Halfway through, I saw my aunt's cousin, this cousin is very good, but her life is not smooth, I went to college in my previous life, she committed suicide by drinking medicine, but the person is really good, she is here now, she should go to grandma's house to hide from the light, I saw the eldest mother leading my cousin over, I subconsciously wanted to avoid it, because I didn't know what to do, did I tell my cousin, will you commit suicide in the future, but now I see her like this, and I feel uncomfortable.

On the day of the Lantern Festival, the new daughter-in-law wants to go out to "hide from the lamp", it is a custom to hide from the lamp, the lamp is the meaning of the ancestors in the past, and the newlyweds can not let the ancestors see living with their parents on the fifteenth day of the first month, so on the fifteenth day of the first month, the newlyweds can not see the old people on both sides, and the daughter-in-law who has not passed the door for more than a year is not allowed to spend at home on the day of the Lantern Festival.

When I left with Wang He, because of what happened just now, I have been a little absent-minded, and I bumped into it, a few little girls, they were still holding things in their arms, I suddenly thought, stealing vegetables, tonight, the girls in the village went in groups to steal other people's vegetables, it is strictly forbidden to steal their own family, nor can they steal same-sex friends' homes, because stealing vegetables is related to their marriage, the stolen vegetables are limited to cabbage, the number is enough for everyone to eat a meal, stealing vegetables is not afraid of being discovered, the stolen people are not to blame, everyone gathers the stolen vegetables together, make a cabbage feast, who eats the most, who can be proud of the person early, I still remember the most popular game in the previous lifeI wondered if this was a game developed by people from our village.

The little girl looked very anxious, and ignored my little point, and ran away, we looked at the almost gone, and hurried home, and today we have to tie the god of fire, and the people in the village will use corn stalks or wheat stalks to help on sticks, and hold torches in the countryside and fields to drive away insects and beasts, hoping to alleviate insect infestation, pray for a good harvest, and after the torches are lit, they will be sent from the ground to the river, which means that there is no fire in the house for a year.

Several nearby villages are dependent on the small river ditch to survive, so everyone tied the fire god, and sent the torch to the small river ditch after lighting, because this activity should start at night, the children are very excited, because it is very lively, the small river ditch because the torch shines brightly, the women can also go out, all around to talk about gossip, children get together, play on the ice, a laughter, very lively.

Because the fifteenth day of the first lunar month needs to beat the gongs and drums loudly, now the village is poor, just a gong and drum, or the village, there are no gongs and drums, the children in the village also use the iron can as gongs and drums to beat, so there is a saying that "the first month of the first month and a half knock on the iron can", in the middle of the night, the village people will also use fire to shine chestnuts, pears and other fruit trees, while shining with a knife and axe to beat the trunk. One of them knocked and asked, "Is it knotted?" and the other replied, "Knot!"

The real motivation of the Lantern Festival is because it is at a new point in time, people make full use of this special time stage to express their wishes in life, there is also a legend about the Lantern Festival, because I was very interested in these festivals, when I was in college, I also wrote a related paper, so I know more in detail, the children in the village get together, the boys fight together, become generals, and the girls are a little bored, so I began to tell them these legends," Legend has it that a long, long time ago, there were many fierce birds and beasts, hurting people and livestock everywhere, people organized to fight them, and there was a mythical bird that landed in the world because it got lost, but was accidentally shot to death by an unwitting hunter.

When the Emperor of Heaven found out, he was very angry, and immediately issued an edict, ordering the heavenly soldiers to set fire to the world on the fifteenth day of the first lunar month, and burn all the human and animal property in the world. The daughter of the Emperor of Heaven was kind-hearted and could not bear to see the innocent suffering of the people, so she risked her life and secretly drove auspicious clouds to the world to tell the people the news. When everyone heard the news, it was like a scorching thunder sounding on their heads, and they were so frightened that they didn't know what to do.

After a long time, an old man came up with a plan, he said: "On the 14th, 15th, and 16th days of the first lunar month, every household puts up lanterns, lights firecrackers, and sets off fireworks at home. In this way, the Emperor of Heaven would think that the people were burned to death. Everyone nodded yes and went their separate ways. On the night of the fifteenth day of the first lunar month, the Emperor of Heaven looked down and found that there was a red light in the world, and the sound shook the sky, and it was like this for three consecutive nights, thinking that it was the flames of the fire, and his heart was happy. In this way, people saved their lives and property. In order to commemorate this success, every 15th day of the first lunar month, every household hangs lanterns and sets off fireworks to commemorate this day. ”

I just told a story, my mother called me home, the children in the village, there is no opportunity to contact the outside world, there are no extracurricular books, read to them, let them read, there are many little girls in the family, they have not read at all, the family does not want to spend money, and wants to let them work, so the things they have been exposed to in this life are limited, looking at them like this, I feel a little uncomfortable, but more I feel that my parents are very good to me.

In the evening, when I went back, I still thought, tomorrow's story, because of the story just now, everyone is very interested, and even some big girls and some naughty boys, are around to listen to the story, in fact, I also liked to listen to all kinds of stories when I was a child, no one at home helped my mother to work, my mother can only be worth me, but I was young at that time, not sensible, my mother can only rely on all kinds of small stories, to attract my attention.

In fact, I've been thinking that my good Chinese grades in my previous life were because my mother told me too many things when I was a child, and my mother's education was the highest in the village, and she knew a lot of things, and she especially liked to read.

There are a lot of stories in my mother's belly, and even some of the stories are very interesting, and some of them were made up later in order to attract me, but I remember them very clearly, and now I can also tell some of these stories to those children, whether knowledge can change fate is not certain, but it is still very useful to learn some knowledge, because these people are married too early, without the mother's teachings and some of the mother-in-law's teachings, they lack a lot of the most basic knowledge.

For example, filial piety, for example, how to educate a child, I came back from the holidays in my previous life, I would meet my relatives' sister-in-law and sister-in-law and the like, I don't mention how they lived, but the children's education is very problematic, they feel that they have suffered too much when they were young, so they will spoil the child, and will let the child develop freely, for example, when they are very young, they will smoke, drink and swear, not only do they not teach, but they will also think that the child is very smart, in fact, they are harming the child and not loving the child.