have a good time outside." And how can you not worry! When a child is outside and lives alone, everyone thinks that it will not be good!

Although there are still many good people, there will still be many bad people. The eldest lady may not be lucky enough to get help from well-wishers

But looking at the look on the eldest lady's expression, those years should have been really good. In fact, now that the eldest lady has come back safely, this is good.

After sitting for a while, Su Ling also stood up and said goodbye. Zhilan and Zhilan's mother-in-law sent Su Ling out, and Zhilan was the father-in-law Zhou Yang reading in the study, because Su Ling was a woman, he just came out in a hurry to meet him, so he avoided it.

"I'll come back to see you when I'm free." Su Ling said with a smile.

"Okay." Zhilan nodded.

"If you don't have anything to do, go to the house more often! While we are still in the capital, we can see each other more! Su Ling smiled. No one can say what will happen in the future, and I don't know when, it will be difficult to see.

She may leave the capital, and neither will Zhilan. If Zhou Yang can really make a difference in the future, if he wants to be an official, he may not be able to be a Beijing official.

There aren't many times we can get together. While the capital is still in the capital, let's get together more!

"The slave will." Zhilan smiled and nodded.

After saying goodbye, Su Ling also got into the carriage and left. Sitting in the carriage, Su Ling lifted the curtain and looked out. Zhilan's figure became smaller and smaller, and then the carriage turned a corner, and she couldn't see it. (To be continued.) )