Chapter Twenty-Eight: The Dinks
Speaking of Zhao Xiaoxi's cousin and her husband, they are typical representatives of "Tie Ding", because the age difference between them and Zhao Xiaoxi is not much, and the two of them have played since childhood, and the relationship is as good as that of sisters. Pen & Fun & Pavilion www.biquge.info
My cousin studied well since she was a child, and she went to the doctorate, becoming the third group of people besides men and women, but my cousin was lucky, she married her boyfriend when she was a graduate student, and her cousin's husband was also a supporter of Dink, so the two came together.
"Cousin, what do you and your cousin-husband think? You can be so resolute to be a dink!" Zhao Xiaoxi talked to her cousin about this topic before she got married, she had always been very incomprehensible to her cousin's behavior, she felt that she should do something at any age, and that it was still necessary to have children to reproduce human beings.
"Xiaoxi, you'll know when you get married in the future, the child is definitely the one who came to collect debts from you in the previous life!" said the cousin who pat Zhao Xiaoxi's shoulder with a smile and her short hair.
"You're still a doctor, and you're still so superstitious about your past and present lives!" Zhao Xiaoxi laughed when he heard his cousin's words.
"Your cousin-in-law and I are both studying sociology, especially on the issue of population aging, and we have come into contact with many cases, although many old people are full of children and grandchildren, but their old age is very bad, even very miserable! So my cousin-in-law and I have reached a consensus that we will not have children. The cousin saw Zhao Xiaoxi smile, and then said seriously.
"I think you are too pessimistic, just because of this, you don't want children, I won't talk about it at my aunt's side, but how can my cousin's parents compromise easily!" Zhao Xiaoxi said that he did not agree with his cousin's point of view at all.
"Maybe! Everybody lives differently, some people may think that we are living a selfish life, but we as husbands and wives think it's okay. The cousin did not answer Zhao Xiaoxi's question and continued to speak.
"Then are you afraid that you will regret it when you get older and you won't be able to have children again?" Zhao Xiaoxi asked a very serious question.
"Since you have chosen, you will not regret it!" said my cousin firmly.
Fortunately, my cousin's marriage and childbirth did not affect Zhao Xiaoxi, she has always been a woman full of motherhood, when she had no children, she met others on the road with children and went back to chat a few words, and when she saw the appearance of cute children, she felt that her mood had improved, and since she had a child, she was even more motherly.
In fact, Zhao Xiaoxi's own mother also persuaded her to have another child, but Zhao Xiaoxi also decisively refused, recently her husband was clamoring to have a second child, she didn't dare to tell her mother, or her mother would have to bring up the old matter again.
After urging several times, Qian Qian sent her her resume and works, and there was still no improvement at a glance, a few paragraphs, although Zhao Xiaoxi is not a professional, but from the eyes of laymen, the level is not good.
Just as Meng Meng's phone called, he said, "Xiaoxi, I asked my classmate, they just happen to be in urgent need of manpower, you can send me her resume quickly!"
"Well, she's already given her resume, but I still have to polish it for her. Zhao Xiaoxi said helplessly.
By the way, I still want to ask you, could it be that this cousin came to Beijing to live in your house! Then your family has really become a Beijing office. Meng Meng really knows Zhao Xiaoxi too well, and she loves and hates her character of not being able to refuse others.
"Hey... I thought that when she came to Beijing, she would first settle down in our house temporarily, and then we would help her find a place to live after she went to work, and she couldn't let her go out to live as soon as she came to Beijing, and then my mother-in-law would have to make trouble again!" Zhao Xiaoxi also thought about what happened after Qianqian came, and the family already had old and young people crowded into a set of 80 square meters of small three-bedroom, if she came to Xiqian again, it would be inconvenient, not to mention that she was still worried about her daughter's school district room.
Speaking of school district housing, Zhao Xiaoxi plans to exchange the current 80 square meters for a 60-square-meter or even smaller school district house, only in this way can he make up the difference, reduce the pressure and reduce it, which means that their family of four and three generations will be squeezed into a narrow house.
Although the road ahead is very difficult, she doesn't want her daughter to lose at the starting line and have a gap with other children, which is also the living and learning environment she tries her best to create for her daughter.