blind date
Mom stopped the car, and grandma hurriedly hugged me who was sitting behind, "Big girl, grandma wants you to die, do you miss grandma, grandma left you a lot of meat," this is the first time I saw grandma after being reborn, grandma is still very young, and there are not too many wrinkles on her face, and now she is smiling very happily, her face is flushed, and the whole person exudes a sense of kindness.
Grandma has always loved me when I was a child, because my mother is my grandmother's youngest child, and my grandmother has always loved my mother very much, but because my aunt has just gotten married, the family is too poor, and my grandmother needs to take money to make up for it, and my uncle has not yet married a daughter-in-law, and I need the help of the big guy to get the bride price, so I have no choice but to listen to my grandfather's words, and grandma actually thinks that it is not much use for girls to study, so I don't have much support in my heart.
After my mother didn't study, because I felt very uncomfortable, I didn't go home, and I have been helping to coax the children at my aunt's house, my aunt actually married very well, my aunt used to be a soldier, and after the expiration of the term, the state gave a subsidy, and the aunt took the money to the aunt, but when the aunt gave birth to her first child, her health was too poor, and the family did not have much money. To replenish her body, the eldest aunt felt very sorry for her aunt, so she had no choice but to prepare to do some small business with her comrades-in-arms, and went to the south with the family's money.
As a result, when I came back, my aunt was about to give birth to a child, and my aunt was deceived because she was doing business with her comrades, and she didn't get a penny back, and the family's savings were gone.
Later, the old uncle entrusted the relationship, helped the mother find a job, worked in the brick factory, although the income is very small, but it is not easy to get in, now can find a money-making job, it is very rare, the mother earned 3 yuan a day at that time, and had to do a lot of work every day, very hard, the mother has been thinking about waiting until the money is enough to go to school, but then the mother got the money back, where did the aunt go, the aunt's cousin Heng was sick, the family had no money for treatment, just the mother got the money back, the aunt and the mother spoke, and the grandmother also came to persuade the mother.
In the end, my mother had no choice but to lend the money to my aunt, but my mother was really sad, she felt that there was no hope for studying, and her family did not support her, so my mother finally went to find my uncle, who had just finished building a house at that time, and the house was built by my father and uncle, and my father had been working very hard, and my uncle and aunt also felt that my father was very good, so I wanted to protect my father.
Dad was very dark at that time, and because there was no money at home, the clothes were always very torn, after my mother stayed at my uncle's house for two months, my aunt told my mother about it, and my uncle was also very supportive, so I began to protect my mother, my mother was very beautiful, because she had read books, and her vision was a little high, and my uncle was very satisfied with my father, so he began to arrange housekeeping, and housekeeping was to go to the homes of both parties to see if they were satisfied with both parties.
Mom was not very satisfied with my father at first sight, my dad was very poorly dressed at that time, he was very dark, he looked very old, he was very muna, he looked at the house from beginning to end, his dad didn't say a few words to his mother, his dad was very satisfied with his mother, his dad was very smart, and he knew what his uncle and aunt liked him, so he always expressed his very down-to-earth.
Dad was so silently happy, Mom was actually very dissatisfied, Dad went back and talked to Grandpa, after Dad left, Mom told Uncle, she disagreed, Uncle sighed, in fact, Mom is very difficult to find the right person, because Mom's maiden family is not good, Grandma is married to Grandpa, there is no father, the mother's family will not help at all, Uncle is very satisfied with Dad's family, at least grandpa and Dad are craftsmen, compared with other rural families, it is still very good.
Dad went back and grandpa also began to discuss this matter, dad is actually very satisfied with mom, because mom is very beautiful, and he doesn't care much about dad, dad was a bit of a middle two at that time, grandpa and dad went to the uncle's house together, during which he also talked about his mother's family situation, because grandma's house is far away from here, grandpa doesn't know very much, uncle has a little bit of concealment, grandpa didn't agree for the time being.
After my mother disagreed, my uncle began to get on fire, and my uncle went on fire and wilted on the fire, and he didn't tell my mother, but there was a problem with my eyes, and the vitreous was cloudy, and at that time, the family didn't see a doctor before, and my uncle's eyes became stricter and stricter, and my mother had no choice but to agree, and my grandfather's family began to prepare a bride price.
Uncle knew about this, from grandma's house to ride a bicycle for more than 4 hours to inquire about grandpa's house, grandpa's family has always been grandpa in charge, the three sons of the family are very filial, the uncle inquired for two days and disagreed, the mother's temperament is a little soft, and the grievances are also in the heart, the uncle is a little uneasy.
The uncle also quarreled with the uncle because of this matter, because the uncle introduced the object to the mother, and felt that the uncle was greedy for cheap, regardless of the mother's ideas, the mother married too far, and there was no way to go back to her parents' house if she was wronged, and the grandmother's father was not too favored, after the uncle finished speaking, the uncle became even more angry, and his eyes couldn't see it directly.
Mom had no way to agree directly, the bride price money that my father took, went to show my uncle his eyes, my uncle had no way to say anything, grandpa gave a part of the dowry, and went to my mother's side to see the house, after going to grandpa I didn't agree, and grandpa didn't care about these children brought by grandma at all, and my aunt's family is so poor now, grandma doesn't look smart, grandpa is afraid that my mother's family is too poor, and my father will have to supplement my mother's family at that time.
After listening to grandpa's words, my father wanted to give up a little, but what grandpa meant between the lines was that my father was not angry, and it was not good to introduce an object, which disappointed him too much, and my father agreed directly when he was angry, and he had to agree to live or die, grandpa and dad fought for a long time, and finally grandpa had no choice but to agree.
After the uncle's eyes were healed, the mother and the uncle wanted to withdraw from the family, and the uncle took out all the money he earned from his part-time job and gave it to his mother, and the money was basically enough, but at this time, something happened to the second aunt's house, and the second aunt's husband injured someone and wanted to see a doctor, so he came to his mother to borrow money, and his mother had no choice but to agree.
Mom told me that this is all fate, because in the end I didn't pay the bride price, so I married my dad directly, and my mother didn't have much hope for my dad, and at that time the marriage was like this, the two sides had no feelings, and they were going to start living together after seeing each other, but the feelings were unusually deep, and my dad was rich later, and he didn't abandon his mother, and he has always been very good to his mother, because his mother accompanied his dad through the hardest years of her life, and never complained, and has been silently supporting, unconditionally believing in his father。