New Year's greetings
There is a custom in the village that the first day of the new year does not kill chickens, and the first day of the first month is the birthday of the broom, and the broom can not be used on this day, otherwise it will sweep away the luck and wealth, and attract the "broom star" to cause bad luck. If you have to sweep the floor, you have to sweep it from the outside to the inside. On this day, you can't throw water and garbage outside, for fear of ruining your money. Clean up on Chinese New Year's Eve, do not send out a broom on the first day of the new year, prepare a large bucket to hold wastewater, and do not splash it on the day.
Dad gave me 10 yuan of New Year's money last night, at this time 10 yuan is a lot, I decided that this is my future business fund, and my father secretly gave it to me, my mother doesn't know, this money should not be taken back by my mother, I am very happy, yesterday Grandma Zhang also gave me 5 yuan, my mother has not asked for it now, and I don't know if I will go back.
I didn't go to the backyard for breakfast on the first day of this year, the family got a few dishes, and I was very happy, I used to go to the backyard to eat, I didn't dare to eat more, eat a little more, my mother's face was not happy, my father also made a few meat dishes, our family, everyone ate very much, and my father and mother also drank a little wine happily, which was also good.
After breakfast, we are going to the backyard to pay New Year's greetings, my mother bought some fabric, and bought some for Wang He, it has been sent a long time ago, Grandma Zhang's skill, the clothes made are very beautiful, we made a dress for each of our families, I haven't worn new clothes for a long time, the family put on the new clothes early, and they are ready to go to the backyard to pay New Year's greetings, and when I arrived in the backyard, I shouted at the door, "Grandma, my mother and dad came to you and grandpa to greet the New Year, and my mother also bought some fabric."
In the morning, many people want to pay New Year's greetings, so there are a lot of people walking around,
Even if we just had a fight some time ago, we can't get others to say anything. Grandma came out quickly, her face was not very good, after entering the house, the family did not give us a good face, Han Peng took the fabric brought by his mother and began to turn it over.
"What color is this, why is there no mine." Han Peng shouted at his mother, his tone was not polite at all, "Didn't my family's money buy meat for you, where is the money to buy you fabrics!" I couldn't get used to Han Peng's tone, and immediately started to fight back, I didn't plan to give them face, what is it now, do you still sell it if you get cheap, my tone is not very good.
"When did your family get rich, why didn't I know that you bought me meat," Han Peng said with a little puzzlement, after all, he was still a child, and I didn't plan to meet him in general, but he was not polite to my mother, so I couldn't bear it. "Hehe, didn't you buy you meat for the money your family owes, and you don't pay the money you owe,
As a result, our family can't eat meat for a year, and your family eats meat every day.
I've never seen anything like it." I put it bluntly.
"Who are you talking about, you damn girl?" When my aunt heard my words, she turned her face at the time, I didn't plan to be polite to them today, otherwise I thought we were here to apologize to them, so it is estimated that it will be more excessive in the future, I didn't plan to be unfilial to my grandparents, but there must be a bottom line, at least we can't pay our money, all as it should be, everything must have dealings, if grandparents can get along with mom well, you can know that you feel sorry for your father, I will also be polite.
"Hehe, am I wrong,
Don't be ashamed to praise you, you can spend other people's money with peace of mind,
If you don't give money, you still have a face to cry, did you pick up my dad!" I said angrily, it seems that my grandparents still haven't changed anything, what happened that day, I still think it's our fault, otherwise my aunt wouldn't dare to talk to us directly, since there is no change, there is no need to be polite on face.
"Get out of here, don't come in the future." Grandpa said angrily, "When anyone wants to come, I'm afraid that the shameless one will go to my house to borrow money." After listening to my grandfather's words, I said directly, I am a child, and there is nothing, the main thing is that I am afraid that after my father leaves, they will bully my mother again, and my mother is not easy, now if they do not change anything, and their face becomes better in time, they will still post it, it is okay if my father is not at home, but my mother is going to be wronged again, it is better to tear my face directly, my father and mother are stunned there, and I have never heard me say these words.
"Two, don't listen to your father,
He's just talking angry." Grandma hurriedly persuaded, "Grandma,
I know you're good to us, but I don't have any money at home.
Can you not go to my house to borrow money, when my eldest brother beat me over a piece of meat,
Didn't you stop it, since you can't control it,
Don't bother our family," I said to my grandmother bluntly, in fact, I wanted to say these words a long time ago.
Grandma looked at me, stunned, her eyes were still shining with tears, I knew that it might be a bit too much to say, but there was no way,
Otherwise, they are like vampires, and this is not a long-term solution, since they have not changed anything, I want to tear my face with them, and I will find a way to get rid of them completely in the future.
Grandpa listened to my words and kicked us out directly, but it was ridiculous, the thing was still left there, and it didn't seem to be very angry, grandma should be a little sad, and didn't continue to stop, my dad and mom led me back to the house, along the way, they didn't say anything to me, I thought they would beat me up, after all, I was really too much just now, in fact, I didn't really want to ignore them, but Shengmien, Doumi, I just don't want them to take my family's contribution for granted.
Even think that our family is easy to bully, and encroach on our family's property in the future, when it is not easy to get, if we are paying, they will at least slowly learn to be grateful, and slowly begin to be polite to their mother, good to their father, if not, then there is no need to pay attention, after all, people who don't know gratitude, there is no need to be good to them.
After coming back, my dad was just in a daze, and didn't say anything, my mother also went out directly, it seems that I want to give our grandfather a little space, in fact, my father's temper has not been very good, at least I grew up and beat me, but this time my dad didn't do anything, is it because I'm still young, my dad looked a little sad, and thought a lot, I was afraid that my dad would be uncomfortable, and thought for a while and said,
"Dad, I just don't want them to make trouble if they have nothing to do.
And you don't have to explain to me, I don't think even strangers will beat me for a piece of meat,
And no one in the family is stopping, grandparents and grandparents can be filial,
But I don't want us to have to support the uncle's family, we don't owe them anything, even if it is now, if the grandparents need us to raise it in the future, I will also be good to them"
"Well, Dad knows,
You are a smart child, and you know the reason why you do this, but Dad is a little sad, although your grandparents have never been as good to me as your uncle, but after all, they are Dad's parents, Dad has never thought that you are a girl, but Grandpa, no matter what mistakes they have, Dad doesn't want you to have any bad thoughts, they just don't understand it now, and it will be good to understand it in the future" After Dad finished speaking, he touched my head with satisfaction.