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She glanced at Ye An secretly, and said to her daughter a little unnaturally: "Did you see something, why did you suddenly ask this question?"

Tang Guoguo subconsciously said: "Yes, I saw my uncle's ......"

"Ahem!"

Ye An hurriedly coughed twice and glared at Tang Guoguo.

Seeing this, Tang Guoguo immediately covered his mouth, rolled his eyes slightly, and said to Tang Xixi very seriously: "I'm sorry Mom, my uncle didn't let me say it." ”

Hearing this, Ye An's eyes widened instantly, what did she mean by not letting her say.

He said this as if he had really done something to her.

In order to prevent Tang Xixi from misunderstanding, Ye An hurriedly explained to her: "Don't listen to Guoguo's nonsense, I really didn't do anything." ”

Tang Xixi's face was slightly red, and his expression was a little unnatural: "I know." ”

Ye An nodded, and said to Tang Guoguo: "Have you eaten well, if you eat well, you can go to the yard to play first, I have something to talk about with your mother." ”

Tang Guoguo blinked, glanced at Ye An, and then at Tang Xixi, and said mysteriously: "What do you want to talk about, and you won't let me listen?"

"You little ghost, hurry up and go out to play!" Ye An scolded with a smile.

"Hmph, go out, go out, I don't want to eavesdrop on you!"

Tang Guoguo finished speaking angrily, drank a large sip of milk, and walked towards the courtyard.

Watching her walk out of the living room, Ye An turned his gaze to Tang Xixi.

At this time, the latter's expression seemed a little unnatural, Ye An was embarrassed, pointed to Tang Guoguo in the courtyard, and said, "Sister Xixi, haven't you taught Guoguo about that before?"

"Ahh

Tang Xixi was stunned for a moment, then seemed to understand something, his face turned slightly red, and said, "Do you mean physical?"

Ye An nodded and said, "That's right." ”

"I've told her a little bit before, that is, to tell her which parts are a girl's privacy, and you can't show them to others casually. ”

"What else?" asked Ye An.

Tang Xixi glanced at Ye An strangely and said, "Besides that, do you want to talk about anything?"

"The anatomy of a boy. Ye An said very naturally.

Tang Xixi was slightly stunned and said, "Do you want to talk about the boy's body structure?"

"Of course, if you don't tell her, she will easily suffer from getting along with boys in the future, just take this morning, if it weren't for me......"

Ye An was halfway through speaking, glanced at Tang Xixi, and decided not to say it, after all, that picture is still a little inappropriate for children, so don't say it.

"I want to say that if she is not familiar with some of the private parts of boys, it is very likely that she will not know about being violated in the future, and you see so many cases of girls being violated on the news, in fact, it is because girls don't understand the body structure of boys, so they don't know when they are violated. ”

Tang Xixi's face was slightly red, and he seemed to be a little unconvinced, and said, "Is this really the case......

Ye An nodded, and said with a straight face: "Sister Xixi, I know what you're worried about, you're worried that she will be precocious, right?"

"But, if you think about it, is it really bad to be precocious?"

"Precocious puberty is not the same as precocious love, precocious puberty just allows them to understand their physiological structure in advance, on the one hand, to develop good cleaning habits, and on the other hand, to cultivate a good sense of prevention. ”

"I admit that when children grow up, they may be tempted to taste the forbidden fruit due to various curiosities, but if you think about it carefully, what is the reason behind the child's stealing and forbidden taste?"

Ye An paused, and said, "Not because of curiosity, but because of ignorance!"

It is precisely because no one tells them what to do and what not to do, what is right and what is wrong, and what will happen if they do it, that it is this ignorance that leads them to start stealing the forbidden fruit, driven by curiosity. ”

"And the harm caused by stealing the forbidden fruit, they didn't think about it at all, not because they weren't afraid of the consequences, but because they didn't know that there would be such serious consequences!"

"This is ignorance!"

"In the past, when parents faced such problems with their children, they always liked to blame the child's disobedience and their children's nonsense, but they didn't know that the culprit of all this was actually themselves!"

"Sister Xixi, what do you think?"

Ye An finished talking a lot, and looked at Tang Xixi.

Tang Xixi was also shocked by Ye An's words, she looked at Ye An blankly, and didn't know what to say for a while.

"Is it that serious......" Tang Xixi said with a somewhat unnatural expression.

Seeing that she hadn't yet come to her senses, Ye An continued: "Sister Xixi, do you think that if you don't say anything, Guoguo will automatically understand this knowledge when she grows up?"

"This ......"

Tang Xixi thought about it for a while, and what Ye An said did make some sense.

Looking at her like this, Ye An already understood seven or eight points, so he continued: "Actually, it doesn't hurt to tell Guoguo earlier, because at this time she doesn't have the shame of an adult, her heart is very pure, no matter what you say to her, she won't want to be crooked." ”

And as she gets older, especially when she reaches puberty, her body reacts, and then you talk about it, and she may feel embarrassed. ”

Therefore, when she is still young and doesn't understand anything, tell her some physiological knowledge of boys and girls, and tell her what to pay attention to and how to protect herself, only in this way can she grow up healthier. ”

Moreover, if she had accepted the popularization of these physiological knowledge since she was a child, then she would naturally no longer have such a strong curiosity about the opposite sex when she grew up, and even if she did, she would know what to do and what not to do, and she already had the ability to distinguish between right and wrong. ”

So at that time, she had already understood the harm of stealing the forbidden fruit, so naturally she would not do some deviant behavior. ”

After a pause, Ye An glanced at Tang Xixi and continued: "Sex education is also education, we can't just focus on knowledge education and ignore other aspects of education. ”

"If you don't sweep a house, how can you sweep the world. ”

"If you are not right, how can you be right. ”

"How can a person who can't even control his own body control the world. ”

"So, I don't think sex education is something to shy away from. ”

"Especially at Guoguo's age, it is the best time for sex education. ”

"I don't think we can afford to put it off any longer. ”

Listening to what Ye An said, Tang Xixi still said with some embarrassment: "But I have no experience in this area, and I don't know where to start......

Ye An frowned, this is indeed a tricky problem, it stands to reason that sex education is most appropriate to be taught by his parents.

After all, she is an outsider, and Guoguo is still a girl, so she should avoid suspicion.

But at this time, Tang Xixi suddenly said: "I see that you are quite experienced, why don't you tell Guoguo?"