Chapter 1329: Think about what to do in the future
But today's incident is to let her know that sometimes many things are not all what you think, just like she thought that even if she insisted, her family would definitely not let her.
Because she feels that her family is already used to playing scoundrels, no matter how Xu Ying thinks that she should fight for herself, it will not work at all in front of them.
But today, looking at the appearance of her family in front of the Lin family, it made Xu Ying feel that in fact, the Xu family was not as powerful as she thought, as long as she was willing to persevere, when the time came, she would be afraid of the Xu family she saw today, and there was hope for her to go out.
So the Xu family didn't know at all, when they were all thinking about how to fight the Lin family's idea, Xu Ying was thinking about what she was going to do in the future, so that she could slowly let the family know and not calculate too much about her family affairs, because she would definitely not do whatever the family wanted.
She didn't know before, but now it makes Xu Ying feel that she doesn't have to think of her family so badly at all, as long as she is not afraid of anything, but the family will only take care of her later.
It's just that now she won't do anything right away, thinking that after all, it's not time to find her relatives, and now the family's attention is on Xu Ran, so she is thinking about finding a good family for him.
And at this time, Xu Ying naturally won't take the initiative to come up, if she wants her family to pay attention to her and don't like her now, it would be stupid, she still has to be honest and silent. Then try to find opportunities to go out and see more, just like the two girls brought by the Lin family, they have their own ideas when they encounter problems.
Even if she doesn't have that kind of skill, but she has the courage to try her best to fight for herself, she feels that everything is fine, so Xu Ying feels that the Lin family's coming over today really makes her feel that she can see a lot clearly.
Let her know that girls don't have to just watch what people do. Whatever the family says, it's what it is. Although her temperament wasn't like that before, otherwise she wouldn't have said that when she encountered something that asked her to apologize, she would say that she wouldn't go when she grew up.
But after all, she has done too little in the past, in fact, it is more about judging the situation. I don't want to get myself involved. Try not to bring a burden to your reputation because of family relationships.
But she grew up in this family. If she is looking for relatives in the future, even if she is not such a scoundrel, people will definitely want to see what her family is like.
And at this time, only she is good, in fact, it is useless. After all, everyone is afraid of marrying a scoundrel, and in the future, it may be like the Lin family, even if they give the Xu family a lot of things, they will not be able to benefit here.
What's more, at that time, the Xu family just didn't scruple to ask for things for the Lin family, and didn't make anything else, in fact, because of Lin Qinian's identity, although he has a good temperament, but after all, he is the shopkeeper of the largest restaurant in the county.
It can be seen that the Xu family is really incompetent, they will only watch people put down dishes, and those who can make them bully are either honest like Lin Qinian in the past and don't like to worry about others, or they really live their own lives and don't want to provoke people like them, after all, they just dare to provoke honest people.
Later, after the Lin family had a bad time, especially after being kicked out of the original restaurant, the Xu family naturally didn't care about anything, but at that time, for the Xu family, there was no possibility to take advantage of anything, the Lin family had nothing at that time, and soon left the county.
The Lin family is an example, if she also looks for relatives in the future, how can her in-laws not see what kind of family her mother's family is, as soon as they see the Xu family's actions, where will those people who live a good life fall in love with her.
It's not that I didn't think about this before, but I didn't know what to do, but now it's as if I suddenly showed her a way, and she thinks she can do it.
If she is worried about that, then she should let the head of the family know her attitude before looking for relatives, and know that she can not do whatever her family wants, and her family affairs are not used by the Xu family to exchange for something, but she really has to choose for herself and live a good life in the future.
And not only at home, these also have to be known to people outside, she actually knows that if the girl is too strong, maybe some families will not want to marry such a daughter-in-law, but compared with the family's reputation is not good and she can't find good relatives, if her thoughts are known, maybe she will feel that she has a rare temperament, and she can also find a good family.
There is no way for her to be born in such a family, but since this is already the case, she can't help but plan for herself, because there is no one in this family that she can count on, she can only point to herself.
So letting her see these today, Xu Ying's heart fluctuated a lot, and made her feel that maybe she could really work hard for these, and then she could really leave this home and live her life well.
She naturally had these thoughts before, just because she was young before, even if she thought of them, but when the family didn't do anything yet, she couldn't do anything, not to mention that she didn't know how to do it.
And now, in fact, to be honest, she hasn't figured out what to do yet, but for Xu Ying, suddenly seeing the possibility is like opening a door for her all of a sudden, making her feel that it is actually okay.
Thinking like this, Xu Ying even has more strength to work, of course, these are the jobs she is used to, she actually doesn't feel tired, in this family, if she works hard can make others not notice her, give her enough time to think about what to do in the future, then she is really willing.
So when she brought the firewood back and cleaned up all the things in the kitchen, Xu Ying put down the things in her hand and stood there, looking at the clean kitchen quietly, Xu Ying couldn't help but think that when she got married and had her own home in the future, and lived a normal life, she would definitely take care to clean up her own house at that time. (To be continued.) )