Su Yiqing smiled slightly, "Sister Yan doesn't have to be nervous, and you don't have to hide anything, I know what you think, I also know the outside world's speculation about my family business, I can only say that if you have to marry, then you should marry willingly, think more about the benefits of this marriage, as for those things that haven't happened yet, you can treat it as if it won't happen, I only know now that I want to marry a young and handsome prince in a high position, how many famous ladies envy me, that's good." ”

"But ......" what Meng Yan wanted to ask was, Second Sister, aren't you afraid? I heard that Lord Ding is a ruthless and caring person, but she knows that she shouldn't say this the day before the second sister gets married, which is tantamount to touching people's heads.

Su Yiqing looked at Meng Yan and said softly: " Sister Yan, how old am I older than you, and I have experienced a lot of things, I can only say that when it is inevitable, don't think about it so much, or just think about the good aspects, just think that I will be happy when I get married, and I will live well, instead of thinking about what unfortunate things will happen, if it is inevitable, it is useless to think, if it will not happen, then today's worries are completely in vain, no matter whether it is to people or things, unless it is obvious harm to yourself, otherwise treat the other party as a good person, the so-called harm to others can not have, the heart of defense is indispensable, it is not wrong, just prevent and defend, do not be too direct, so as not to cause harm to others。 ”

"Second sister, I'm sorry, I was just ...... before It's just that I can't think about it for a while, and I don't want to go against you. Meng Yan remembered that her voice was a little timid and a little ashamed when she remembered the past.

Su Yiqing smiled indifferently, "I understand, you just have had a smooth life since you were a child, you haven't encountered any setbacks, and you feel uncomfortable for a little thing." In the future, you will understand that a few quarrels between sisters, a few ridicules from outsiders, and the attitude of subordinates are not a big deal, and they are not worth caring about. A lot of things that you think are strict. In a few years, it will feel ridiculous, and even the person you hate today will not even remember the name in a few years. ”

Meng Yan thought of the life experience of this second sister, and felt a little regretful. Before coming back, listening to her mother's explanation, she had always felt that the second sister's background was pitiful, but after seeing the second sister's indifferent expression. She can no longer give birth to a close heart, and then compare people. The ridicule of the nobles made her feel uncomfortable, and she couldn't help but be a little angry, and she thought about it, but now she has calmed down for a while. She felt a little ashamed.

As her mother said, if there is no second sister, she is estimated to be the fate of Miss Hu San. It's horrible.

Su Yiqing was in a good mood, and looked at Meng Yan again, because she seemed to have figured it out. Then he had the heart to point out a few words and said: "Sister Yan, how old am I older than you, and I have been out alone for so many years, some things are fascinated by the authorities, you are actually very happy now, and you have parents who love you, but sometimes people have to think more for themselves, plan for the future, and try to talk to your mother if you have any ideas, after all, you are young now, and you can think about it slowly if you have time, so as not to be in a hurry in the future, choosing a family affair is actually choosing a way of life." ”

Meng Yan's face was faintly flushed, and the girl's family was always shy when talking about their family affairs, bowing their heads and saying nothing.

When Su Yiqing saw her appearance, she mistakenly thought that she didn't want to mention it, so she didn't want to continue, after all, she and Meng Yan were only sisters in name, and the relationship was not good.

Meng Yan lowered her head and pondered for a long time, then suddenly raised her eyes and asked, "Second sister, if you had a choice, what kind of family affairs would you choose?"

"It's a simple question, most women in the world would say the same, but I don't think you want the same answer. Su Yiqing paused for a moment before saying, "If I had a choice, I would choose someone who would be willing to pay for me first, and then look at the family background, I don't need to be rich and rich, the main family is not complicated, and my mother-in-law is easy to get along with." ”

Meng Yan thought for a while with some confusion before asking, "What does it mean to be willing to pay for you?"

Su Yiqing said: "This depends on various circumstances, in general, it is a person who likes me more, I don't want to marry a person who will be wronged for him, this is my own idea, some people are different, some people feel that they are happy, but I feel wronged, I only say how to choose, I will choose to like me more than I like him." ”

Meng Yan didn't seem to understand, but still said: "A woman should take her husband as the sky, and naturally she has to pay, is this also wronged? Besides, ...... Shouldn't you marry someone you like?"

In the last sentence, Meng Yan's cheeks were flushed again, a little shy, and there were many girls in the boudoir

Su Yiqing smiled: "What the book says? It is better to believe in a book than to have no book, and the book also says that the wife of the chaff does not go to court, but how many people in the world like the new and hate the old, spoil the concubine and kill the wife, of course, this is just my personal opinion, after all, I am different from you, you have been pampered since you were a child, and you may feel that being wronged is nothing, but I don't want to live a life of wronging myself to please others." ”

Meng Yan looked at Su Yiqing with a shocked expression.

"Perhaps...... Maybe what the book says is right, but I'm wrong. Su Yiqing remembered the past, and a deep loneliness appeared on her face, "Where did you get without pay......ing?"

She made a mistake at the beginning, and now she has a chance to do it again, and she must change her mind.

Mrs. Meng received the report from her mother-in-law, put down everything at hand, hurried to Meng Yan's house, and hurriedly pulled Meng Yan through the door, and said anxiously: "Yan'er, what did you talk to your second sister?"

Meng Yan looked at Mrs. Meng in surprise and said, "It's nothing, just talk about it." ”

Mrs. Meng said: "It's nothing, the next person said that you lost your soul after you came back, and your second sister is also a little wrong, Yan'er, I sue you, no matter how ignorant you are, you should know, tomorrow is your second sister getting married, don't say that she is your sister, even if you are usually a person who has a dislike, you shouldn't go to someone to trouble at this time." ”

"Mother, I really just talk to my second sister casually, and she is not upset. Meng Yan was really aggrieved in her heart, maybe her question was not asked properly, at least the time was not appropriate, but the second sister was really not upset, and answered her question very seriously, if the second sister pretended not to care, but actually cared, then she really didn't know how to get along with people in the future.

"Really?" Mrs. Meng has been busy with family affairs recently, and she hasn't paid attention to her daughter for several days, so she suddenly felt something wrong today, for fear that her daughter would say something wrong, so she hurried over. If something really happens, she feels that she can't stop it alone, so she just begs that the mistake doesn't come on herself.

Meng Yan was even more depressed, and said angrily: "Mother, you have always said that you want to be closer to your second sister, why did I say a few more words today, and you are like this, mother?"

Mrs. Meng looked at her daughter's appearance really like she could say anything wrong, she couldn't help but breathe a sigh of relief, and sighed: "It's good if there is nothing, Yan'er, if it was before, my mother wouldn't tell you something to say, I'm afraid you're worried, now that you've grown up, it's time to be sensible, and your mother will tell you what she thinks, these days, your mother's heart has been hanging, Dingwangfu is not an ordinary family, if something really happens, the prince will be angry, and our Mengfu will be over, do you understand?"

Meng Yan was a little stunned when she saw her mother's nervous appearance.

Mrs. Meng said in a low voice: "Maybe my mother is too careful, tomorrow is a big joy, what accidents can happen, it's just ...... Mother doesn't know how to tell you, she's just worried, probably busy and faint, but I just think that your second sister didn't seem to want to marry before, but she has been very happy in the past two days, which is too abnormal. ”

"How could the second sister not want to marry?" Meng Yan held her mother's hand and comforted, "Mother, my daughter has talked to the second sister, she really doesn't want to marry at all, I really think she is very happy, I see her laughing all the time today, and the whole person is laughing." ”

The abnormality is here, Mrs. Meng muttered in her heart, out of the sensitivity of a woman, she always felt that Xiaofu's daughter didn't seem to be very satisfied with this family business, but it was only in the past two days that she suddenly changed a person, if Xiaofu had been cold and indifferent, it would be normal, but now she looks like an ordinary bride, it is really abnormal, plus she is nervous today, it seems that she has some plans.

Meng Yan didn't know what Mrs. Meng was thinking, and said with certainty: "Really, the second sister said it herself, she is about to marry a young and handsome prince in a high position, and most of the girls in the boudoir are envious, so she is naturally happy." ”

Mrs. Meng secretly said in her heart, this is too straightforward, isn't it? It is very like coaxing a little girl, how can a married bride speak so bluntly, it is because of these that she feels abnormal.

Meng Yan suddenly wanted to talk to her mother, so she leaned towards Mrs. Meng, and whispered to her mother like when she was a child: "Mother, today's daughter is just curious, and asked the second sister, if she could choose, what kind of family would she choose?"

Mrs. Meng's heart moved and asked, "What did your second sister say?"

Meng Yan thought for a while and said: "The second sister said that she would choose someone who was willing to pay for her, and then look at the family background, she didn't need to be rich and expensive, as long as her mother-in-law and concubine got along well and so on." ”

Mrs. Meng was stunned, the second half of the sentence is a choice often made by parents who really love their daughter, which is very common, but the first half of the sentence has some indescribable feelings, what is the willingness to pay for her?

ps: Ask for something if you have the strength to do it, I haven't been able to lift my spirits these days.