The coffee has cooled.

It's dawning.

Chen Chi read the words on the screen.

I can guess that a woman who traveled alone on the third day of the Lunar New Year had no interest in taking pictures, standing on the snowy mountain, her expression was so calm that people suspected that she was going to jump down, and there was always something unhappy. …… Why don't you speak? Regret arguing with your husband?

No regrets.

You'll regret it a little, but arguing is also an interaction.

Now I finally know why you said that you can't make money in this profession, you actually don't have any effective advice, you will only be like the aunt of the neighborhood committee. Didn't you say before that a couple came to you for a prescription, I think your suggestion must be to let them communicate more with each other, this kind of thing will be said by everyone. Their money is not well spent, didn't everyone beat you up?

No, I received the money smoothly, but originally said that they would pay for each other, and then they felt that they had lost money, and the two of them asked for a share, and finally I gave them a discount and calculated a two-person package price.

So how do you count me? Is it the service trial period?

Be. In the future, when you are satisfied, you can give as much as you want.

I'm afraid I won't be able to give you much, or even want to. I haven't been filial to my parents yet, I have to save some money for them, or save some money for myself, so that if I have any changes in my marriage or work in the future, they will think that I have a little money and will not worry too much about me.

You've got an idea. Intransigence? Can't bear it? …… Stop talking again, proof that you're hesitating? …… Well, it's right not to talk to me, now that you are emotionally unstable, I persuaded you to analyze your relationship problems rationally, but it didn't necessarily work.

I understand the reason, don't ask anything, don't say anything, do your own thing quietly, if you want to forbear, you will slowly change the broken mirror and reunite, and if you want to separate, you will be fully prepared for a thunderous blow.

You're smart, why don't you do it?

I can't.

Don't you think you actually love him?

Love?

Chen Chi stared at this line, and he couldn't imagine what Xu Shuangzhuan's expression was when he typed this word and this question mark. After a long time, he moved his gaze down, and Xu Shuang's next sentence followed, you are a big man, you are always entangled in whether you love or not, don't you get tired of it?

Chen Chi didn't know where she had gone, and he had been trying to think of where she might go. At night, at a certain moment, he suddenly remembered that he had all kinds of passwords for Xu Shuang, bank, email, and social accounts, and she had always been very lazy in password management, and she might not think of changing her password after the divorce.

So Chen Chi tried, and then he really saw Xu Shuang's past communication with others, including the content of her consultation with emotional expert Xie Jingzhen.

Xu Shuangchuan described that she was napping at home, and the intermediary led others to see the house, and she was like a reed standing in the sorghum field.

Chen Chi couldn't help but think that he received a call from the landlord during the National Day holiday, also because he wanted to sell the house and bring people to see him, he smiled and said that he knew. When he came back from the holiday, he got off the plane and returned to his residence, and found that all the curtains he had drawn when he left had been opened, and the chair that Xu Shuang liked to put by the bedroom window was also removed, and he casually went to the corner, and the first thing he did when he put down his luggage was to check if the diamond ring he gave her was still there.

Lu Su stands in the sorghum field.

Reed millet and sorghum are very similar, when the mother-in-law bought it back, he saw it for the first time, Xu Shuangchuan squeaked and showed him how to eat, she bared out two front teeth, biting the green skin in one bite, shaking her head and tearing it, just like directly pulling the sugarcane skin with her mouth, he was frightened, for fear that she would accidentally hurt her teeth, or cut her lips, but she smiled and fed the emerald green sweet core to his mouth.

He didn't know that she had discussed with someone else, a person who was almost a passerby, about what it was like to receive a housekeeper in a rented house. She didn't tell him anything.

Chen Chi took a sip of cold coffee and read on.

I would rather deal with all problems with my true colors, and refuse to be false and wronged. If you have a conflict with someone, you will at least handle it gracefully and gently, right? Let me give you an analogy, if you are ten meters away from someone, your expression will not be subtle, but you will look at each other from a distance, and everything will seem to be filtered by a diffuser. If you say goodbye to him, you will wave your hand civilly, or, turn around and leave without making a sound, even if you want to take a sip, but generally will not use all your strength to spray at him, at most snort to give a roll of the eyes, no one wants to spend useless effort on a person who is ten meters away.

But you're standing close to someone, you're wearing a jumpsuit, and you can't always show yourself the most elegant angles, so you act very naturally, what would you do if you were separated from him? Complaining, tearing, pushing, making yourself disjointed, using as much strength as you can.

What do you want to say?

You know. You still think of him as a conjoined person. If you mentally stand ten meters away from him, it won't be so intense.

He's taken people to places I wanted to go to but couldn't, and he took people to his home.

Chen Chi thought of their quarrel after he sent Gu Siya away. She was talking about the shopping shops at the Emanuel II Promenade, and she couldn't even care about a cup of coffee on the street. She said about the West Lake in Hangzhou, and even the fact that it was almost late that he took his cousin to stay for one night was sarcastic. He threw all the diamond rings on her bank card and threw them back to him, and he left angrily that night.

Chen Chi read her faint words, and there was no need to refute them one by one like at that time, but he seemed to see her sitting far away, talking delicately and skillfully. But now, he doesn't even have a place to argue.

Marriage and divorce are inseparable from the oil, salt, sauce and vinegar in life, do you have a plan? Xie asked.

You, an unmarried person, feel uncomfortable to say such things, as if you understand better than me, a married person.

I've heard too many people cry, so I naturally understand something. Deciding to divorce is as careful as deciding to get married, the days of two people and the days of one person, no matter how you switch, involve a lot of things, emotional, financial, and the deterioration of attraction to the opposite sex...... You have to think about it all and don't be reckless.

If I have children, I don't know if I can afford to leave, but now that I don't have children, I can still afford to leave, at most like you, I will not get married. Actually, I find that it's good to be free alone. So I don't care about the emotional attraction you talk about. I don't really want to live with my parents, for fear that they will look at me uncomfortable, so if I live alone, the expenses will be a bit large.

You've thought so much about it.

Chen Chi stared at the screen and closed his eyes for a long time. It turned out that Xu Shuangchuan didn't talk to him much during those days, but he was silently worried about planning his future life.

Xie said that men are different from women, for men, getting married, that is, courtship, after he calmly hides the woman behind him, he will focus on dealing with things outside.

Xu Shuangchuan replied that for a woman, getting married is the beginning of a beautiful new life, and it will take her a while to understand that the life she longs for is the life of her mother who she used to look at.

Xie said that women tidy up their homes, most men can't do it themselves, but they like it very much, but women can't always show off and threaten, the comfortable home environment you enjoy is all I have worked hard behind you.

Xu Shuangchuan asked, I know that in the struggle, there must be a lot of bitterness. I'm willing to do my best to do more in the trivial chores that men are not very good at, but do I have to show myself to be willing to do it all the time? Some are unhappy, are they really unhappy, can't they say a few words? Are you unwilling to say it?

Chen Chi seemed to see a little fat sister, sitting on the ground with a small leather ball, looking up at the world ignorantly.

Xu Shuangchuan and Xie Jingzhen discussed many times, and occasionally, reading between the lines, you will find that she is also in a good mood, and said lightly in a peaceful tone that getting married is actually more tiring than living alone.

Yes, so it takes courage and love.

Frost sometimes teases, getting married, I found a secret, why am I only half liberated?

Left and right are your territory, and we are the ones who have been driven forward, and we can only open up a battlefield for survival. No battlefield, no survival. Xie stinged and teased back, do you know that we are also envious?

It's true?

It's true.

Chen Chi didn't like this emotional expert, and Xie Jingzhen told Xu Shuangchuan too much chicken-soup-like truth.

Do you know why many couples can work hard together, but they can't go on when their living conditions are good? It is because his wife witnessed his hardships and embarrassment, so no matter how big the scenery is in the future, he can be admired by others, but he can't get the same admiration from his wife, so he and his wife can't really relax.

If in the process of hard work, the wife has complained intentionally or unintentionally because of the unhappiness of life, it is even worse, a man's dignity has been hurt, no matter how weak that feeling is, it will still make him feel heavy. So, life with his wife in his subconscious will become a constraint, he is spurred to work hard, but there is always a time when people want to rest, at a certain stage, he meets a person, maybe nothing is better than his wife, but there is no past.

Victory is in the absence of the past.

This is the reason why it is better to forget each other in the rivers and lakes.

In the past, just like the two of them sat opposite each other and ate most of the hot pot base, the sweet and sour ingredients were put in, mixed into a pot of soup with an incomparably complex taste.

Some people feel that it is too thick and affordable, and they like to have another pot of fresh and refreshing food at the next meal, and most people, living a real life, will still add some oil, salt, sauce and vinegar to the next meal to boil it, and eat it well.

To eat and not to eat, always choose.

His frost was speechless.