"May I ask what is better, can you teach me?" Sun Suhe humbly asked the sommelier for advice.

The sommelier didn't have any displeasure or embarrassment when he saw Sun Suhe in this situation, but generously and sincerely asked for advice. He was stunned for a moment, then smiled slightly, put aside some scruples in the world, and pointed out very seriously: "The drinking temperature of most wines is below 18 °C, and the temperature of the human palm is usually kept at about 36 °C. ”

"That's why I would recommend this way of holding the glass. The sommelier pinched the pillar under the glass with his fingers and shook it gently, "so that the temperature of the human body does not affect the flavor, and it is also convenient to shake the wine and taste the aroma, and at the same time, it can also avoid fingerprints." This is the most commonly used method and works in almost all situations. ”

"It turns out that there is so much more to learn here. Sun Suhe followed with great interest the example of a sommelier.

"Don't dare to be it, don't dare to be, this is what kind of knowledge, it's just a little skill for wine tasting. The sommelier smiled and said modestly, "If you have an outdoor barbecue or a buffet party, you may need to walk for a long time with a glass, so you can try another way to hold the glass." ”

The sommelier said and showed a way to hold the cup with the thumb, index and middle fingers pinching the pillar, and the ring and little fingers against the base. "It's more stable and your fingers don't get tired easily. ”

"And if ......"

The sommelier spoke seriously, Sun Suhe listened carefully, and both of them felt that they were in high spirits and quite interesting.

The greasy man and the shiny, pretentious man, both felt an indescribable embarrassment for a moment.

Isn't this rustic boy inferior to us in front of us? In such a social situation, in front of such a beautiful opposite sex, he is pointed out by us for such a low-level mistake of great loss of identity, should not he immediately be flushed with red face and ashamed of himself, and feel humbled to the dust?

Either he wants to find a crack in the ground to get into, or he gets angry, becomes yin and yang, and finally loses his demeanor, this is the normal reaction that this kid should have. How could he be so humble and arrogant to discuss with the sommelier how to hold the glass?

In this way, it seems that those of us who just laughed at him for the wrong way of holding the cup are narrow-minded and make a big fuss.

Sun Suhe naturally noticed the subtle changes in the atmosphere in the field, and in addition to finding it funny, he himself was quite surprised. Sun Suhe asked himself, if it was his previous self, in this case, he might not lose his temper on the spot, but he would be a little haunted in his heart. But now, I didn't feel the slightest waver because of this invisible pressure and cynicism.

People who are fragile at heart tend to want to be recognized by others, and they are extraordinarily sensitive, extraordinarily concerned about the gaze of others, and extraordinarily cherishing their feathers. Arm yourself with your inner fragility with pretentious refinement and elegance. Once this carefully crafted armor is pierced mercilessly, it will immediately hit the soft underbelly, and blood will splatter on the spot.

In fact, if you don't understand, you don't understand, if you are wrong, you can learn if you don't understand, you can change if you are wrong, what is there to be inferior and humiliating? But although this truth is simple, in order to support this freedom of neither humility nor arrogance, what is needed is a strong heart that is refined and clear.

Only when you have enough confidence and a strong heart can you not be disturbed by this kind of boring thing, can you tolerate your imperfections, and can you step through the barrier of inferiority and self-limitation to enjoy and pursue really important things.

Sun Suhe's confidence comes from his true temperament that is suddenly frank, he doesn't pretend to act, he doesn't have a weak heart, and he can naturally be comfortable and chic. His confidence also comes from all kinds of thrilling trials in the past period, where can people who have seen the sea still make waves for the turbidity of a puddle?

Sun Suhe suddenly felt at this moment that perhaps unconsciously, he had really become stronger.

"Have you had enough? cheeky man. Spare me. Sun Suhe begged helplessly for mercy in his heart, "Although these people's performances are quite exciting, I am really tired of watching too much, and the smell of this person's perfume is almost stunning." ”

"You kid has grown a lot, but I can't fool you, and I want to see you ugly. Alice sighed regretfully.

"Ah, it turns out that you have been calculating me all morning, you are really a very bad person. Sun Suhe shook off Alice's hand as he spoke, and at the same time poured a thank you to the sommelier, turning and burrowing into the crowd without looking back.

That's right, this kid really ran away. A group of young talents gathered around Alice breathed a sigh of relief, and everything was finally back on track, and they were secretly thinking about how to show their charm in order to stand out from the crowd and attract Alice's attention. But suddenly, everyone shivered inexplicably.

Sun Suhe turned around and caught a glimpse of Alice's incomparably gentle smile through the cracks, and couldn't help but chant Amitabha Buddha for those people, and he said to Alice in his heart: "Don't overdo it and forget about business." We're here for a moment at the Kidarsan retreat. ”

"There's no way, I can't fool you idiot, so I can only play these guys, don't worry, the drinking party has just begun, take your time." But don't run blindly, the master behind that cult might be hiding in the shadows and tighten the strings. ”

"Don't worry, where can I go. Sun Suhe waved casually in Alice's direction, and then walked towards the bar where a variety of buffet dishes were served.

There are more and more people in the venue, and the atmosphere is becoming more and more lively, full of staggered chatting and laughing, but Sun Suhe is not interested in joining in the excitement, he holds a large plate of carefully selected food, huddles in an inconspicuous corner of the venue, while secretly observing, while feasting.

Since he began the practice of "sword gall", Sun Suhe has been figuring out the kind of clear realm that reflects inside and outside without missing any omission, although he has never been able to achieve the state that was forced out at the moment of life and death, but Sun Suhe's perception has been far more acute than ordinary people in the day and night of studying and pondering.

He quietly observed the many guests who came and went at the cocktail party, and soon found that it was not just the two of us who were not interested in drinking, but a lot of people.

"Hey, wait a minute, that guy is...... How could she be here?" Sun Suhe accidentally caught a familiar back, his eyes couldn't help but widen, and his heart instantly tightened.