Chapter 006 [Grandma's Food]
"I know, my aunt said it so well, Feifei completely agrees, this is my code of conduct for dating girls in the future. ”
In his previous life, Yu Fei didn't like to communicate with his mother very much, mainly because his mother always treated him as a child and couldn't talk with an equal mentality, but her aunt was different, she could always put down the shelf of her elders and give Yu Fei what she thought was appropriate in a friend-like attitude.
Yu Fei's love life in his previous life is mostly known to his aunt, but his mother Fang Yun is often kept in the dark.
In fact, this is also the sorrow of most Chinese parents, who can't really enter the hearts of their children, who pampered their children when they were young, and when their children are older, they don't know what their children want and what they want.
Chinese parents have always been easy to overstep their children's responsibilities, and one of our favorite excuses is that we are doing this for the good of our children, but it is precisely because we don't understand the psychology of our children, and good intentions are easy to do bad things.
Of course, a slap does not make a sound, communication is two-sided, as a child in this, is there no problem? Yu Fei is reborn, he has a deep reflection, it is not easy for his mother to pull himself, he must communicate with her more in the future, I believe that my mother is a reasonable person, and she will definitely support her decision.
"Study hard, make progress every day, now is not the time to think about these things, let it be for my aunt." Fang Yi smiled a little dumbly, what did he tell him just now?
Yu Fei shook his head and smiled: "Auntie, the bag is not heavy, I can carry it myself, didn't you say that I am too thin, I can exercise it." ”
"Okay, I'm looking more and more like a man. Fang Yi was very surprised, seeing his little nephew this time, he obviously felt that he had matured psychologically, and the original squeamishness and arrogance were gone, as if he had suddenly changed a different person.
"Auntie, what do you mean, I'm originally a man who stands up to the sky, okay. Yu Fei raised his head at a forty-five degree angle and said proudly to the sky.
With Yu Fei's forty-year-old calm mentality, he would not have made such a gesture, but now he is playing a fifteen or sixteen-year-old boy, so he naturally has to be more energetic.
The boy doesn't know the taste of sorrow, he falls in love with the floor, and he falls in love with the floor......
"Haha, this posture is quite stinky, but you are still far from standing up to the sky, when you can contribute to the country, when you can shoulder the responsibility of the family, when you can protect your beloved, that is the real man who stands up to the sky. ”
Yu Fei gave Fang Yi a thumbs up and said, "Auntie, you speak one set at a time, and you are worthy of being a teacher who teaches and educates people." By the way, how about you teaching in Wulin City, isn't it fun?"
Fang Yi chuckled and said, "What's fun or not, do you think being a teacher is fun?"
Yu Fei pouted and said, "Don't I just say that, Auntie, in fact, what I want to ask is what is the difference between students in big cities and students in our small counties?"
Fang Yi nodded and said, "This is a decent question. To put it simply, students in big cities are rich in educational resources, and they have received a good education since childhood, and they are more versatile and good at learning. However, compared with the children in the countryside, they are relatively squeamish and willful, not as simple as the children on our side, and it is more difficult to manage, and they need to be careful and patient. ”
In fact, there is no need for my aunt to say this, Yu Fei naturally knows it, and maybe she knows it more deeply than her.
But there is no way to do it, what age to say anything, Yu Fei has just come back from rebirth, and he can only follow the steps, slowly letting his parents and relatives feel his difference, instead of a big change all of a sudden.
"Auntie, where do you like to teach?" asked Yu Fei as he walked.
"On our home side, of course. So I specially asked my second sister to transfer me back to our county, tell you the truth, I will teach in No. 1 Middle School after school starts. ”
In my memory, this is indeed the case, my aunt was transferred back to the county seat this year, and there are many relatives and friends who don't understand, how good Wulin City is, why do you want to return to a small county, but Yu Fei understands Auntie, big cities have the prosperity of big cities, and small cities have the comfort of small cities.
My aunt has never been a woman with big ambitions, her wish is actually just to be a good teacher who teaches and educates people, and then find a man she likes and live happily for the rest of her life.
Yu Fei said excitedly: "Wow, yes, that's great, auntie, which grade and which class are you teaching when you come back?"
"Senior 1 class. Fang Yi replied with a smile.
"Why isn't it the first class of junior high school? I'm ready to feel the charm of my aunt's teacher. ”
Faced with the question of Fei, Fang Yi smiled dumbly, and explained softly: "My aunt originally taught high school in Wulin City, so she can't be transferred back to teach junior high school, plus Teacher Zhang, who originally taught the first class of high school, is not in good health and wants to retire early, so the school leaders are ready to let me take over his job." ”
"Oh, well, then when I'm in my first year of high school, you can go back and teach me. ”
These are no different from what Yu Fei remembers, he also knows that his aunt taught them three years of high school later, and his aunt is also deeply loved by the students, if he is placed in later years, he is definitely a goddess-level teacher.
"Auntie also plans to do the same, but if Auntie teaches, it will only be stricter with you, so you have to be mentally prepared. ”
"Isn't it, auntie, you're too ruthless!"
The two chatted about school and the topic of study, Fang Yi was very curious about some of the opinions that Fei inadvertently revealed in the chat, this little nephew had not seen him for just a few months, and his mind had grown so much.
This kind of growth is a good thing, of course Fang Yi likes to see it, and she also found that she hasn't seen her for a while, and her nephew has grown a lot taller, except for the slightly immature face, her nephew already has a special male charm in his gestures.
"It's longer again, it seems to be taller than my aunt. As an elder, the better the nephew, the more accomplished Fang Yi will be, at this time she pretended to be depressed and compared with Yu Fei, but in fact, her heart was full of pride and pride.
After a while, the two nephews and aunts talked and laughed side by side and came to an old adobe house that resembled a courtyard house.
The old house is very old, but it is better than a single house, the south side is a double wooden gate, the spring couplets are pasted on it, the middle is a patio, a lot of flowers are planted, the north side is the hall and the left and right two bedrooms, and there are two wings in the east and west.
"Feifei ......" grandparents were already waiting at the door, and when they saw Yu Fei's grandson coming, their faces were full of joy, and they couldn't close their mouths with smiles.
"Grandpa, grandma, I miss you. Yu Fei put down his backpack and gave his grandparents a warm hug one by one, which of course also surprised the two old people, and they had never been so close to them.
"Good boy, grandpa (grandma) misses you too. Grandpa patted Yu Fei's back and smiled, and grandma stroked Yu Fei's hair, her face full of kindness and love.
Yu Fei felt this kind of love between relatives, and felt very beautiful and happy in his heart.
In his previous life, when he had a small success in business, the two elders had left him forever, and in the more than ten years of his previous entrepreneurship, he had little time to visit the two elders, and even missed the last glance at them.
The tree wants to be quiet but the wind does not stop, and the child wants to raise but does not wait.
If there is no rebirth, perhaps Yu Fei will not be able to feel the profound meaning of this famous sentence.
Fang Yi felt very warm when she saw this scene, and felt more and more that Yu Fei had grown up, and he was no longer the squeamish and even somewhat willful and stubborn naughty mischievous person he used to be.
"Feifei, come, eat kueh. Grandma quickly brought a pot of mountain noodles from the kitchen and put it on the table.
Because she knew that Yu Fei was coming, her grandmother specially made this special snack that is only available in rural areas in the south.
Pho kueh is a stuffed delicacy similar to a steamed bun made mainly of sweet potato flour, and some places are cut into pieces to eat or used as a dish, each place may make different zuò, and there are few places in Yu Fei's memory where you can eat this kind of gough kueh made by her grandmother.
The aroma of the mountain noodles is tangy, and the color of the skin is the kind of translucent golden yellow, the salty inside is filled with mustard greens and tofu meat, and the sweet one is filled with red beans and brown sugar, which makes Yu Fei suddenly have a great appetite.
"Grandma, it's delicious, it's still a familiar taste. Yu Fei ate a few in a row, but he was still unsatisfied.
Seeing that her grandson likes to eat, her grandmother was very happy, and said with a smile: "Feifei, you can eat a few more if it's delicious, and grandma will make it for you after eating." ”
"Thank you, Grandma. In his previous life, Yu Fei was a boss, and he only needed to ask the secretary to buy any food he wanted to eat, but only what his grandmother made by himself was a regret that he didn't have the opportunity to taste it again at that time.
Sometimes the happiness of the elderly is actually very simple, that is, to accompany them more, which is better than giving money directly, I don't know how many times, this is the biggest feeling in Yu Fei's heart, who is reincarnated.
Of course, people living in this world will have all kinds of helplessness, helplessness in life, helplessness in work, helplessness in the body, and various reasons limit the reunion between relatives.
This is the way to choose, about these Yu Fei has a deeper understanding, so Yu Fei lived again in this life, he chose a beautiful and happy life, so as to make up for the beautiful happiness lost along the way.
Money is a good thing, and no money is impossible.
But not everything in the world can be bought with money, such as strong family affection and undying love, you can't miss these beautiful things because you are busy making money, because once you miss it, sometimes it is a lifetime regret.
Yu Fei's momentary thoughts and contemplations made his eyes have a kind of vicissitudes that ordinary teenagers do not have, Fang Yi accidentally caught a glimpse of it next to him, and an astonishing question suddenly appeared in his heart, what was his nephew thinking in his heart, how could he have such a demeanor?
It's just that Yu Fei seemed to see that his aunt was looking at him, and instantly adjusted his thoughts, and the trace of vicissitudes in his eyes suddenly disappeared, accompanied by the enthusiasm of youth.
"Grandma, I'm full. Auntie, didn't you say before that you would bring me a gift when Wulin came back?