Chapter 194 Emotional Reasoning

Qin Songmu said very calmly: "Isn't what I'm talking about a realistic problem at present? Now Shuang'er is silently dedicating everything to her first love and benefactor. Pen @ fun @ pavilion wWw. biqUgE怂 info If she wants to be a girl with a conscience and affection, she must sacrifice some of her own things, including her relationship with your husband and wife, and invest her feelings in another man. How can you not get hurt if you neglect your own long-term happiness and satisfy another man's short-term happiness like her? If you have a relationship with another girl at this time, it is also reasonable. ā€

Wang Chunlai was completely confused by Qin Songmu's words, and took a deep breath: "Thank you for your understanding. But..."

Qin Songmu immediately waved his hand to interrupt: "Don't be in a hurry to speak first, listen to me help you sort out the stakes of the matter." ā€

Wang Chunlai had no choice but to keep his mouth shut, and patiently listened to Qin Songmu continue-

"Doctor Xiao Wang, please have to accept a reality, that is, Shuang'er received Tian Tao's help and dedication back then, which makes her almost in a desperate situation in life, it can be described as sending charcoal in the snow, right? It can be said that she has regarded Tian Tao as her own world. If she hadn't misunderstood Tian Tao, she wouldn't have transferred her feelings to you later, and it would have been impossible to marry you. However, the truth cannot be hidden for a lifetime. Zhao Shuang finally learned the truth of everything, that is, Tian Tao never gave up his love for her, and has been silently paving the way for her for the smooth development of her life path. To tell the truth, if it weren't for Tian Tao's secret help, Shuang'er would not have come to Haihe to work, let alone know you. When Shuang'er finally interprets Tian Tao's dedication and love for her, if she doesn't return her feelings to him, is she still worthy of being a girl with a conscience? There is no doubt that although she is currently escorting Tian Tao through the last journey of life, her heart must be completely integrated into Tian Tao. I go to bear Tian Tao's pain every day, suffering together, hurting together..."

"Director Qin, please don't say any more..."

Wang Chunlai couldn't listen anymore, and couldn't help but interrupt Qin Songmu with a choked voice.

Qin Songmu shook his head: "Don't get excited, let me finish talking about what may happen to you two in the future." ā€

Wang Chunlai's heart was simply mixed, he couldn't help but cry, and he couldn't say a word.

Qin Songmu continued to describe: "The combination of Shuang'er and you is completely based on her misunderstanding of Tian Tao. Now I have abandoned my previous suspicions with Tian Tao, but my relationship with you has also developed to a stage where it is difficult to give up with each other. However, after all, she and Tian Tao had no results, and there was only a short process. If you were a twin, how would you choose?"

Wang Chunlai finally shook his head: "I can't be her." ā€

"Maybe you'll be her in the future, too. ā€

Wang Chunlai looked up in astonishment: "What do you mean by this?"

"Please listen to me. ā€

Wang Chunlai did not bow his head again, but his eyes were like electricity, looking at Qin Songmu.

Qin Songmu said very calmly: "You are currently feeling rejected by Shuang'er's negligence, and you are hurt both mentally and physically and mentally, for example, if you drink too much outside, it is enough to explain your inner hesitation." But at this time, the female intern who has always favored you frequently threw olive branches to you. This gives you great spiritual comfort. She even accompanies you all the time to go around for a break. When your relationship with Shuang'er is drifting apart, you finally choose to accept her. ā€

When Wang Chunlai heard this, he just wanted to open his mouth to refute, but was interrupted by Qin Songmu's gaze, so he had to choose silence again.

Qin Songmu continued to describe: "The situation in which you accepted the female intern doctor was almost exactly the same as the situation in which Shuang'er accepted you at that time, both in the case of emotional injury. However, you actually still have Shuang'er in your heart, just like Shuang'er still had Tian Tao in your heart. It's just that Shuang'er misunderstood Tian Tao back then, and you couldn't stand Shuang'er putting all your feelings into Tian Tao at this time. ā€

When Wang Chunlai heard this, although he remained silent, his face turned pale.

Qin Songmu's expression also became gloomy: "The final result is that you married a female intern doctor and completely freed yourself from the haze of emotional loss. Shuang'er finally sent Tian Tao away, and since then he has lived a life of emotional loneliness and inner exhaustion. ā€

Wang Chunlai's eyes suddenly became moist.

Qin Songmu's words continued in his ear: "Shuang'er is in a miserable and helpless situation, and finally can't afford to get sick..."

"You're talking nonsense!" Wang Chunlai interrupted angrily, "Shuang'er's body is so healthy, how can she be sick? ā€

Qin Songmu finally paused, and then said slowly: "You are a doctor, can you explain the principle of 'depression becomes a disease' from a medical point of view?"

Wang Chunlai shook his head categorically: "I didn't study this theory in medical school. ā€

Qin Songmu nodded: "Then I'll tell you the answer from my understanding." ā€

Wang Chunlai listened with curiosity.

Qin Songmu made an analogy at this time: "The world outside us is not clean, but full of all kinds of viruses, just like the smog that we often encounter at present. And those viruses are attacking our bodies all the time. However, our human body has its own immunity, resists the invasion of the virus, and maintains our health. And this immunity is affected by many objective conditions. When a person is depressed and mentally depressed, his or her immunity is compromised, allowing the virus to take advantage of it. Therefore, a person's state of mind determines the strength of his body's immunity. For example, the patients in our cancer hospital. Those who are pessimistic even if they get the best treatment, I am afraid that they will not live long, because their low and fearful emotions greatly weaken the immunity in their bodies, which gives those cancer cells full space to be active and develop. And those who are emotionally optimistic tend to hold on for a long time and even be able to recover. This shows that its immunity is tenaciously resisting the development of cancer cells. That's why some experts say that those patients with tumors do not die of cancer cells, but are scared to death by themselves. ā€

As an oncologist, Wang Chunlai couldn't help nodding slightly about the truth Qin Songmu told him.

Qin Songmu's words changed: "But Shuang'er is very likely to suffer from an incurable disease like Tian Tao under extreme physical and mental pain." ā€

Wang Chunlai couldn't help but shiver, and cold sweat almost oozed from his forehead.

Qin Songmu continued to be emotional: "When she is dying in her life, she also needs a loving companion. And although you are very affectionate with the current female intern, you have not completely let go of Shuang'er in your heart, just like Shuang'er did not let go of Tian Tao at the beginning. So, you went to visit her. You find that she is lonely and helpless, so you are moved by compassion and want to do your love for her. However, the female intern quit. She doesn't allow you to put your feelings into the lonely and poor twins. At that time, you were very conflicted, your heart was very struggling, and how much you longed for your wife to fulfill your heart and do your best for your former lover! However, the female intern just didn't understand, and even had a cold war with you. I ask you -- what are you going to do then?"

"This..."

Wang Chunlai's heart suddenly rippled, and it was really difficult to answer.

"Doctor Wang, in order to take into account the feelings of the female intern, do you ignore your former favorite against your will?"

Wang Chunlai buried his head lower.

"Little Doctor Wang, I don't know who your emotions would be more inclined to at that time, and who was the weight of your heart. What should you choose between a woman who can spend your life with you and a woman who needs your affection? Of course, maybe Tian Tao gave her far more love than she once brought you happiness. It is understandable that she is temporarily parting with you for the time being to give her favorite and benefactor a little warmth. And you can choose to distance herself from her when she needs you most. However, even if you do not lose the woman with whom you want to spend your whole life, will your conscience be good? Will such a disturbed conscience cause regret and gloom in your life?"

"Director Qin, I..."

At present, Shuang'er's investment in Tian Tao is by no means acting, let alone a comfort, but a real love. However, she also needs a loving understanding and tolerance at the moment. Let's see if she can meet a man who gives her selfless love like Tian Tao. Such a man can wait and support silently without regrets when his lover invests his feelings into a man who needs her love more, instead of forcing the other party to do something for himself. ā€

Wang Chunlai was a little embarrassed: "You have a point, I am really far inferior to Tian Tao, and I am really not worthy of Shuang'er." ā€

"If you still love Shuang'er, you must be a man like Tian Tao. And if you say that you can't learn Tian Tao, it means that you don't love Shuang'er deeply. ā€

"Then how can I prove that I love Shuang'er?"

Qin Songmu did not answer directly, but said meaningfully: "What should you do, there is naturally your way." However, I want to tell you a truth - if you really love her, then you will understand that it is not important how much she gives to you, what matters is how much you should give for her. When she does everything she can for the love she once loved, you can protect her and give her a harbor of love in time, so that she can rest physically and mentally exhausted, and let her exhausted emotions be reborn!"