Chen Feng couldn't help but say with some amusement when he heard this: "You keep pestering her like this every day, no wonder she gets angry." She must have felt like she didn't even have a little personal space. You're chasing too hard, and sometimes you have to relax a bit. ”

Chen Ping said with some doubts: "I'm chasing her too tightly, aren't I afraid that she will be taken advantage of by others?

Chen Feng nodded and said, "It's really likely that this is the reason? Otherwise, there are other things you haven't remembered yet." Think about it for yourself. ”

Chen Ping pondered his eyebrows, and after a long while, he said helplessly: "I really can't think of these other things, where did I offend her? When I broke up with her, I said something that was bound to hurt people, but I had already apologized to her." She also said at the time that she wouldn't take the previous things to heart. You shouldn't have given birth to me. Hasn't she forgiven me yet?"

Chen Feng said seriously: "There is also this possibility." Women are sometimes like this, they say it doesn't matter, but they care very much in their hearts. Those words you said in the first place must have hurt her heart deeply. It's normal that she hasn't been able to completely let go of it until now. ”

"Then what should I do?" Chen Ping asked with some helplessness and some longing.

After a slight sigh, Chen Feng said, "Actually, this is a water mill. You can now say that you have completed 900 steps from the 1,000 steps to your goal, and you just need to keep going on the last 100 steps. The key is not to stalk, but to ask for warmth every day. Care. Love her with sincerity, care for her, and care for her. In this way, as long as she is not hard-hearted, she will definitely be moved. Not to mention that you have daughters. This is critical. I think. The next time you visit, you should take your daughter with you and take her with you every time you meet her. She can ignore you, but she won't ignore her daughter, right? In addition, you should also take your daughter to your mother-in-law's house to walk around more, so that your daughter will have a relationship with her grandparents immediately. They are all more traditional, and after accepting their granddaughter, they will naturally really accept you. With the bond of my daughter. No matter how dissatisfied she is with you, she will definitely have to compromise in the end. ”

Chen Ping said with some hesitation: "Of course I also know that it is better to bring my daughter over, but she is not very affectionate to me as a father." You know, she was brought up by my parents since she was a child, and if I took her over there, she would definitely cry and make trouble. I'm not material with kids either. ”

Chen Feng said: "Then just let Mom go over there too." Take Nan Nan to her grandparents' house as a guest. And let your * mother personally come to match, which seems more sincere. It's best for the uncle to go over too. I think as long as you work hard, there is no reason for her to persist. Your own conditions, as well as our Chen family's family background, and the children of the two of you, she has no reason to refuse. ”

Chen Ping nodded slightly and said, "That's true." In fact...... It would have been better if you had personally gone over and told me about the matchmaker. ”

Chen Feng glared at him angrily and said, "Don't hit my attention." I asked her to approach you on purpose. Already done missed once. If I do it again now, then I am really not human inside and out. Emotional matters. At the end of the day, it's between the two of you. Your parents can still be involved, but my brother can't be involved anymore. Perhaps, I was too optimistic about the situation just now, and it may not be possible if your parents were not able to go over. It's really up to you to grind it yourself, and it might take longer. You have to prepare for the worst. ”

Chen Ping smiled bitterly: "You really hit my confidence." I just said that a thousand steps is still a hundred steps away from you, and now I have said that I am going to do the worst. The good and the bad are all for you to say. ”

Chen Feng smiled: "Doesn't this make you prepare for both? According to common sense, the chance for you to get back together with her is quite large." So, you have to be optimistic and confident. Even if your parents don't agree, then I think it's good for you to continue to insist, as the so-called sincerity is the golden stone, you can't insist on it for a year, just two years, or even three years, she can't be indifferent. ”

"Okay, okay. You're right. I can't give up. Just for the sake of my own face and my daughter, I will insist on marrying her home. She was a good woman, and I didn't realize it until I lost her. ”

"You have to know how to cherish it. I wish you a successful start after this time. When the time comes, if you go to greet your relatives, I can go with you. ”

After all, it is his brother, and Chen Feng can't ignore his major life event.

Chen Ping was overjoyed when he heard this, and exclaimed: "This is what you said yourself, but I wrote it down." When the time comes, you must do what you say. ”

With a superstar brother like Chen Feng going to greet him with him, his face will be bigger, and he will definitely be very beautiful at that time. I couldn't help Chen Ping with such a surprise.

"Of course. I do what I say, and since this kind of thing is said, of course it must be counted. ”

"Well, that's a deal. ”

"It's a deal. ”

The brothers burst out laughing.

A group of people, talking about walking, on the way, the women and children stopped several times to rest and look at the scenery, and their expressions were also very leisurely.

After more than half an hour, you can see a cemetery surrounded by a high wall on the mountainside on the right side of the mountain road, the area of the cemetery is not very large, about two or three acres of land, it is rectangular, and it is built along the slope. Although the area of this cemetery is much larger than the average grave, not to mention the cemetery that is only one square meter in size. But it's actually not that big. On this mountain, there are many larger private cemeteries than this one, if not many.

Chinese people have had the custom of burial since ancient times, and even if cremation is now mandatory, there are always some dignitaries who choose to move their ashes to their private cemeteries after cremation. And not those cemeteries and cemeteries of ordinary people.

I don't know if this practice is illegal, but it is widespread.

This cemetery is where the ancestral grave of Chen Feng's family is now located. According to the slope from top to bottom, the owner of the tomb is Chen Feng's great-great-great-grandfather, that is, Chen Feng's grandfather's grandfather, and the tombs of the ancestors above are somewhat unreliable. After all, it's too old.

In this way, the cemetery now has an owner according to the height of the cemetery, from top to bottom, and the top three rows of graves. Below, however, there is a row of cemeteries that have been reserved. Originally, according to the local Lao* customs, this row was prepared for Chen Dazhi and his wife, the eldest son-in-law couple, and Chen Dayong was the second son in the family. In the future, a hundred years later, he is not qualified to rank the grave directly below his father, and he has to choose another place. Most people choose to be next to the ancestral tomb.

But now, naturally, there is not so much attention. And this old* local custom is not absolute, it varies from person to person and from family to family. Some elders prefer the younger son, and hope that the younger son will still be by his side after a hundred years. Naturally, the other sons had no share. You can only choose another place. There are also those who hope to be more lively, and I hope that several sons will also be happy after a hundred years, and all the sons and daughters-in-law will be ranked below.

However, in this way, if his grandchildren and daughters-in-law are too numerous, and they are all cousins, it will be difficult to line up below, and they will still choose to go out of the grave.

So. Now the outline of four tombs has been built in the bottom row, which is intended to be the residence of Chen Dazhi and Chen Dayong and his wife in a hundred years.

As for Chen Ping and Chen Feng, they are not brothers after all. In the future, what will be the location of the grave in a hundred years, Chen Dazhi and Chen Dayong will naturally not worry about anything for them, and they will naturally have their own ideas when they are old in the future.

And there is really no reason for the cousins to be buried together, not to mention that Chen Feng is in a special situation, with so many big and small wives, he will naturally have his own headache in the future after a hundred years.

Chen Feng's great-great-grandfather who was buried here had several sons, and Chen Feng's great-grandfather was only his eldest son and was buried under him. Therefore, this cemetery cannot actually be said to be just the ancestral grave of Chen Dazhi's brothers. There are still many people with the same surname in the village who are qualified to come and worship.

However, since Chen Feng's great-grandfather's generation, he has only one son, that is, Chen Feng's grandfather, and the rest has two daughters, that is, Chen Feng's aunt, but they have both passed away. After that, there are the brothers Chen Dazhi and Chen Dayong. came down to Chen Ping and Chen Feng, two cousins.

In the past, it is not an exaggeration to say that people are withering. This is also a more important reason why Chen Dayong and Zhao Xiaoyu did not reject Chen Feng's "concubine" very much.

Now that Chen Feng is fighting for his strength, he already has several sons, and he has become the richest man in the world, and he is glorious to his ancestors, so he naturally wants to come over to worship his ancestors, report to his ancestors, and then ask them for their blessings. This is an old tradition of the Chinese people for thousands of years.

When Chen Feng and his party arrived, the cemetery here had already been inspected by the bodyguards inside and out, and the grave guards who had been invited to stay here were already waiting at the door of this cemetery.

Because Chen Feng's family is too well-known here, their family's ancestral tomb will naturally send people to guard the tomb accordingly. Otherwise, there may be some small people who come and steal the ashes and try to extort money. This kind of thing has happened here several times before. Although Chen Feng's family is not short of money, they don't want their ancestral graves to be stolen and their ancestors' ashes to be dug up. Therefore, it is even more necessary to send people to guard the tomb here.

Chen Dazhi and his brothers took this into account when they paid to rebuild the ancestral tomb here, and the surrounding walls were built very high, and broken glass was inserted into the walls, and surveillance cameras were installed all around. At the door, according to Chen Feng's suggestion, a very advanced solar power generation system was made, and the small two-story building was full of solar panels.

And the people left behind here, mainly from the Kington company to recruit two rotating security guards, they are the same as the villa, are the Chen family's future reserve bodyguards, but now most of them are still in the inspection period, but the net worth is very innocent, and there are people of the same clan and clan in Chenjia Village, a total of three people, but each time there is only one person left here, all of them are the descendants of Chen Feng's great-great-grandfather, the oldest is in his fifties, the youngest is in his thirties, this is also their ancestral grave, naturally more responsible, they come here to guard the tomb, according to the current living standard of the per capita family wealth of Chenjia Village is more than one million, naturally not for money, but for the family's sense of honor, of course, the most important thing is to be able to have a relationship with Chen Feng and his family, and this is the death order of the clan in the village, the three of them were elected by the village and the clan, and some people are not qualified to come over to guard the tomb. The treatment is even more good, with a salary of 10,000 yuan per month, and it rotates every month, and there are two people to accompany him, although it is monotonous, but it is not tired at all.

Usually, three people look at such a cemetery, play cards, drink, watch TV videos or something, it's still very relaxed.

Chen Feng came over this time, Chen Feng also brought so many women and children, and the three grave guards here didn't feel too surprised. Not to mention the Chen family with the same surname, even the security guards of the two Kington companies. There is no impermeable wall, not to mention that Chen Feng still has so many women. Usually the nannies, maids, relatives and friends in the house, after a long time, slowly leaked out. Now the affairs of several wives and children in Chen Feng's family are no secret in Chenjia Village or even Yuyang Town. Although the Kington company is better, it is not a secret to these security guards who are preparing to become the bodyguards of the Chen family in the future.

Chen Feng also knew that they could keep secrets and would not leak them, so he didn't let them avoid them in advance. Especially the person with the same surname in the same village, if he is allowed to avoid it, his face will not look good. is the middle-aged man in his fifties, but he is the same generation as Chen Feng. In other words, he has the same great-great-grandfather as Chen Feng. It is a relatively close kinship in the same clan.

He called Chen Dazhi and Chen Dayong, who were younger than him, uncle, and shouted very affectionately and smoothly, and Chen Feng also stepped forward to call him brother, which immediately made his whole body glow, and his mouth was about to smile crookedly. After a little politeness, he did not get close to them anymore, but quickly led them into the cemetery.

A few bodyguards also brought in various offerings, yellow paper incense candles, and firecrackers.

There are three rows of ancestral tombs here, and of course, each row has to be worshiped and announced.

First of all, the great-great-great-grandfather in the first row at the top, Chen Dazhi, the son of the long house, took the lead in lighting incense and candles to worship, and then took turns to come forward according to the generation, including Chen Feng's children. Of course, they are all brought by their respective mothers to offer incense and pray together to bless their children and grandchildren with peace and security.

It's over, draw the gourd in the same way, Chen Feng's great-grandfather and great-grandmother in the second row, and grandparents in the third row. And they all bowed and prayed. (To be continued......)