Mrs. Meng often told Yan before that her second sister's way of doing things is what women should learn, a successful woman does not rely on her parents, does not rely on her appearance, only relies on her own mind, although her mother's family did not live with her sister in the early years, but her sister did not resent her after becoming a princess, but always helped her mother's family, and changed those who were small-minded, thinking that her mother's family was not good to her before, even if she didn't retaliate, she wouldn't help, so no one would benefit.

While the two sisters were talking, Mrs. Meng came in, and when she saw that the sisters seemed to be chatting well, she immediately smiled and asked, "What are you talking about?"

Meng Yan blushed a little blushing again, embarrassed to tell her mother and talk to her second sister about how to be a daughter-in-law.

Su Yiqing smiled: "It's just a casual chat, mother, did Mrs. Li tell you anything?"

Mrs. Meng glanced at Meng Yan, and it was okay to think about it, so she said: "I didn't say anything, but my attitude was a little cramped, probably I still have a problem in my heart about the previous incident." ”

In all fairness, in terms of her son's family affairs, she can't say that she is above board, but not to mention Yancheng, a place where powerful people gather, even if it is a country people, where is there nothing to calculate for the sake of their children? The Li family does not want to rely on the Meng family to rely on the big tree of the Dingwang Mansion, and they also have a wait-and-see attitude.

Now that the family affair has not been completed, the Li family still runs to the Dingwang Mansion regardless of the embarrassment, to put it bluntly, it is not a trend of inflammation, and it is not possible to marry and make friends.

Su Yiqing said lightly: "Sister Yan, you are about to get married, you will inevitably encounter this kind of thing in the future, remember, if you want to calculate that others take advantage of others, you will eventually put yourself in an embarrassing situation, no one is a fool, and will give you benefits for no reason." ”

Meng Yan looked at her mother with some surprise, not knowing what the second sister was talking to her mother.

Mrs. Meng was afraid of affecting her daughter's mood. I haven't told her, but now that Su Yiqing said it first, I thought that I should really tell my daughter and let her remember how to behave in the future, so she said: "That's the case, that Mrs. Li just now wants to tell your daughter Yuzhu to your brother Guang, so naturally she takes a fancy to the family background of our Mongolian Mansion." It's just that she felt that this family business was a little unsatisfactory at the time. While thinking about watching and seeing, I turned out that there was no hope for the Holy Decree. ”

Meng Yan remembered that Mrs. Li and Princess Guojun were concubines in the next room. I didn't know that she also intended to marry her daughter to Brother Guang, so she only asked a little unknowingly: "The saint suddenly gave marriage, this is also a helpless thing, this kind of thing is difficult to predict in advance, right?"

Su Yiqing smiled. Didn't speak.

Mrs. Meng can't tell her daughter directly, they are plotting behind their backs. He replied lightly: "The saint did not give the marriage for no reason, but Mrs. Li kept running to our house, and the Guojun Mansion also sent gifts from time to time, so there were some rumors." Where did people think that Mrs. Li was looking at her future son-in-law in person, they thought that the Guojun Mansion intended to marry our family, so they made a holy decree. In the final analysis, it was Mrs. Li who was too eager. Before the family matter was decided, I was thinking that I could get some convenience by being close to our house, and the news I released made people misunderstand. ”

Meng Yan thought about it carefully, and realized something, probably just like her future husband's family, thinking that her brother-in-law would not have the leisure to seek official positions for the children and nephews of her future husband's family, but the people below were used to flattering.

Su Yiqing continued: "As the saying goes, the body is not afraid of shadows, if there is no ghost in the heart, even if there is a slight misunderstanding by outsiders, it is okay, so Sister Yan doesn't have to worry too much about how to act in the future, just do her own thing." ”

Mrs. Meng took the opportunity to praise: " Yes, just like your second sister, married into the Dingwang Mansion, if you change the daughter of another family, it must be to socialize all day long, take care of the relationship between relatives, but your second sister rarely goes out after entering the house, things have priorities, your second sister is to first gain a firm foothold in the house, take care of the affairs of the house, and the outside of the man is outside, although the mother also often goes out, but that is also after your sister and brother, the new daughter-in-law must take care of the house first, and then slowly do other things, don't want to be for some side things, affect the fundamentals, see the hearts of the people over time, how a person's reputation is, not to participate in one or two banquets on some occasions to say a few words can get。 ”

Meng Yan nodded seriously: "Mother, second sister, I know." ”

Mrs. Meng said with a smile: "Or should you ask your sister how to get along with your father-in-law? Your second sister and brother-in-law get along very well." ”

"Mother...... Meng Yan snorted shyly, "How can you do this in front of the second sister?"

"Your second sister is not an outsider, don't ask her who she should ask about this?" Mrs. Meng said, her face slightly gloomy, "Mother did not do well in this regard, your aunt did a good job earlier, but now it is not done, you have to ask your second sister." ”

"My mother praised me falsely, and I was just doing what I had to do. Su Yiqing said calmly, "The so-called husband and wife get along is nothing more than some mutual tolerance and mutual understanding, there is no secret, just ...... As far as I'm concerned, I don't know if it's right or not, but when I encounter difficulties, I have to face it together, don't think I'm virtuous or afraid of losing face, and I hold on to it, but in the end, I don't say that I am wronged, and others still feel inexplicable, I don't know why you are sad, and in the end, remember not to do it later, and only say what I did for you when the husband and wife are conflicted, because this is what you start to do yourself, let him know at the beginning of the work, and you have worked hard. ”

Mrs. Meng was a little surprised, she couldn't imagine that Fu'er actually got along with King Ding like this, and after thinking about it, she told Meng Yan: "Remember your sister's words, don't hide everything, you will suffer and be wronged." ”

Meng Yan's face was red, but she was a little puzzled, and her voice was thin: "But what Mama said, a woman should take her husband as the sky, and she should think about her husband first." Honor your in-laws and get along well with your sister-in-law. ”

"Mama is talking about some high-sounding truths, but in fact, there are very few things that can be done. Su Yiqing smiled, "Let me give you an example, Sister Yan knows that there was a cousin Ning in our house some time ago, right?"

Meng Yan glanced at her mother quickly, and then nodded, thanks to Mama Qing, Mama Qing returned to the Meng Mansion in those days, cursing the fox spirit all day long, and everyone in the house knew about it. She asked her mother, and her mother told her that she was a cousin of the princess before the king, and she was sent to the palace by her mother's family, presumably to be a concubine.

At that time, she was still a little worried about her second sister. is afraid that the second sister will be wronged in the palace, and with the second sister's temperament, she will definitely not be able to bear it. It's really going to make a fuss. I'm afraid it's not good-looking.

Su Yiqing said: "For Cousin Ning, don't talk about outside the mansion, there are some people in the mansion who don't know what's going on." In fact, I didn't hide your brother-in-law from the beginning, and I didn't want Cousin Ning to stay in the mansion, and of course I didn't leave all the questions to your brother-in-law. I told Cousin Ning at the beginning, hoping to find a good home for her...... As a result, she had a different mind of her own. Hit a rake, your brother-in-law has his own difficulties, and he can't force people out of the door, and I didn't touch my hands on Cousin Ning's words later. This is a troublesome person, and he can't get rid of it after he gets his hands dirty. ”

Madame Meng sighed, "Yes, Yan'er. If it is really virtuous and virtuous, then there is nothing to say. If it is for the sake of a virtuous reputation, grit your teeth and take some hot potatoes, you will be annoyed in the future, and if you don't make trouble, you will be beaten upside down, I heard that this Miss Ning has not stopped in Ruicheng Palace. ”

Su Yiqing said again: "Of course, if Sister Yan has a deep relationship with her future brother-in-law and is willing to pay, then my sister has nothing to say, after all, everyone has a different way of behaving and having an accident, and I don't say who is doing it right. ”

Meng Yan nodded seriously, "Second sister, I know." ”

After another conversation, Su Yiqing was really tired, and Mrs. Meng saw that she didn't dare to disturb her rest anymore, so she led Meng Yan to leave.

Mama Qing sent Mrs. Meng's mother and daughter out.

When she came back, Mama Qing sneakily avoided everyone and said to Su Yiqing: "Princess, when I sent the old lady out, when the old lady was about to get into the carriage, she secretly asked the old slave, have any people from the Meng family come to find the princess recently?"

Meng family, Su Yiqing frowned slightly, "Is there any?"

There are often some distant relatives who can't beat the eight poles to come up to fight the autumn breeze, if it is said that there is a Mongolian family is not impossible, the people in the house may see that the relationship between relatives and relatives is far away, maybe give a few taels of silver and send it away, will not inform her.

But if Mrs. Meng asked so carefully, it seemed that she was not an inconsequential subordinate, and she avoided her to inquire about Mama Qing, it must be very important.

Mama Qing shook her head: "As far as the old slave knows, no." ”

Su Yiqing thought for a moment and said, "You can find a way to inquire and see what's going on." ”

"The old slave knows. "Mama Qing is an old man in Mengfu, and she has her own way to inquire, and she has been thinking about it since she told Su Yiqing about it.

Mrs. Meng returned home and sent Meng Yan back to her room before returning to her house.

In the house, Meng Ye was waiting anxiously, and before she could sit down and take a sip of tea, she hurriedly greeted her and asked, "How is it?" Did Fu'er say anything, did that son look for Fu'er?"

Mrs. Meng glanced at Meng Ye, picked up the small kettle on the table, poured a cup of tea, sat down and drank it slowly, and then said: "Master, I have to take a breath when I hang myself, as soon as I entered the door, you didn't allow me to change my clothes, drink tea, and rest for a while, so I asked in such a hurry? I don't know how to be considerate of others, this is not a matter of burning eyebrows, in a hurry?"

"Yes, yes, madam, take a breath and speak slowly. Meng was also anxious, but he didn't dare to urge Mrs. Meng too much, so he could only wait patiently for Mrs. Meng to finish a cup of tea.

Mrs. Meng didn't want Meng Ye to wait for a fire attack, so she took two sips casually, and said: "I knocked on the side, and saw that Fu'er's expression was as usual, and there was nothing abnormal, sir, you know that Xiaofu is a delicate person, and asking too much is counterproductive, so I didn't ask again, and when I came back, I asked Mama Qing, who sent each other off, whether anyone from the Meng family came to Dingwangfu to find Xiaofu recently, Mama Qing said no, Mama Qing followed Fu'er all day long, if she didn't hide it, she should know." ”

"That's good. Meng also breathed a sigh of relief.

Mrs. Meng pondered for a while, and said: "I can't relax, after chatting a few words, I found out that Fu'er is not a person who repays grievances with virtue, if she really believes something, and even Mama Qing hides it, it may be a big deal." ”

At this moment, Meng Ye's heart immediately rose again, and he was so anxious that he couldn't help cursing again: "This rebel should have let him fend for himself in the countryside a long time ago, and I still let people send him money every year to take care of their family." ”

Hearing this, Mrs. Meng sneered, and said secretly, did you give the silver? That is because she can't look past it, and thinks that the child has become a family, if she really can't live, she is afraid that she will drag the family to annoy them, and it will not sound good when the time comes, so she asks people to send them silver and things in the name of Meng Yede every year, and by the way, let them be a rich man in the countryside with peace of mind, and don't come to Yancheng to make everyone's face dull.

After all, she is a stepmother, if the child in front of her is too unbearable, others will talk behind her back, and she can't manage so much of her married daughter, but she has taken care of the Mengshen family and even Xiaofu before.

Thinking about Xiaofu's words, there is some truth, there is still karma in everything, she just remembered to send some silver taels to Xiaofu every year, and did not let her fend for herself in the countryside, so she had a good life today.

If he hadn't given a penny at that time, Xiaofu would have been poor, maybe he wouldn't have been able to survive for a long time, and even if he survived, he wouldn't hate her to death.

It's just that there have been more things in the past two years, and she didn't pay attention to Mengshen's family for a while, and she didn't expect them to live like this, I heard that Mengshen's daughter-in-law said that Mengshen had listened to other people's words in recent years, and sold the land to do business with others, but was deceived by someone, so she couldn't go on, so she had to drag her family to Yancheng to fight the autumn breeze.

Eh, if you pay a little attention, know their current situation, and make plans early, wouldn't it cost so much more than one or two hundred taels of silver?

In a few years, when the children are married, she doesn't bother to care about how to find Meng Ye in this big family? This is all what happened before she got married, and now that Xiaofu is pregnant, if she listens to Meng Shen's nonsense and is angry with her children, how can this be good?

Don't look at Xiaofu on the surface and don't care about the past, but when it comes to the death of his biological mother, no one will not care, to be honest, she is so nervous when she sees Meng, and she really suspects that the death of Xiaofu's biological mother is not as simple as it seems.

Meng Ye saw Xiaofu so unpleasant before, and set up a family affair for her early, treating her as someone else's family, maybe when Xiaofu spoke, someone said something in his ear and other nonsense, he saw Xiaofu's biological mother unpleasant, and acquiesced to what others did It is not known. (To be continued)

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