During the holidays, relatives gather together, the first thing is to ask about the grades, the second thing is to compare the children, and the third is to teach their children with other people's examples. Adults don't feel embarrassed, but children are actually quite helpless, no matter whether the grades are high or low, there is no need to compare.

The Chinese New Year also left a lot of psychological shadows on children because of the word grades. Zhang Yuqian's cousin is like this, she has just entered the first year of high school this year, and she is also a student of the third middle school.

"Yu Qian, what do you say your sister should do? Isn't her university ruined in the ordinary class? "In fact, this is nonsense, the teachers of the third middle school are all graduates of famous schools, and the teachers in ordinary classes are only experienced, and the quality of teaching is not bad. Aunt Zhang Yuqian's worries are actually superfluous. "You said that I should spend money to transfer her class, even if it is a key class."

Zhang Yuqian was embarrassed to answer this question directly. It's gold that shines everywhere, and if Liu Adou can't help him, no matter how good the resources are given to him, it won't help.

"Mom, don't you bother, it's all about it. Don't you spoil the fun during the Chinese New Year, okay? Zhang Yuqian's cousin Chen Jingyin said impatiently. Sister, you go out for a walk with me. ”

Walking on the rural pastoral paths, people's impetuous mood is relieved. The two girls walked very easily, looking at the scenery on the side of the road, Chen Shiyin was bouncing around, which was completely different from just now. Without an adult present, it is much easier to get along, and you don't have to worry about your parents asking about your grades all the time.

"Sister, why do you think my mother is so annoying? There will be a class in the third middle school in the future, and I will work hard myself, so why worry about her. "Chen Jingyin's complaints, Zhang Yuqian both agreed and disagreed, agreed that she was admitted to the key class by her own efforts, but did not approve of her ignoring her mother's care." By the way, sister, the story of you and your brother-in-law has spread all over our first year of high school, especially the first in arts and sciences, which is so amazing. If only I had a boyfriend like that. ”

Zhang Yuqian patted her on the back of the head and said, "What do you think, learning is the most important, what if you find someone who doesn't make you progress, but drags you back?" And he and I went through the test of time, and finally came together, don't mess around. All I can say is that I'm lucky, and I can't guarantee the consequences of your imitation. ”

She suddenly burst out laughing, "I'm teasing you, so I don't like those people." I only know people from the same class, and they are all a bunch of scumbags, so I don't want to. And my mother is not as open-minded as my aunts, if she knew that I didn't study hard and fell in love, she would have to break my legs. ”

Chen Jingyin is telling the truth, her aunt is not highly educated, but she pays great attention to the grades of her children, if she knows that Chen Jingyin is in love, the roof will have to be lifted. "Go back, it's time to eat. Don't be upset, next semester I will ask Zeng Yihao to give you the notes of the first year of high school, you study hard. "I dragged her back to my grandmother for dinner, and it has been a while since she came out, and her parents should be worried.

There was a big table of dishes, chicken, duck and fish were not lacking, and my grandmother was there to lament the changes of the times, and a large number of seven aunts and eight aunts were there to echo them. Chen Jingyin didn't want to walk over at all, she was afraid that others would compare her with Zhang Yuqian again. She didn't get good grades, but she still had self-esteem.

The aunt was there again to talk about the results, Chen Jingyin looked frustrated, but helpless. Her mother is such a person, and the good atmosphere has ruined her, and she always talks about grades.

"Three hundred and sixty lines, the best in the line, you don't necessarily have to study to succeed." Zhang Yuqian's mother found that her niece had a bad face and stopped her sister by speaking out. "Why do you keep talking about grades, let's change to another topic."

The children sat at their own tables, deliberately ignoring the topics of their parents, Zhang Yuqian ate silently, and there was a generation gap with this group of children, so she couldn't speak. As soon as I finished eating, the phone rang, it was Zeng Yihao.

"Xiaoyin, I'll go out and answer the phone, and you can talk to my mother later." Quietly left the table and chatted on the main road in the countryside. Zeng Yihao also made the seventh aunt and the eighth aunt annoyed and hid, and at this moment he experienced the same experience as Zhang Yuqian.

It doesn't have to be the one being criticized to be ugly, and the one being praised is also embarrassing, because it can ruin the friendship between siblings. "Actually, I don't understand why my aunt keeps talking about grades every time, which makes me embarrassed. I couldn't hold my head up in a large group of cousins and cousins, and it made me feel like I was the parent faction, and few of them were willing to talk to me well. "Zhang's mother is already very protective of her daughter, but she can't stand what others say.

"Me too, I've been pestered for a day today. A large group of three aunts and six came to me to ask me about my learning skills, and when they said that they didn't understand, they didn't pay attention, and their children's faces had completely changed, and they wanted to eat me alive, and good grades were also a trouble. "The last sentence, Zhang Yuqian agrees very much, he is always used as a role model, but in fact, role models also have their own troubles." I hid in my room and slept, but I was still pulled out and depressed. ”

I didn't sleep well all night last night, and I got up early this morning, but now I can't rest, Zeng Yihao is on the verge of collapse. "I really underestimated their conversation, and it didn't stop for a moment. It's all about talking about this, and the ears of those who listen are calloused. ”

Zhang Yuqian circled in place, chatting with Zeng Yihao, the circle turned too much, dizzy, sinful, forgivable, self-inflicted, not alive. Later, Zeng Yihao said that he couldn't meet in the past few days, and he would meet the day after tomorrow. In fact, it can only be like this, today is the second day of the Lunar New Year, the fourth year of junior high school starts, but there will be cram schools tomorrow.

"Sister, grandma let you in." Chen Jingyin shouted Zhang Yuqian behind his back. "Okay, right away. Needless to say, my grandmother called me, bye-bye. ”

Hurriedly hung up the phone, Zhang Yuqian followed Chen Shiyin back. At the dinner table, everyone was really able to eat, the children got up to play, and the adults were still talking.

"Grandma, you call me." Zhang Yuqian likes her grandmother, a kind person, and when she was a child, she always pestered her to come to live at her grandmother's house.

Grandma took Zhang Yuqian's hand and kept chattering, a promising child really won glory for grandma. Zhang Yuqian was embarrassed to withdraw her hand, she really didn't like to be praised in public, which could easily cause public anger, like getting along unhappily with the girls in the previous class, and a big reason was the jealousy of others.

But now the person who is doing this is her grandmother, Zhang Yuqian can only hold back and cast a look of help to her mother. It was thanks to Zhang's mother that she understood her daughter's heart and rescued her from fire and water, so Zhang Yuqian was able to get out.

"Mom, I really don't want to come. It's all grades, you don't even see the way my brothers and sisters look at me, I'm just a nuisance, when my grades were bad in the past, they were at least willing to play with me. In the bathroom, Zhang Yuqian and her mother complained. In the past, Zhang's mother still felt that it was a good thing for her daughter to win glory for herself, but too much praise caused dissatisfaction among others, and the gains outweighed the losses.

At the end of the day, Zhang Yuqian didn't know how many tough battles she had fought, and the dialogue was all about being thoughtful, for fear that people would misunderstand that it was a show. At night, contradictions swept over together, and this time, Zhang Yuqian was very sad. Because the person who caused it was Chen Muyin.

"Mom, you like my sister so much, you go to be her mother, why did you give birth to me. She's good at everything, and she can't look down on your own daughter, but you know what she did at school? She was once invited to the office by a teacher because she was in love, and she quarreled with the teacher for her boyfriend, did you let me do the same? Chen Jingyin lifted Zhang Yuqian's old bottom, and the eyes of the adults looking at her were a kind of scrutiny. may realize her mistake, Chen Shiyin wanted to apologize, Zhang Yuqian went back to the room to pick up her things, and prepared to leave.

"Xiaoyin, your sister has taken good care of you, but this is really too much. Originally, I wanted your uncle to transfer you to the top class, but since you don't like it so much, I don't pretend to be sentimental. Also, your sister's boyfriend is the first in science in your third high school, and even the first in the city, I don't think it's wrong for your sister to be with him, you can also find someone so good, I believe your mother won't stop you. Zhang's mother picked up her things, said a word to the old man and left, and went to chase her daughter.

Zhang's father was confused when he was called back, but he hurried to the parking place to find his wife and children. Later, when I learned that Chen Jingyin said that kind of thing, Zhang's father complained about Zhang's mother. "It's okay, just don't come in the future." Father Zhang and Zhang Yuqian said.

These seven aunts and eight aunts are really annoying. Zhang Yuqian doesn't blame Chen Jingyin, the culprit is her aunt, and the adult's concept of achievement.

The short 8-day holiday has passed in a blink of an eye, and the evening of the third year of junior high school is packed at home and prepared to pass early tomorrow morning. Zeng Yihao passed tonight, his cram school was transferred to the morning, but Zhang Yuqian's math was in the afternoon, and he was destined to not be able to pass tonight.

After getting tired of using the phone with Zeng Yihao, Zhang Yuqian opened the curtains and began to look at the car downstairs again. When I returned home yesterday, my parents had a big quarrel, and Zhang Yuqian couldn't stop it, so I sat in the room and looked at the ceiling. Even Zeng Yihao's phone was hung up in a hurry, why was it because of someone else's restlessness.

The phone vibrated for a moment, and Liu Chengye suddenly sent a smile.

Zhang: Something?

Liu: I can't look for you if I don't. When I went back to the countryside today, those three aunts and six mothers-in-law hated that I was his son, and I was scared half to death.

It turned out that there was another person who was suffering from the same disease. brushed and typed a paragraph, not spitting and unhappy.

Zhang: No, my parents still quarreled because of this, because my cousin said that I was in love and quarreled with the teacher, and blamed my mother's relatives. I was dizzy yesterday, I couldn't think about it for a while, I took things and left, so that everyone couldn't get off the stage.

When Liu Chengye saw this paragraph, he realized that Zhang Yuqian was such a girl with such a personality.

Liu: If you can't get used to leaving, you can leave, so it's hard to stay and let people continue to add to the blockage.

However, for the sake of a momentary refreshment, her parents quarreled, and Zhang Yuqian felt sad.

This book was first published in Reading Book Worm