Chapter 605: Appropriate Adaptation

"Third aunt, Jingjing is choosing someone who is good to her and she likes, why are you always involved in the middle? You also said that it is impossible for her to stay by your side for the rest of her life, since she has met her, but you are so opposed, what does it mean?" Lin Zihang was most unhappy that the elders interfered with the emotional problems of their children, and his speech was very direct.

"Yes, third aunt, we can't just look at the surface, we should pay more attention to the inner plain, Mo Han is good, down-to-earth and hardworking, not fancy, not impetuous, much stronger than those young people who are not doing their jobs now, and Jingjing is so smart, naturally she will not look away, pity the hearts of parents in the world, we can understand your feelings, however, you can't be the master of your daughter's life, you can't be the master alone, it's better to listen to my third aunt's opinion, what do you say?"

Qin Yafu listened to Lin Zihang's words too bluntly, and hurriedly made a round.

"Forget it, I'm too lazy to tell you, it's the middle of the night, I'm sleepy, I'll go to sleep!" The third aunt knew that these three people were all nostrils of a person, and if she talked too much, she couldn't solve the problem, so she simply went to her downstairs room to rest.

"Jingjing, it's going to get better!" Qin Yafu smiled encouragingly.

"Well, it's going to be fine. Xue Jingjing nodded solemnly, yesterday's events have long gone, she has always been more persistent than Qin Yafu, as long as it is a recognized thing, even if she hits the south wall, she will not turn back lightly, not to mention that now she has really grown up, mature and rational, it is rare to be happy with Mo Han, how can she give in lightly?

The next day was the first day of the first lunar month, and the relatives, friends, and colleagues who came to Lin's house to pay New Year's greetings have always been the most, and Qin Yafu obediently accompanied her mother-in-law according to the practice of previous years, and did a good job of welcoming and sending her to work, although it was false and tasteless, Lin Zihang even wanted to take her to escape, but she refused.

"This is a legitimate human world, no one can always live in an ideal world, out of filial piety for our parents, we should also stay. Qin Yafu said righteously, leaving Lin Zihang speechless, he was afraid that she would be bored, but since she could accept it, he also endured it.

Seeing Lin Zihang's reluctant expression, Qin Yafu suddenly remembered the relationship between Lin Daiyu and Jia Baoyu in "Dream of Red Mansions", maybe she used to be similar to Lin Daiyu, she didn't care about fame and fortune, and never persuaded him how to be motivated, it can also be said that she is also not keen on these things now, but she is bowing to reality and dare not blindly be a fairy beyond the mortal world.

Qin Yafu doesn't know if Lin Zihang will be disgusted with his verbosity because of this, but there is a gap between the ideal and the reality, no matter how talented Lin Daiyu is, if she is put in modern society, she will be depressed, right? If you don't change your personality and don't learn to adapt to society, you will inevitably suffer too much.

Participating in the work for many years, Qin Yafu still maintains the principles that she has always adhered to, and strives to get out of the mud without staining, even if there are many difficulties, the original intention has not changed, but it is also necessary to be appropriately adapted, no matter what, the times are developing, the world is complicated, and the relationship between people is definitely not simple to only good and bad.

Lin Zihang is not a person who is obsessed with secular etiquette, but at the same time, he is not a person who only thinks about the wind and snow, and does not know how to make progress, if it is true to say that he is trapped by love, but he has not wasted his time, although he does not like his career, some go against his father's expectations, but he has been working very well in the field he is familiar with, and the company he opened with Wang Tao, with his own hands to work hard, is not inferior to others.

Therefore, Father Lin and Mother Lin were still much relieved when they saw that the young couple were willing to stay with each other honestly.

And the third aunt's family went back to their house after dinner in the morning, and as for whether they would come over tomorrow, they didn't say a word.

Lin Zihang also said that he had nothing to do, until the afternoon, when there were few people in the family, he took the time to tell his mother about Mo Han, Lin's mother was very happy, and said that Mo Han, the child, is also a knowledgeable person, knowing that he came to visit, it seems that his relationship with Xue Jingjing is about to mature.

Lin Zihang was also very excited, and praised Mo Han with his mother, his impression of that kid was indeed getting better and better, and he felt more and more that Mo Han was a talent, and they all said that Mo Han was a poor man, a person who was excellent in all aspects, was only a little inferior in appearance, and he didn't care if he was criticized.

Mother Lin has the same idea as her son, no matter what, since she is the person Xue Jingjing herself fancy, the relationship between the two is so good, she also thinks that if her sister has to be more serious, it is just asking for trouble.

After a brief explanation of Mo Han's matter, Lin Zihang took leave with his mother, he couldn't move to go to Qin's house on the second day of the first lunar month every year, Lin's mother had no complaints, if she said that she had been, it had already passed over time, she was now completely resigned to her son's and daughter-in-law's affairs, and they tossed it away, she was still thinking about it, she should tell her sister about this idea, and persuade her sister not to worry about it anymore.

It is said that "children and grandchildren have their own children and grandchildren", this is true, the more you manage, the heavier the children's rebellious psychology, in addition to hurting feelings, it is unlikely to solve the substantive problem, not to mention, with Xue Jingjing's resolute personality, in case after breaking up this pair, if you can't meet the right person again, do you want to watch Xue Jingjing be lonely until she grows old? Mother Lin pondered, she had to let her sister ask herself, think clearly, whether it is worth doing bad things with good intentions.

After a busy day, Qin Yafu only felt physically and mentally exhausted, and after dinner, she went back upstairs early to rest.

Lin Zihang thanked his wife for her hard work, and carefully massaged her body, and as soon as her body became comfortable, Qin Yafu naturally fell asleep quickly.

Not very willing to hug his beloved, sniffing the faint body fragrance on her body, Lin Zihang's original aroused feelings slowly calmed down, he kept saying, I hope she is healthy, I want her to be happy, you have to do it.

A good night's sleep, the next morning, it was the big day for the Qin family's daughter to return to her parents' house, Lin Zihang and Qin Yafu had breakfast, they said goodbye to their parents and drove back to Qin's house.

Although these two people have been reconciled for more than half a year, and they have been to the Qin family a few times ago, they are not as formal as this time, after all, there are not a few relatives and friends from the Qin family who came to visit the door on this day, Qin Yafu can finally face everyone's greetings with confidence, and there is no need to hide deliberately.

Mother Qin saw Lin Zihang and her little daughter returning to their original sweetness and intimacy, and her eyes secretly turned red several times, fully experiencing the taste of crying with joy.

This year's Qin Xiao no longer has to be in a dilemma about being a "spy", he took the remote-controlled plane that his brother-in-law bought for him, and took Mingyan to the yard to play, while Lin Zihang talked about work with his father-in-law Qin Shusheng, Qin Yafu's brother Qin Yajun, and brother-in-law Mingyuan.

The women whispered about some family trivialities, and the current situation coincided with the peace and tranquility that Qin Yafu originally hoped for, she was ordinary, she just wanted a plain and stable life, and things that were too complicated, she accepted them with sincere fear and could not feel at ease.

There was a "bang" on the courtyard door outside, and then Qin Xiao was heard shouting, "Happy New Year!", Xu Haoran and his wife Wang Meimei flashed by in front of the window.

"Why are they here?" Qin's mother frowned, you must know that in the three years that Xu Haoran was imprisoned, Wang Meimei lived in her mother's house most of the time, except for coming to ask for help.

After Xu Haoran was released from prison, the relationship between the two people could not be restored as before, Xu Haoran experienced so many changes, not to mention whether he disliked his wife's infidelity or not, just looked at the three years of hard life, she only visited occasionally, but she didn't bring much true feelings, every time she went to see him, she just complained, saying how difficult she was and so on, she didn't even ask half a sentence about how difficult her husband was in it, let alone care about what her husband needed.

To say that Wang Meimei did regret her behavior at first, but unfortunately it was just a flash in the pan, the kind that forgot the pain after the scar, her nature is not strong enough, her husband is not around, she has been lonely for a long time, and she has always wronged her life too hard, so she is actually restless.

Although Qin's mother did not live with this brother and daughter-in-law, because she knew her personality, she just thought with her toes, and she didn't believe that she would always wait for her younger brother to return, just out of consideration for her brother's children, she had to try her best to help Wang Meimei, and never let her leave empty-handed.

Xu Haoran because of his driving experience, after he was released from prison, he borrowed money from his sister, and took a license to drive a big truck, and then he has been going to other places to pull goods, and he doesn't go home much, although the job makes a lot of money, but it is very dangerous, however, he doesn't even mention it to his wife, since she doesn't care about him, it's useless to say it, but the money is definitely not handed over to her, this change has been formed unconsciously, it can be said that the relationship between them has not gotten better because they are back together.

Slowly, Xu Haoran told his sister that Wang Mei was as lazy as ever, regardless of the child, and had a boring life, but Qin's mother still had good intentions to persuade her younger brother, after all, the traditional thinking of the Chinese people, persuasion and not persuasion, considering that the impact of divorce on the child is too bad, Qin's mother still hopes that her younger brother will consider it carefully.

It's just that feelings are such a thing, don't look at the time of storage, people live and die for it, but once it's gone, it's not even a stranger.

Xu Haoran was originally an amorous seed, and his liking for his wife Cheng Dù was not inferior to Lin Zihang, and he could pay a qiē without his life, but he couldn't bear the twists and turns of the world, and he couldn't see the return, so he was finally disheartened.

Qin's mother did not tell her children about these things, she still held a glimmer of hope, hoping that the couple would have room for maneuver.

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