Chapter 54 It's better to forget each other than to be in the rivers and lakes

The grandson can eat so much, Jin Qiaoyu is naturally overjoyed, she said that boys can eat, and if they eat too much, they will grow strong in the future, Xia Qing is very helpless, only a wry smile. Later, Xia Qing was lying on her side on the bed holding the child to breastfeed, and when the child was still breastfeeding, she fell asleep.

Confinement is an extraordinary period, the child grows quickly and needs sufficient milk. Jin Qiaoyu and Xia Xue changed their methods to make confinement meals and milk soup for Xia Qing, for example, sesame oil chicken is specially used to replenish Xia Qing's qi and deficiency, pig's feet stewed peanut soup is specially milked, eggs, pig's feet and ginger soaked in sweet vinegar are specially used to ward off Xia Qing's cold, black beans and ginger are made in brown sugar soup to ward off cold and tonify the kidneys, and so on.

Southern women are waiting for confinement like a noble princess, eager to stretch out their hands to eat and open their mouths, and Xia Qing has to eat a lot of nutritious chicken and pig's feet soup every day.

Xia Qing may really consume too much during the childbirth process, resulting in too much postpartum deficiency, her appetite is full, and she eats with relish at first, but every day it is either meat or broth, and slowly, she feels a little tired. However, her mother and second sister insisted that Xia Qing eat more to make up for it to prevent her from being in bad health in the future and regretting it for life.

On the issue of naming the child, Xia Qing thought about it repeatedly, the child should have been surnamed Gao, but Xia Qing no longer has a good impression of Gao Yuan, she decided to make her own decision to let the child be surnamed Xia, and it would be a big deal to be scolded by Gao Yuan in the future.

Xia Qing thought about it for several days and decided to name the child "Xia Yang". The name Xia Yang is said by the family, it is very sunny, and it is suitable for boys.

Xia Qing thought about it for a few days and felt that the child belonged to her and Gao Yuan, and now that the child was born, she should call Gao Yuan to report it.

Gao Yuan didn't seem to see who the electricity was, and soon answered the phone, when he heard Xia Qing's voice, he was a little surprised, "Xia Qing, I didn't expect you to call me, something?"

Xia Qing thought to herself that Gao Yuan had put me down so quickly, and he didn't care about the child's affairs? She hesitated for a moment and said, "I just called to tell you that I gave birth to a son." ”

Gao Yuan was stunned at first, but when he reacted, he was ecstatic, and he said in a trembling voice: "Really, really, I have a son!"

Xia Qing said calmly: "Yes, you have a son." ”

"Where is he now? I'm going to see him. ”

"In my house Gu Tong. ”

Gao Yuan was disappointed, "In Gutong, when will you go back to You'an?"

"I don't know. The reason why Xia Qing said this didn't want Gao Yuan to pester her, "Gao Yuan, if you have time, come to Gutong to see the child." ”

Gao Yuan wanted to say something, but Xia Qing had already hung up the phone.

During the period of confinement, Xia Qing often thought of Xiao Mo, thinking of his careful care in the past few days since she gave birth, and she felt that he was really a rare good man.

And she didn't know if he was single, she never asked. She thinks it's best to be a similar confidant between a friend and a lover with Xiao Mo, which is said to be the highest level of friendship between men and women, so as not to lose each other.

There is a recent poem "Seeing and Not Seeing" (author: Tashi Ram Duoduo) that has recently become popular on the Internet, which can just explain Xia Qing's recent mentality:

You see, or you don't see me,

I was right there,

not sad or happy;

You read me, or you don't read me,

The love is there,

Don't come or go;

Do you love, or don't love me,

Love is there,

neither increase nor decrease;

You follow, or you don't,

My hand is in your hand,

Reluctant to give up;

Come into my arms,

or

Let me dwell in your heart

Silently in love

Silence rejoices

This psalm explores the two themes of love and life, restrained and affectionate. In line with the needs of the times, it has gone viral on the Internet, which is described as a high summary of the hazy and sad love between boyfriends and girlfriends, and the pressure of modern people's work and life is so great, the distance between people has been widened, and people are more prone to loneliness and emotional fragility. When you meet the object you like, you want to love but don't dare to love because you are afraid of being hurt. It is not easy to get a strong love, everyone is afraid to invest in true love, because if you love too deeply, once you lose it, it will be painful and unbearable, and you can't stop.

Therefore, a pair of people who originally admired each other would rather maintain a certain distance, everyone believes that distance produces beauty, and advocates "seeing each other is better than missing", "it is better to forget each other in the rivers and lakes". "We all keep a distance so that we can avoid getting hurt and never lose each other.

So, such a poem just expresses their hearts and discharges their depression that has been backlogged for too long, and such a poem with simple language but can warm the hearts was born, which resonated strongly among those lonely single men and women. Although it cannot fundamentally solve the problem, it can at least play a certain soothing role.

After the divorce, Xia Qing often felt lonely, although after giving birth, Xia Qingshen's family pampered her, but she often felt that something was missing in herself, this kind of regret made Xia Qing often miss Xiao Mo, sometimes to the point of pain. She took out her mobile phone several times and wanted to call Xiao Mo, but she hesitated and didn't press the green button that dialed out.

And Xiao Mo has always been concerned about Xia Qing, for Xia Qing, he has gone from pity to concern, and then to his current love and longing. He thought about contacting her, but he didn't know what to say, and he wasn't sure if she liked him just as much.

Xiao Mo has been suppressing his feelings for Xia Qing, and there is a more important reason: he actually has a girlfriend.

Xiao Mo's girlfriend's name is Lu Bingbing. They met three years ago, when he had just graduated from college and was assigned to the 587 Hospital in You'an City. met Lu Bingbing by chance, Lu Bingbing fell in love with Xiao Mo at first sight, Xiao Mo had a certain good impression of her, and the two got along naturally after more contact.

Lu Bingbing is an only child, with a good family environment and beautiful people, because of the good conditions, there are many people who pursue her. Lu Bingbing studied foreign trade English, graduated from university three years ago, and was in charge of order follow-up business in the Middle East for a foreign import and export company.

Because she is an only child, she has been pampered since she was a child, and she has developed a high-flying and domineering character. But she is quite gentle with Xiao Mo, often shushing the cold and asking for warmth, and caring for her. Lu Bingbing's parents were not very supportive of their relationship, mainly because they wanted Lu Bingbing to marry a rich man, they felt that Xiao Mo was just a doctor and a foreigner, and he had no foundation in You'an City, and it would be difficult for him to become a big climate in the future.

This fuels Sommer's dark psychology, and his motive for riding a donkey to find a horse is more logical. He didn't love Lu Bingbing at all, but he didn't love him enough, and he didn't love him as hard as Lu Bingbing. The woman Xiao Mo wants to love is to have a spiritual communication with him, that is, the kind of tacit understanding that can have a heart and a soul, and this woman must have rich connotations and be empathetic, just like a woman like Xia Qing.