readx;? Qin Yayan spoke very directly, but it was also a fact, she was in her hometown, close to her mother's house, and she had heard of the recent awkward situation between her brother and sister-in-law, but she was a sister-in-law after all, and she could not interfere, and it was not easy to cross it casually, and she didn't expect that today at Qin Yafu's house, she seized the opportunity to persuade a few words. Pen | fun | pavilion www. ｂｉｑｕｇｅ。 ｉｎｆｏ

"I understand what you said, and I'm not a confused woman like my aunt, I'm not as lonely as she is, and I don't act like her, but why don't I have the same life?" Sister-in-law Qin glanced at Qin Yafu pitifully, "Look at Yafu, everything is going well, don't worry about anything......"

"What are you comparing to Yafu?" Brother Qin was a little anxious, suddenly stood up, glared at his wife fiercely and shouted, "What do you mean that people don't have the same life? To put it bluntly, aren't you just jealous of Yafu?

When has Jave been so arrogant and unreasonable as you, and doesn't look at what you've done......?

"Shhhhhhhh

My only thought is, sister-in-law, you are a good person, my brother's temper is not very good, but there is no problem with his character, Xiaotian is a sensible and good boy, let's live a good life, we will each take a step back in the future, I don't want to live well, to say something ugly, it's good to get together and disperse, don't make a fuss, okay?"

Qin Yayan's words are already hard to hear, but it is also a fact, she understands her brother, Brother Qin takes his wife very seriously, but the problem of drinking is really not very good, just imagine, if Mingyuan is so greedy to drink, she will also be annoyed, but she will not be like her sister-in-law, fight violence with violence, fight against him in an antagonistic way, if you want to solve right and wrong, you have to use wisdom and coordinate the contradictions through rational methods.

"It's that he doesn't want to have a good time, so he doesn't listen to what he says!" Sister-in-law Qin immediately grabbed the handle and blamed her husband for all the faults, she is not a bad person, she is not bad at all, and she loves to shirk her responsibilities the most, and she was busy clearing herself up before others began to pursue it.

"I, I'm just such a hobby, and it's not much of a fault, why are you restricting me?" Brother Qin felt aggrieved and retorted with his neck.

"This hobby, isn't enough to choke?" Qin Yayan glared at her brother, "Drunkards are the most hateful, if you drink too much, you won't even know who you are, are you still reasonable?"

"Yes, brother, I also remember that you didn't drink so fiercely before, what's wrong?" Qin Yafu is far away from her mother's house, and she has recently heard her mother mention her brother's drunkenness, and she has also persuaded her brother to be happy, and she thinks that she understands her brother's personality, so she doesn't care too much, and now it seems that it is really a problem.

"It's stressful!" Brother Qin sighed, "I have to repay the bank loan every month, work hard every day, and when I get home, I have to wash and wash up, take care of housework, and live like a robot, your sister-in-law ...... her."

"I also go to work, I'm also hard, okay? My body is not too good, I'm tired when I get home, of course I need to rest, I'm a woman, and now women are also in the top half of the sky, why do you ask me to take care of everything inside and outside the house? Besides, I've always been such a person, after so many years, do you only remember to dislike me now?" As soon as Qin's sister-in-law heard her husband complain that she didn't do housework, she immediately lost her temper and shouted in a sharp voice.

"Don't be noisy, don't you still think Xiaotian is uncomfortable?" Brother Qin couldn't stand it anymore, his eyes widened angrily, but he still lowered his voice and reprimanded angrily, "You have no other ability, you will hurt the child's heart the most, and threaten him with the loss of his own mother!"

"Don't make such a fuss," Qin Yafu took her brother's arm and shook it gently, trying to ease the atmosphere, "Brother, my health is not good, I can best understand my sister-in-law's difficulties, and you should understand that it is easy for people to be unscrupulous when they are angry, my sister is right, the problems between you will have to be resolved by yourself after all, all we can do is to stand in the perspective of a bystander and give you a wake-up call."

Don't forget, Zihang and I have been separated for five years, and the reason is that we can't talk about it, but if we can discuss it, try not to go to our step, hurt each other for no reason, and finally lead to the parting, which is actually the most unwise.

Anyway, when Zihang and I separated, we didn't have any children, and it was just a matter of the two of us when we broke up, but now, if there is another accident, I have to consider the child's feelings before making a decision.

Brother, we can't say that for the sake of the children, we can completely endure an emotionless marriage, but, it is undeniable that the children are the bond that maintains our marriage, and it is the crystallization of love between husband and wife.

Qin Yafu is a gentle woman, she can't say anything serious, after listening to it for a long time, she can also hear that her brother and sister-in-law, these two people, there is no major contradiction, especially when she was not married, and she has been with her brother and sister-in-law for a long time, and she still knows them very well.

"I didn't think about it that much!" Brother Qin was a little awkward by Qin Yafu's words, frowning and scratching his hair, "I'm just not in a good mood recently, and when I come home every day, I don't let me worry when I see her, so I ......"

"So you don't want to go home!" Sister-in-law Qin sneered and raised her eyebrows, "Yafu is right, it's good to think about it, if you don't want to, squeak as soon as possible, don't delay anyone!"

"Sister-in-law, don't get me wrong, I don't mean anything else," Qin Yafu was busy playing a round, regretting what she had just said excitedly, she was persuading peace, but she still made her sister-in-law feel more hearty, so she had to try to explain, "When people get along with each other, there must be unsatisfactory times, let's be calmer and think more about each other's good."

In the past, the days of supporting each other and taking care of each other were very good, but now that we have a house, our children are older, and your and my brother's jobs are also very stable, all of this is developing in an ideal direction, how can it be more and more unsatisfactory?"

"Once upon a time? Heh, who can always live in the past? Don't you have to look forward? Everyone is on the road to a good life with a house and a car, but we are still not thinking of making progress, and we are worried about the loan that is repaid every month, don't you think it is sad?" Sister-in-law Qin sighed, her face showed a desolate look, "I admit that I am a little greedy now, just like the song sings, I always want to have if I don't have it, and I hope for it when ......I get it."

"It's not wrong for you to think so, but the situation of each family is different, we also have to consider the problem from our own point of view, after all, you and my brother are a whole, what plan really has to be carried out in a deliberate manner, and it will not solve anything by making noise so urgently. Qin Yayan also softened her tone and rejoined the conversation.

"We are all incapable people!" Sister-in-law Qin pursed the corners of her lips, lowered her head depressedly, and her tone was obviously unwilling, "It's the same day to open your eyes, and it's a night to close your eyes, but in fact, the quality of life is very different." ”

When Qin Yafu heard this, her heart moved, and she couldn't help but look up at her sister.

"Does my sister-in-law have any plans to start a business?" Qin Yayan hesitated, but asked directly.

"The efficiency of the unit is getting worse and worse, and I have been laying off people, I am an old employee, although I have not been laid off, but the workload has increased a lot, alas, I am also tired, including your brother, it is not easy to do it more and more. Sister-in-law Qin finally said what was in her heart, "I just wondered if I could think of something else to do......

"You will be foolish, we have nothing to do, we don't know anything, what can we do?" Brother Qin interrupted his wife's words, of course he knew where the root cause of his wife's recent trouble with him was, but he didn't want to involve his two sisters anyway.

"That's it!" Qin Yayan finally suddenly realized, "You two are also too outside, we are a family, brothers and sisters should help each other, since you have a plan, let's find a way together!"

Qin Yayan's face was not so ugly, although she didn't like her sister-in-law to talk about this matter in such a big circle, but after all, it was her own brother, what did they need as a couple, as long as there was a place where she could help, she would definitely not watch the excitement.

"We don't have any specific ideas, we just feel that we can't keep a dead salary all the time, you are living so poorly, you are all smart people, your thinking is much more lively than ours, it is better to listen to your opinions. Sister-in-law Qin wisely threw the question back.

Qin Yafu listened to it and took over: "The advantage of working for others and keeping a dead salary is that you don't have to worry about it, you don't have to worry about losing money, and the disadvantage is that you are naturally more constrained;

You have to go through a series of inspections to make sure that you have a future, and even then, you have to be prepared to fail, because there are many people who have these prerequisites, but very few who really succeed......"