Chapter 988: A Lively Family

"Today is my grandmother's 80th birthday, so I made eight longevity peaches. Pen @ fun @ pavilion wWw. biqUgE。 info" Ma Xuewen said with something in the back, Wang Xianqiu and Ma Zhi were carrying things in their hands and were snatched away by everyone, saying that they would not let them carry anything, after entering the house, counting the children, this house accommodated nearly 30 people, this family is still very large, because there are many brothers and sisters, and the juniors are married with children, which is very lively.

In my impression, Ma Xuewen also likes to go to his grandmother's house to play, because there are many people, but the family was too poor, he didn't want to go, and his parents didn't want to go, he looked at others wearing bright clothes, his clothes were not so good, and they were very old, he always felt a trace of inferiority, as for his parents, they didn't have money to buy too many things, and it was better not to go empty-handed, although Wang Xianqiu's relatives generally don't pick who buys things and who doesn't buy things, but they can't pass this pass in their hearts。

Of course, some people may say that relatives don't care about whether they have money or not, what they care about is friendship, but even if they are relatives, no one is willing to pay every day for no reason, so that a poor relative can eat and drink, and over time, everyone will not care too much about his feelings about this poor relative, and there will be less respect, in fact, for those rich relatives, it doesn't matter if they don't.

Because they are successful themselves, they don't care about these, but poor relatives are different, the poorer they are, the more they often care about what others say to him, obviously others are not saying anything to him, he will also go on the line and think that he is saying it to himself, so he is not willing to make do with this circle, not because of weak family affection or how, just because of self-esteem, just like Ma Xuewen in the past, he cares about these very much.

But even if all his relatives are extremely cold to him now, or ignore any of his feelings, Ma Xuewen will not pick on him, he can be respected a lot outside, but at home, relatives are equal, and they should not be distinguished according to the high and low, but how many can really do this?

Some people may say that our relatives are very good and never pick these, that is because you have not encountered real things, or that your family conditions are not bad at all, at least they are equal, everyone has no sense of superiority, and they will not feel that you have a sense of superiority, so they are naturally treated equally.

If you are in a very high position, even if you are drinking at the wine table, the family is willing to toast you more, if you are a very low position, the family will not deliberately toast you, let you drink very happily, or the stars treat you with the moon, in fact, whether it is at home or outside, people are very complex, people's emotions are more complex, and you can really do it equally, unless you have enough confidence.

"I can't eat this big cake, it's too wasteful, save some money. As soon as I entered the house, my grandmother saw the cake box, and said with a sad face, but there was still joy in her expression, she must have received this heart, but she was a little distressed to spend so much money, no matter how you look at it, it will not be cheap.

The old man is like this sometimes, maybe he won't take care of every child so much when he is young, and he will have his own calculations, but when she is old, she will generally treat everyone equally, and she will be the same to everyone, and she also has a lot of numbers in her heart, no matter what Ma Zhi's family was like before or now, Ma Xuewen's grandmother has an attitude towards them, and she will not look down on them because she doesn't move around because she has no money, and she won't show great enthusiasm because she has money.

Of course, this was definitely not the case before, otherwise Ma Zhi would not have such a big pimple in his heart, but now that too much time has passed, a lot has already been digested in each other's hearts, and the final estrangement has also disappeared because of Ma Zhi's arrival, and Ma Zhi has also shown enough filial piety.

"Mom, today is your 80th birthday, this money must not be saved, you, don't worry about this, we can still make money now, it's not bad." Ma Zhi said very boldly, now he does have the confidence to say this, because he has earned enough, and he doesn't care if he pays a little more, he is such a person, when he has no money, he will definitely care about it, and when he has money, he naturally doesn't have to think so much.

Dong Yuxuan was a little cramped at this time, because the first time she met Ma Xuewen's relatives, she must know Ma Xuewen's parents very well, but this group of relatives saw so many at one time, just like the daughter-in-law came to the door for the first time, whoever looked at her would blush, and she had been standing beside Ma Xuewen without speaking, but Dong Yuxuan, who was slim and beautiful, would become the focus of attention no matter where she was, and it was naturally the same here.

After all the things were moved in, grandma had already come down from the kang, patted the edge of the kang directly, looked at Dong Yuxuan and said, "This is the object of learning, right? Come and sit on the kang, and the kang is warm." The words of the kind grandmother made Dong Yuxuan feel a lot of nervousness, and Ma Xuewen said: "Warm up on the kang, you don't need to be busy." After speaking, he said to grandma and grandpa: "Grandma, grandpa, this is my girlfriend Dong Yuxuan." ”

For Ma Xuewen's grandfather, they hadn't seen Dong Yuxuan before, naturally a little strange, and the same was true for other relatives, everyone thought Dong Yuxuan was very beautiful, but no one knew his identity, only Ma Xuewen's old brother-in-law knew, that is, the relative who used to be the head of the electricity bureau, although the position changed once, but now he has re-climbed to the position of deputy director, these are what Ma Xuewen fought for him, and he must have his own considerations if he didn't let him be the leader, although the old aunt and wife looked down on their family when they were in that position, but their nature was not bad, and after experiencing an incident, they also had a new understanding of Ma Xuewen's family, now he is very low-key, and the most important thing is that as the deputy director, the daily contact is not so heavy.

In his words, everything now is thanks to Ma Xuewen, because the person who succeeded him as the head of the government was shuanggui in less than two years, and he can go to this day smoothly, or because of the last demotion, now he is steady and steady, and his life is very chic, where is he as frightened as before.

The most important thing is that many people know that he is Ma Xuewen's old brother-in-law, and they also know Dong Qiang, no one dares to offend him at work, even if he is the director, he will generally not assign him to do anything, which is enough!