Dad's dream was shattered
I've always felt that I'm not good at math, completely inherited from my mother, when I asked my dad math problems, I would always be told by my father, my dad couldn't understand, why he gave me, told me again, I still can't understand, what did my dad say, what did it mean, the gap between the two of us lies in my dad and my brains, completely different.
At that time, the conditions of the family, for one student, there was some difficulty, not to mention, to provide two students, study together, when my father was in junior high school, the uncle was already old, and the family had arranged for the eldest mother, and began to see each other.
Grandpa's family, although there is no money, but there is one, a very large and new big tile house, and the uncle has craftsmanship, so the eldest mother's family, also quite agreed, the eldest mother's family at that time, is also very good, the father works in the post office, the mother is also a primary school teacher, but there is no land at home.
A year at home, I can't see any money, grandpa has craftsmanship, and there is land at home, so the eldest mother still agrees, and when I came to see the house, I found that the family wanted to provide, and the two children went to school, and the eldest mother's family did not agree.
The eldest mother's family disagreed, and the uncle was not happy, the uncle was at that time, just spring, and fell in love with the eldest mother at first sight, so he asked the grandfather to quickly agree, and the grandfather's favorite is the uncle, he thinks this, the son is very like him, whether it is the personality, or the intelligence.
So grandpa agreed, uncle's request. Since you can't have two children and read together, don't read either. But grandma disagreed, grandma felt that the child should at least, there should be one who can read, and the children in the family should be good at reading, so it can't be wasted. The teacher often praised these two children.
Grandpa was also moved by grandma in the end. A child should be allowed to continue studying, and there are many people in the village who are very envious. He has two sons who can read. In the future, as long as one of them passes the exam, then he will not only be envied by others in the future, but also be able to leave the countryside, and in the end, he can also become a city person.
Grandpa talked to Dad, and Uncle talked about it. Let's talk about this matter briefly. It was not put forward in it, it was requested by the eldest mother, so she said that at home, she wanted to get a daughter-in-law for the uncle, but there was no money, and now you can only have it, continue to study alone, you two choose it.
In the end, grandpa also said to his father, "Two, you are the elder brother, you have to let the younger brother, do you know" Grandpa actually already had an idea in his heart, but he couldn't say it clearly, although he didn't like it, this second son, but he couldn't, he did it so obviously, he couldn't let others say that he was biased.
After grandpa said this, my father took his schoolbag home directly, and didn't go to school, during which many people, because there were children in the village, and my father was a classmate, so they came to ask about the situation, but my father didn't say anything, in fact, he also felt very wronged in his heart, and felt that his dream had been so broken.
Later, he never had a chance again, he went out, he didn't know, how to face this fact, but grandpa, has already helped dad explain, in order not to let dad, tell the matter, so grandpa and everyone said, "It's dad who lives or dies, he doesn't go to school, he beats up, but dad just don't go, grandpa has no way, so he let him stay at home," although everyone is very confused, usually this child also likes to go to school, but because it's not, it's not easy for everyone to take care of their own family affairs.
At that time, the sixth grandfather lived next door to his grandfather's house, and he has always liked his father very much, and when he knew this, when he came to find his father, "Second, the affairs of your family, I also know it, you know that your sixth uncle's family, there are only two sons, and they are not good at reading, and they don't want to read, and the sixth uncle has some money in his hand, you take it to study first, and reading well is better than anything else."
Dad looked at the sixth grandfather, after listening to the sixth grandfather's words, lying on his body, began to cry, the father cried for a long time, he really felt very wronged during this time, he didn't know why, grandpa wanted to treat him like this, why was it so unfair, but the father couldn't say anything, the son didn't say anything about the father, and the father was a filial piety, so he could only endure it, and he could only take it in his heart.
Dad knows that grandpa is a face-loving person, if he agrees to use the sixth grandfather and the family's money to go to school, grandpa will definitely be angry, grandpa is like to dad, dad has always been very clear in his heart, when he was a child, he fought with his eldest brother, obviously the eldest brother, the first to do it, but when he saw grandpa appear, he cried first.
In the end, he will always be the one who is beaten, so when he grows up, no matter what happens, his father will basically not defend himself, because no matter what he says, in the end, grandpa will not listen to him, and not even yet, when he finishes speaking, he will be interrupted by grandpa, in grandpa's heart, dad is very like grandma, and he doesn't like him very much.
Dad has always thought it was his problem, but in fact, grandpa has always disliked grandma, he thinks grandma is ugly, he thinks grandma has no opinions, and her personality is too weak, but when grandpa was a child, he was the one, the unfavored second child, when grandpa died, there was nothing, left for grandpa, grandpa had no way, so he took things.
I went out to work, because my grandfather had a good mouth, I met my grandmother's uncle, that is, I followed him and began to learn carpentry, when my grandmother was a child, she didn't have a father, but my grandmother's mother, that is, my father's grandmother, was very powerful, and she raised 6 children by herself, and she also bought 40 acres of land.
At that time, in the village, there were all wealthy families, grandma's family was rich, and grandma was the boss, so the work at home and the work in the field could be grasped, grandpa was very white at that time, and he looked very good, and his mouth was sweet, grandpa knew, he went back, and he couldn't find a suitable girl.
And he is also older, he doesn't have a little money in his hand, and he doesn't have a house, he doesn't have a land, his grandfather is very realistic and smart, so he started to do it on his grandmother, who is small, dark, not beautiful, and not very smart.
And grandpa imagined, the daughter-in-law in it is not the same at all, the two of them are together, both grandpa speaks, grandma has a wooden temperament, and she can't speak, just listen there, but because of grandpa's thoughts, grandma also began to slowly like grandpa, and father's grandma is a very smart and spicy woman. (To be continued.) )