241: A woman's career
"I love design and it's a pleasure to do. I www.biquge.info I go to work, not to make money to support my family, just to be happy, where will it be hard? ”
"I really don't understand you, you can be like a sister-in-law, occasionally go shopping, go to the beauty salon, buy clothes, and live a leisurely life, you have to go to work. Big brother, this is all the eldest brother is busy, the sister-in-law is idle all day and has nothing to do, your family is busy with you, and I have nothing to do at home...... Do you sometimes regret marrying a useless man? ”
"What does it mean to be a useful man? Can you make a lot of money? ”
"Isn't there a saying that husbands and wives are expensive? Don't you think that the eldest brother is so capable, and the sister-in-law is more beautiful than you? ”
Tong Yunyun smiled: "Everyone has a life, we can't repeat other people's lives, what we have to do is to live our own lives." Moreover, in fact, there is nothing wrong with you, in addition to not working, you take care of your family, love your wife, and spoil your children, you have done everything that a man should do. The Mu family can afford to support you, it doesn't matter if you work or not, Honggong alone can be enough for you for a few lifetimes. As for me, I like to design and do what I love to do, and you support me and be my strong backing, which is the best for me. ”
"Actually, I'm still a good man?"
"yes, you don't smoke, you don't drink, you don't fool around outside. At most, go out to drink tea, play golf, take your wife and children to play around when you have nothing to do, and are willing to spend so much time and energy on your family, why is he not a good man? ”
Mu Mingyu was a little more confident: "So, in fact, in addition to not working, I am no worse than my eldest brother?" He still has to have meetings and business trips all day, and he doesn't spend as much time as I spend with his wife and children. ”
"That's right, in a way, you're better than your big brother!"
Tong Yunyun is really not fooling Mingyu, she is very satisfied with her husband, rich (so she doesn't have to work), single-minded, loves his wife and children, and is handsome, he is simply a model among husbands.
Therefore, she doesn't feel that her husband needs to have low self-esteem, and she doesn't think that what others say is that she is right to marry a "useless" husband.
Whether a man is useful or not really does not depend on how hard he works and how much he has achieved in his career. Of course, if Mu Mingyu had no money in the first place, and was idle all day long, she couldn't even support herself, and she didn't know how to work, she wouldn't like it.
But Mu Mingyu's situation is different, he has the capital to be a leisurely son, so he doesn't have to go to work at all. Well, as long as he does a few other things, it's OK. He doesn't need to be as good as his eldest brother, nor does he need to work hard for his career like those men outside, and some people even work hard just to support themselves and their families.
Work is to support himself and his family, career is to realize his dreams and ambitions, Mu Mingyu does not need the former to be able to support his family, he has no career ambitions, his dream is to "play", so he does not need to work at all and will not work.
Tong Yunyun has seen through the person of Mu Mingyu, and she has long known what she wants, so when he is idle at home all day and has nothing to do, when she is busy with work every day but he is playing golf, she has no complaints.
career is her choice. She can not do it, she can be as leisurely as him, and be a rich wife.
But she doesn't want to be just a woman who is dependent on others for survival, she is a sane woman who needs a career and needs more security.
He may not have understood how she felt, but he never stopped her. Although sometimes I would be jealous of her for socializing and eating with other male colleagues, I didn't believe in her anymore because of this.
For a woman, he did everything a man should do, and it was enough!
Regarding the fact that sister-in-law Wang Yuan got the formula of her aunt and grandmother, Tong Yunyun also thought about it. In a person's life, the money is enough to use, and she has her own career to do, so there is really no need to intervene.
What's more, when I saw Old Man Mu and his eldest brother go out to run errands recently, she often took her son Mu Qing with her, apparently wanting to train him as the heir of the Mu family. In a sense, she didn't have to do anything at all to win.
The formula business in Wang Yuan's hands can be compared to the entire Mu family?
Before, Tong Yunyun really didn't dare to think about this matter, everyone has their own son, although it seems a little out of tune, but after all, he is the biological son of the eldest brother, and it is normal to cultivate as the future heir of the Mu family.
Moreover, at that time, although Old Man Mu was angry with Murong, he never gave up.
It wasn't until this time that Murong provoked Yan Shao of the Yan family and dealt a huge blow to the Mu family, so Old Man Mu gave up on him. handed him over to the freshly baked aunt and grandmother who came out of nowhere.
After that, Mu Qing officially appeared on the stage of the Mu family, and Murong "disappeared".
Tong Yunyun saw the arrangement of Old Man Mu and eldest brother, and was afraid that her sister-in-law would not agree, and felt that Mu Qing had robbed her son of her things and made a big fuss. But the strange thing is that after a few days, the wind and waves were calm, and nothing happened at all.
The sister-in-law, who regards her son and daughter as heaven, will be willing to give up the benefits that her son deserves?
Naturally, it is impossible, the sister-in-law did not squeak, there is only one possibility - the aunt and grandmother promised something better!
Tong Yunyun generally drew on the papyrus, while thinking, and in the end, all the clues pointed to "Grandma Gu", only she was the real reason for the great change in power in the Mu family in just a few days.
Her original instinct was really right, this aunt and grandmother are not simple!
Tong Yunyun is very realistic, she will always only grasp what she can grasp, and those that can't be grasped, no matter how tempting they are, she will never look at them. And she also taught this to her son by word and deed.
Otherwise, when Mu Qing had not graduated from college, he would not have been mentally prepared for not being able to inherit the Mu family and start his own business. The eldest son Mu Cheng, the third son Mu Jie, and even the fourth son Mu Rui all chose their own development direction to avoid the tragedy of competing for the family business.
Although the Mu family is good, but in the case of a long house with children, they can't fight if they want to, instead of fighting for this kind of thing they don't necessarily get it, it is better to let them enjoy the rights and the best education that they should enjoy as the descendants of the Mu family as the grandson of the Mu family as much as possible, so that their starting point will be higher than many people, and they can also grasp it.
As long as they have excellent abilities, when they go to society, they can use the Mu family as a backing, but strive for a broader sky.
The Mu family is just a cake, no matter how tempting it is, it is only one, either one person occupies it, or several people divide it, and there will be bloodshed in the process of carving it up, and it may not be much. But when they go to the broader sky outside, they have the backing of the Mu family, are they afraid that they won't be able to grab a complete cake?
Of course, if someone sent the cake of the Mu family to her son, Tong Yunyun would still encourage her son to take it all.