Life is like Ling Chi, every inch of time is torture, step by step, pushing her into the abyss. Pen × fun × Pavilion www. ｂｉｑｕｇｅ。 ｉｎｆｏ

She said that if a girl kills herself, how good it would be for you to stop.

The most terrifying thing is that with the identity of a teacher, he recited poetry while committing crimes.

What is the knowledge?

How innocent the pages are.

She began to write articles.

She tried to redeem herself with words.

She told everyone that in the days after being sexually assaulted, silence does not mean acquiescence, but pretending to be asleep.

The clouds are light and the wind is light, and it is all the ink and the palace.

The song is welcome, and it is all in vain.

26-year-old Lin Yihan published his first novel "Fang Siqi's First Love Paradise" in February 2017.

She recorded everything.

In the novel, the 13-year-old heroine is sexually assaulted by a cram school teacher and eventually goes crazy.

Some media asked, "Is that you?"

She was silent for a long time, and finally denied it, only saying: "It's true, adapted from the experience of the people around her......"

In March, she was interviewed by a Taiwanese women's fan website, and said: "But what I know is that people who are already crazy will not become not crazy, and those who have gone in will not be pulled out...... That's all I know, I'm very miserable and angry, and the medicine I've taken won't be washed out. ”

On April 27, she committed suicide.

Say goodbye to life once and for all.

After she left, the whole country was in a sensation.

With her own death, she tore a hole in the darkness and decay of the adult world, and pushed it before us, saying, "You see, all evil will be borne by the silent lamb." ”

All the damage will not go away.

The sequelae of sexual assault have been dormant for many years, and they will eventually kill people.

This phenomenon has a proper term in psychology, called PTSD post-traumatic group, that is, post-traumatic stress disorder.

After an individual experiences a deep trauma, it is suppressed for various reasons and accumulates over a long period of time, but it does not go away.

If triggered by certain events, it will cause stress reactions such as self-injury and self-harm.

Lin Yihan is like this.

The same is true for more victims of sexual assault.

In the movie "The Summer That Can't Be Said" (adapted from a real case), Bai Bai is another Lin Yihan.

She was also sexually assaulted by her teacher (who was also a suspect in multiple sexual assault cases) and was also not charged.

However, she unconsciously committed suicide in her dreams, she unconsciously indulged in the waves, and she felt dirty and unworthy in the face of the boy she liked.

What's even more terrifying is that this society has no mercy for her.

People say, "If it's sexual assault, why don't you say it?" Why don't you say it?

She was speechless.

She didn't know why.

She didn't know why she was so close to the wicked after she was violated.

So, the people rebelled and left.

The mother scolded the slut for nothing.

Lin Yihan's mother said that the teacher-student love is the girl's own complaining.

They bear physical humiliation, mental defeat, public opinion attacks, family abandonment, and huddle in dark corners.

And this state forced her to get closer to the murderer.

Because he is the only one who will not really dislike her.

The tragedy of Lin Yihan and Bai Bai was caused by a variety of reasons.

The adultery of criminals, the indifference of families, the dereliction of duty of parents, the lack of sex education, the distortion of social culture, the bloodthirstiness and bloodlust of public opinion, the prejudice of the people, the imperfection of psychological assistance, the difficulty of obtaining evidence, and the imperfection of the protection system......

As a result, the crime of sexual assault is borne by the victim.

Therefore, Lin Yihan said sadly: "The largest massacre in human history is a Fang Siqi-style explosion. ”

More than the Vietnam War.

More so than concentration camps.

More than a nuclear explosion.

But this "massacre" will not stop.

It will be transformed and will continue to be staged in China, in Beijing, Shanghai and Guangzhou, in the cities, in the countryside, around you and me......

Ye An still remembers how he felt when he saw the news.

A story that has been sexually assaulted for many years can't be made public until after the protagonist's death, so what about other cases that haven't been made public?

And what about those who don't know that they have been sexually assaulted and don't know how to take up legal weapons to protect themselves?

Ye An couldn't imagine that such a thing was being staged in China all the time?

Those so-called neighbors, those so-called teachers, and those so-called relatives, who can guarantee that they have not done anything to their children?

And the main culprit of all this is due to the conservatism of parents and the lack of sex education for children.

How many boys still think that girls will be popular on the first night?

How many girls still think that they won't get pregnant for the first time?

How many children have been sexually assaulted and still think that the other person is just playing games with them?

How many people still think that homosexuality is actually a disease?

How many people still don't know where the child was born from a woman?

How many parents have to wait until their child is about to have an abortion to know that she is no longer the little white rabbit in their impression?

Sex education was originally a fair and honest thing, but it was forcibly led by some feudal parents and forcibly stifled one primary school textbook after another.

This cannot but cause people to reflect.

However, while reflecting, Ye An also felt a deep helplessness.

In this world, the most difficult thing to change is not people's thoughts, but people's beliefs.

If a person grows up, he believes in the supremacy of conservatism.

So no matter what such a person says to him, it is impossible to change his mind, because life is faith, and if faith is gone, his life will have no meaning to live.

And in the country, there are too many people who have this faith.

Ye An is simply powerless.

All he can do is to do his little bit to change the people around him as much as possible, and to do his best to educate everyone who is willing to accept his education.

Sex education, although urgent, cannot be forced.

Some families are suitable, and similarly, some families are not.

It's all up to the parents.

Fortunately, Tang Guoguo has a relatively enlightened mother, who is quite acceptable to sex education.

Looking at the innocent girl in front of him, Ye An unconsciously felt a touch of relief in his heart.

It's a joy to be able to pass on your ideas to the next generation.

But she's still young, and all she can say is the most basic common sense.

More sexual knowledge in the future can only be taught by her mother.

Gently closing the book, Ye An ended today's lesson.

Children's education can't be rushed, and she can't remember talking so much at once.

Sex education, in particular, can only be done step by step.

In addition to explaining the knowledge in books, in daily life, we should set an example to guide the child little by little, and teach her to establish a correct concept of sexuality little by little.