Chapter 54: Reasons Why I Don't Want to Get Married
Ying Lingling looked at his mother's endless chattering mouth, and really didn't know how his father had survived under her mother's iron teeth and bronze teeth for so many years. I finally ran into a Saturday and Sunday, but my parents had to come over to stir things up, come on, don't let her ears calm down, God, who will save her?
Although it was past noon, it was still hot outside by the energetic sun, and the knowledge in the book was endlessly noisy, as if there was no chance if I didn't hurry up and call. The puppy under the tree sticks out its tongue listlessly, occasionally moving in the shadow of the tree. In this steamer-like season, the most energetic are the elderly, who may be old and not afraid of the heat, they gather in the shade of the trees with benches and chat, as lively as an awards party.
Ying Lingling's mother chattered in her room for a long time without getting a response from her, so angry that she grabbed his ear and shouted: "Stinky girl, I don't care about you for a few days, you have this attitude towards my mother?" What the hell is a word for me? ”
Ying Lingling cried out in pain, looked at her cruel mother aggrievedly, and scolded in her stomach countless times: "God, what did I do in my last life?" Is there such a mother in this life? Woooooo ”
"Okay, I just don't want to get married so early, okay?"
"You, you kid, even if you don't want to get married, you have to have a reason, right? You can't just not want to do something for no reason, right? For example, fear of marriage? Ah yes, isn't this kid Haoxuan bullying you behind our backs, don't you dare to say it? ”
"Mom, your imagination is too rich. How could it be! ”
"Then why are you going to tell me? Hey, I'm so desperate. ”
Ying Mu looked at Ying Lingling with an unhurried look and didn't want to explain more, so she couldn't wait to turn into a roundworm and burrow into her stomach to find out directly, she really didn't understand her daughter more and more now, when she was young, she was the closest to herself, and she would be the first to tell her anything in her heart, even if she was dissatisfied with her as a mother, she dared to speak out. But I don't know why this child stopped communicating with her later, no, it's not that she doesn't communicate, but she doesn't want to communicate with her, she pulls her dad there to talk endlessly, and as soon as she approaches the two of them, she immediately doesn't say anything, so sometimes she wants to know about her daughter and has to coerce and lure her husband. Wait, by the way, I can't figure out the reason, I can let my husband go into battle, hasn't this girl always been in the same camp as her father? Thinking like this, Ying's mother stopped grinding with her, got up and walked out of the door.
Looking at the figure of her mother leaving, the Heroic Spirit Primal breathed a sigh of relief, thinking that her world was finally clean, and continued to sleep with her head covered.
As soon as Ying's mother went out of her room, she immediately attracted the attention of Lin Haoxuan and Ying's father, but she didn't want her son-in-law to know that she was so unreliable in her daughter's heart, so she called his husband over to explain the situation to him, and then replaced Ying's father to go in and talk to her daughter. In fact, to be honest, the reason why Ying Lingling likes to tell her father about everything and doesn't like to tell her mother in the past few years is entirely because she feels more and more that her mother is stronger, and she has been killed before she can say anything, and she feels that she has no autonomy at all. But her father always comforted her when she was most frustrated, helped her analyze and solve problems, instead of just blaming her, restricting her, and ordering her. Over time, she became accustomed to telling her father everything, even if her mother cried and protested a few times, but she still went her own way, what should be done or what should be done.
Father Ying walked into the room and saw his daughter sleeping with her head covered again, knowing that she must have been broken by her mother's chatter just now. So he gently walked over and patted her quilt and said, "Okay, don't cover your head, your mother asked me to come and talk to you, and we will open up today." ”
Hearing that it was her father's voice, Ying Lingling breathed a sigh of relief, she opened her eyes when she heard the sound of the door opening just now, thinking that her mother was back again, so she pretended to be asleep and refused to make a sound. Now that she knew that it was her father, she immediately lifted the quilt covering her head, and then sat up cross-legged and asked her father angrily: "Dad, what's going on with my mother today?" Didn't you say that I would decide my own affairs? Why are you urging again! I'm really annoyed by her. ”
"Silly boy, isn't it for your mother's good to do this? Although she was a little impatient, her intentions were definitely good, and you should know that, right? ”
"I'll admit it, but she can't just talk every time she doesn't count, right? No, didn't Lin Haoxuan tell you something? That's why she suddenly changed her mind? Ying Lingling, who had slept for a while, seemed to have suddenly become smarter, and suddenly thought of the crux of the problem, she saw that Ying's father did not admit but did not object, so she knew that she had guessed correctly, so she was very angry and wanted to rush out to confront Lin Haoxuan face to face, so scared that Ying's father quickly stopped her, if she went out like this, the little couple would definitely have to quarrel, and then he, the father, would be in a dilemma, and he would have to be scolded by his wife.
"Hey, hey, baby, you know Daddy won't lie in front of you, so don't embarrass Daddy either. Haoxuan also wants to give you a name because he really loves you, how many men can still do him now, right? So you should be more considerate of him, and girl, you yourself changed the hexagram first, so even if you have to say who is right and who is wrong, it is your fault first! ”
"Why? What's wrong with me? ”
"I heard Haoxuan say that you promised to get married as soon as possible at your mother's birthday party, and the wedding date was booked by others, but it didn't take long for you to suddenly want to get married early, do you know that because of your words, the original mother has already chosen the wedding date and asked him to inform you to prepare, but he was afraid that you would be unhappy when you knew it, so he suppressed this matter and told the family that he was not in a hurry to get married, but because of this, he will now be counted down by the second elder of his family every day, and there have even been fierce quarrels."
Lin Haoxuan had never told her these things, so she always thought that everyone agreed to this matter, so she continued to live with him in a two-person world with peace of mind. If she knew about this, she would definitely not let him suffer so many grievances.
"Dad, in fact, it's not that I don't want to marry him, I see everything he has done for me, and the two of us really haven't known each other until now, and we've gone through a lot of things in between, some of which you don't even know, so I know best whether he's worth relying on. But I'm always a little worried, worried."
"Silly girl, what are you worried about?" Ying's father knew that his daughter must have her own reasons, otherwise she would definitely not be like this. He wanted her to tell him without reservation, so that he could help her analyze the results.
"I'm worried that if I get married, he won't continue to treat me like this!" Ying Lingling felt that this kind of worry would be laughed at by others, so she refused to say it, even if the other party was her father, she was still a little embarrassed, "That day at Auntie's birthday party, I saw a scene of a newlywed couple quarreling, although the two of them were arguing quietly behind everyone's backs, but I still remember the red-faced and red-eared look. Later, I also asked others about them, and it is said that they are similar to me and Lin Haoxuan, and they have always been a model couple in the eyes of others. But looking at the way they quarreled, they really wanted to kill each other. Who would have thought that the model couple who was once envied by everyone would be like this after getting married and living a good life? So I'm especially worried that this will happen when I get married to Haoxuan in the future. If that's the case, it's better to be in a relationship all the time, at least he cares about me during this time period. ”
Father Ying listened to his daughter's stupid words, he really felt like he couldn't cry or laugh, he always thought that his daughter was very cute, but he didn't expect it to be so cute.
"Silly boy, if it were someone else, Dad really wouldn't dare to pack the ticket, but Haoxuan, this kid, is really good. There are a lot of changes in life, so your worries are completely reasonable, which also shows that our baby girl has grown up, and she knows how to think about the problem in the long run, and Dad really feels very relieved. ”
Hearing her father say this, Ying Lingling leaned on his shoulder with a deflated smile, she knew that no matter what kind of stupid things she said, her father would definitely not laugh at her or blame her, which was why she was willing to talk to her father instead of her mother.
"But, the two of you have encountered so many things along the way, and he has always been centered on you, and you know that he has a lot of good things for you, maybe you don't know a lot more than you know! People live in the world all their lives, they are always in the exploration of the unknown, no one can say what will happen in the future, no one dares to guarantee that it will be good to anyone for a lifetime, just like dad and mom, maybe you don't know, when dad and mom first met, she was not what she is now, not only well-behaved and sensible, but also very virtuous and capable. That time has always been my father's best memory, and my parents were also notoriously model couples at that time. But after stepping into the melting pot of life, there will be more things to face, and the pressure on two people will become more and more, so if two people complain about each other at this time, the consequences will be unimaginable. Your mother and I made that mistake and almost got divorced. Later, it was your grandfather who found me and said me a lot of philosophical words, and I realized the true meaning of married life, that is, you can't be hard-hitting, you have to learn to manage. It's like running a company, if you are good at running it, it will make you profitable, and if you are not good at it, you will face bankruptcy. Haoxuan's family runs a company, and his parents are knowledgeable people, and the relationship between husband and wife is also very harmonious, so he has been exposed to it since he was a child, and he must know it well, so his parents can rest assured that they will hand you over to him! ”
Listening to his father's words, it is better to read for ten years, Ying Lingling suddenly opened her mouth, it seems that it is right to let her parents come over this time, at least she has a new understanding of this issue.
This article is from Reading Books and Novels