Chapter 675: Closer is better
In fact, Li Wenyan and Li Wenfu are both older than Li Wenmin, but because they are still studying in the county, they are not in a hurry at all, because no matter whether they can read it in the future or not, as long as they have studied, it will make others look up to it.
If you don't study in the future and go home, you don't have to worry about not being able to lift your hands and shoulders and not be able to resist, the children of the Li family are really not the kind of people who are not diligent and do not distinguish between grains and grains.
What's more, the Li family is not thin, no matter how you look at it, they are all suitable families, so even if you wait to study to see if you can have a career before you come to find relatives, there is no hurry.
In fact, there are really few parents like the Jiang family who are in a hurry to find relatives for their son, after all, the Jiang family can even be counted in the county, and Jiang Yu himself is even more adept, how many people in the family have daughters staring at it, but it is really rare for the Jiang family's parents to say that they must first give the family affairs down.
But the Li family hasn't had a happy event for many years, even if they won't marry right away like Yun Rong, but the only girl in front of them who can be opened is naturally staring at it.
"Our family Wenmin, I don't want to marry a rich family, I just want to find a family with a duty, life is not bad, the key is to have a good family style, people have to be good, be good to our Wenmin, I really don't ask for anything left......" Speaking of his granddaughter's family, Tang said with a smile.
Li Taiping and Wang also nodded when they heard this, obviously the family had already discussed this issue, and Qixi listened to it and laughed on the side, so she always felt that her grandfather's house made people feel warm, and many things could be reflected. It's like this Li Wenmin's family affair. It only depends on the conditions under which they are looking for their relatives. You know what they really care about.
Therefore, a girl like Li Wenmin and Li Wenlan is very lucky to be born in such a family, although they are not as good as those who are high-ranking families, they can go in and out of fine clothes since they were young, but the love they can get is no less than anyone else, and because of the lack of intrigue and conspiracy, their happiness is more pure.
"We Wenmin have a good temperament and are diligent, so we don't have to worry. Take a good look, there's no rush for anything. Li Yuan held the cigarette bag and pot in his hand, listened to his family, and said with a smile.
Qixi noticed that her grandfather had one point, that is, he rarely smoked a cigarette pouch when the family was there, to be honest, since he hit here, I really haven't seen anyone who cares about this, especially people of her grandfather's age, who generally say the same thing at home, and naturally the juniors follow the elderly. How can it be said that the old man will have to care about others.
She actually didn't know if anyone in the family couldn't smell the smell of the cigarette pouch, or if her grandfather would cough when he smoked too many cigarette pouches when he was older. In short, she often sees her grandfather pinching a cigarette pouch, but she rarely lights it, and at most she smokes a bag when she gets together with the same old man to talk.
But hearing her grandfather say this, Qixi couldn't help laughing again, this is also the difference between the Li family and the Shen family, just listening to Li Yuan's words, you can hear it, he loves his granddaughter from the bottom of his heart, he thinks that his child is a good one, and he will naturally think more about her.
It's not like the old Shen Tou, I'm afraid that the entire old Shen family will take it to heart except for Shen Jingbo, and that's because he is the eldest grandson of the Shen family, and for the old Shen Tou, he is the one who can glorify his ancestors, not to mention the granddaughter, just a few grandsons who are studying like Shen Jingbo and are studying well, he doesn't take it to heart, and it's really like falling into the evil spirit, so he puts all his heart on Shen Jingbo.
It's really not that Qixi has a big contradiction with him, so it's hard to speak, she thinks she is an honest person, so for Shen Jingbo's Guangzong Yaozu, she wants to say from the bottom of her heart, unless there is a pie in the sky, and it has to fall a lot, so much that it can be smashed on a person's head, otherwise Qixi really wants to say to old Shen Tou, you still die that heart.
"Daddy is right, let's not worry, look at the ...... slowly" Wang nodded, knowing that her in-laws were having a headache with the children from her heart, she was naturally convinced of everything, and said, "Didn't someone come to ask my mother last time, I estimate that there will be no fewer questions in the future." ”
There are hundreds of women in the family, especially the daughters of the Li family, who are very outstanding, naturally someone will notice it early, there is a person in this ten miles and eight villages who can't hide anything, not to mention such a big girl, there are people who want to find a good daughter-in-law, they have already started to inquire and don't talk about it, and the matchmaker has been eyeing it early.
If this were the case, I am afraid that I would not say it so directly, although I am very proud in my heart, and I have to be humble and modest, right? After all, there are some things that you know by yourself, even if they are the truth, but if you really have to say it, maybe people will make irresponsible remarks behind your back, and such things are not uncommon.
But an honest person like Wang, she doesn't come to that set, she just says what she has, but people don't think she is really showing off, and besides, this is all family, and there is nothing to beat around the bush, she really just says what she thinks in her heart.
Tang Shi smiled when he heard this, and couldn't help nodding and said: "No, I didn't expect someone to ask so early, really, we Wenmin are really not worried......
The tone is full of pride, there is a girl in my family who has just grown up, and this kind of person looks at his children and wants to ask to marry, how can he not feel proud? For the elders, there is nothing more proud than others who think their children are good, and they are happier than anything else.
Qixi can also feel the joy in the hearts of several adults, and after listening to it for a long time, the side didn't want to ask, but was just curious about a question, so he interjected: "Grandma, aunt, do you want Sister Wen Min to marry closer to home?" ”
In fact, it is not so much about Li Wenmin as to think of the eldest sister Yunrong, in Yunrong's family affairs, Qixi's previous attitude has always been not in a hurry, and nothing at home has been settled now, if the business is done well in the future, who knows if it will move to the county? After all, it was from the village to the town step by step, and now it's in the county again, isn't it?
It's just that the Jiang family is indeed a very good family business, and the Qixi family is not a person who looks at the mountain high, like the Li family, they all want to find the most suitable family for those close to them, and they also saw Jiang Yu's thoughts, of course, what is more important is that Yun Rong is also willing to do it himself, so it was decided to investigate before and after.
However, although it seems that this family affair is good at present, of course, I hope that it will always be good, but Qixi sometimes thinks that if I move to Fucheng in the future because my brothers are studying or the family business is bigger, what if the eldest sister has married into the Jiang family and stayed in the county, wouldn't it be very difficult to meet each other?
So this kung fu her eldest sister has not even officially decided to marry, Qixi has already begun to ponder the future, I hope her eldest brother-in-law can study well, of course, it is not that you have to be too demanding and hope that he will get ahead or something, as long as her eldest sister has a smooth life, it is enough to be ordinary, she just hopes that if she goes to Fucheng in the future, the family is still together.
Of course, she also knows that she is because she attaches too much importance to feelings, so she is always reluctant to separate the family, in fact, when the child grows up, she wants to marry a wife, she wants to study and go out, which is likely to make the family separate, and they are no longer all together like before, and they can't go home every day after they don't see Jingwen Jingsheng coming to the county to study?
But she just doesn't want to be too far away, even if she knows that for example, the eldest sister can't go back to her parents' house every day after becoming a parent, but she also hopes that she lives not far away, and if there is something, she can know at any time and take care of each other at any time.
That's why she wanted to ask her grandmother and aunt what they meant, in fact, she could probably guess the answer without asking, and the idea of wanting to be together as a family is the same, after all, the closest people, who would want to be too far apart, and only when they are close can they move around often, and if they are far away, they don't know the news.
Of course, if it is for the good of the child, like the Qixi family, if you encounter a good family matter, or you can't care about it so much, many things are always difficult to achieve, so in this case, you have to choose to pay more attention.
Sure enough, I saw the Tang family and the Wang family laugh for a while, and then the Tang family said: "I don't want your sister to marry too far, and if you live close, you can take care of each other, the girl's family, if you marry alone, the family is not at ease, right?" What, where do you want your sister to marry? ”
The reason why Tang asked Qixi was because she knew that this granddaughter didn't look at her age, but she knew everything, Shen Huijun's relatives or something, she didn't know what a few grandchildren were mixing with her, this child didn't understand anything, because she heard Qixi ask this, thinking that she wanted her cousin to marry in the town and county.
Qixi shook his head and smiled when he heard it, and said: "It's good to marry closer, no matter what you say, it's closer to home, and the people you may find know better, after all, if you inquire about these ten miles and eight villages, there is really nothing to hide, just ask if it's good or not." Besides, if you get married closely, if you miss your family in the future, it is convenient to look back, and if you marry far, you have to think about a lot of scruples when you come back. ”
Seeing that several elders nodded after she finished speaking, Qixi knew that her previous guess was correct, and turned her head to look at her eldest aunt as she spoke, and said with a smile: "But if the eldest aunt wants my sister Wen Min to marry in the county or something, then tell me, we will try our best to find a good family for my sister." (To be continued......)