Chapter 1070: More Thoughtful
Naturally, it doesn't matter what you say, just ask the child's meaning directly, because the child will be less knowledgeable at a young age, and some things may not be understood so much, so in the view of Qixi Festival, before telling them, you need to understand a lot of things first, and then tell them all the situation.
Even if the children have less life experience, they are all sensible, and they have reached the age where they can distinguish between right and wrong, and they naturally know what is good and what is bad, so if you explain it to them, I believe that they will make a suitable judgment.
This is also the reason why Qixi has such an idea, firstly, it is not irresponsible to leave it all to the children to decide, but will help them analyze all the situations in advance, and secondly, it is also to fully respect the meaning of the children, because including studying, doing business, family affairs, etc., are all major events in life, and Tanabata feels that outsiders are not qualified to make decisions for themselves.
You can only help her think of everything that should be thought of out of concern, think of all the situations, and then trust her and believe that she can make the right decision.
So the two sisters whispered, but they didn't rush to ask anything, but because of their temperament, in fact, even if they haven't heard Lin Qinian come back and say anything yet, they have some ideas in their hearts about what to do about this matter.
In the evening, everyone had dinner, because the children had to go back to school early tomorrow morning, so Zhang and Tang rushed them to talk by themselves, and the brothers and sisters only saw each other once in many days, so they didn't read books this night. Wouldn't it take to work hard all day when you go back to school?
In fact, if it was left before, Jingwen and the others would basically stay in the upper room to talk to the old man before and after meals.
But this time, there are some things to discuss, and I don't think the children will worry about it, and secondly, because they will go back to school tomorrow morning, and they will study quietly, but it will be very hard.
Of course, the latter is the key point, after all, the whole family is here about Lin Xiaoyun, as long as Lin Qinian doesn't go out to do errands. It's negotiable at any time.
And the children naturally know that the old man doesn't want them to just read all day long. He listened and went out, and then a group of children went to the west wing to talk.
Before Jing Sheng went out, he said with a smile: "It's designated that it's my father and mother, what do they have to say, and they have to avoid us." I don't want to leave it to chatter......"
In fact, Jing Sheng's words were really casual. It's his lively nature. The relationship with the elders is also very good, so I heard that the elders also specially instructed, saying that I don't need to read books when I go back to the West Wing. At night, I nag and go to bed early, after all, I have to go back to school early tomorrow morning.
But I have to say that this kid's brain is still real, and he can even say this casual sentence, but he didn't think much about it, and after he finished speaking, he happily went out together.
But Qixi stayed, because obviously this was to talk about Lin Xiaoyun's family affairs, and the adults didn't say that they wanted to drive her, after all, they were used to discussing Qixi together, especially in many cases, this kid thinks things are more thoughtful than adults.
Yun Duo knows something, although Yun Rong is not clear, but seeing that the elders have something to talk about, she sensibly took her sisters out, anyway, there is Tanabata, if there is anything, it is the same to go back and ask Tanabata.
So for the matter of Qixi staying, not only the elders have no opinion, but even the children are used to it, and even regard Qixi as staying here to help them listen to the news, although they don't know anything at all.
Qixi expressed her gratitude for the trust of the big guys, anyway, she specified that she would not leave, this is a family affair of the head sisters in the family, and it can make Uncle Lin forget it so much, how can she not worry about it.
Moreover, although her mother and others are now starting to help Zhang Luo plan, the situation is not as good as she thought at the beginning, if there is no such family matter, then according to Lin Xiaoyun's own and the Shen family's current conditions, it is not difficult to find her relatives, and then the family will inquire and discuss it by themselves.
But now that there is a family affair before this, Qixi has to listen to what the head of the family is planning, after all, the temperament of these two is too honest, anyway, she listened to what her sister-in-law said before, and she always felt that the family was not a kind family, so she had to be more careful.
It's Yunduo, as a person who also knows what the elders want to talk about, but she didn't insist on staying, of course, it's not that she is not curious, but seeing that the eldest sister is going out with someone, if she has to stay, the big guys will definitely feel puzzled.
So Yun Duo thought about it, and gave a look to Qixi Festival, saying that what he heard here would be handed over to her, and she would tell it when she got back.
Qixi nodded to show that she understood, and at the same time made a gesture to reassure her second sister, saying that she would leave it to her here, and she knew very well what to do.
Obviously, not only has she discussed this matter with her second sister, but the elders in the family must have been talking about it before, just waiting for Uncle Lin to come back and make a decision.
So her task now is to listen honestly and decide when to speak, or what to say, depending on the situation.
And this so-called decision is naturally to listen to Uncle Lin talk about some of the family's past behaviors, as well as what he thinks now.
Anyway, she has a standard in her heart, there is a degree to what should be done, if that family has inappropriate behavior, then even if these adults here are soft-hearted for a while, she has to suggest that it be solved quickly.
Then the clouds really went out, and she was still extremely relieved to leave Tanabata here, even more reassuring than herself.
Because she actually knows very well in her heart, although like Qixi Festival, they have never worried about many things at home, and if someone provokes them, they will also think about solving it immediately, and they are not afraid at all.
But in fact, she is still more impulsive than Qixi Festival, and now that she hasn't heard Uncle Lin say it in detail, she already has no good impression of that family at all, and if she really hears that things are not authentic later, it is estimated that she will easily get angry.
So it's more appropriate for Tanabata to stay now, and when you know the specific situation, what to do when the time comes, Tanabata will obviously not think less than her, it will only be more thoughtful. (To be continued......)