Chapter Eighty-Nine: Having Children

Zhao Qingzao was a little distressed about money, ready-to-wear clothes were already expensive, and the material of this dress was good, she usually wore it, and it was a bit of a waste to make such a good material. Looking at Shen Changting's intentions, it doesn't matter if he complains a few words, the main thing is that he really likes the clothes.

It's just that it's difficult to make a frugality from luxury, and the habit of wasting it can't start: "Next time, let's buy fabrics, for the same money, you can buy two more sets of clothes." I am also learning needlework from Grandma Niu, and we can make our own clothes in the future. Although the home is better than before, it can't be wasted, and it's always right to save some flowers. ”

She said that Shen Changting felt good, and she didn't refute it, she only felt that Zhao Qingzao thought about herself everywhere and was very moved.

Zhao Qingzao put away the clothes and asked Shen Changting to put out the dishes and chopsticks, and the two finished eating while chatting.

In the next few days, Zhao Qingzao repeatedly emphasized that she was fine, and Shen Changting saw that she was indeed recovering well, and never followed her all day and night, which made Zhao Qingzao breathe a sigh of relief. Sometimes she really can't understand Shen Changting, obviously he looks like a bland person who can't be more plain, but once he is stubborn, he can't pull it back.

It seems that they don't get along well enough, and they don't know each other well enough, so Zhao Qingzao came to a conclusion. Thinking about it carefully, she doesn't seem to know anything about Shen Changting, except for the most basic, whether it is the other party's personality, family, or experience, she doesn't know anything at all.

As for herself, she naturally won't come forward to tell the other party, I'm not actually from you, but from modern times, no one believes the return order, and if you don't get it, you will be tied to the fire as a demon girl and burned.

Forget it, don't think about it. Zhao Qingzao shook his head and threw these thoughts away, even if he thought about it more, there was nothing he could do, so let's take one step at a time.

Such a dull day is also leisurely, originally that kind of thing happened to the two, Zhao Qingzao was still a little embarrassed, and he was also a little uncomfortable facing Shen Changting, but after these days, except that Shen Changting treated her better, there was no difference from usual, and Zhao Qingzao gradually felt at ease.

If you suddenly change your identity from an ordinary friend, it will be difficult to adapt for a while. Now Shen Changting's attitude is natural, and Zhao Qingzao is much more relieved.

In the evening of this day, Zhao Qingzao was preparing dinner, the edamame beans had grown just right in the past two days, the leaves were green and vibrant, and the small pods were also bulging, and they were full of edamame grains when peeled off. Zhao Qingzao pulled out two plants and peeled edamame in the yard. I heard a voice coming in from outside, and said with a smile, "Oh, this edamame grows so well." ”

Zhao Qingzao heard the voice, raised his head, and greeted with a smile: "Grandma, you are here, sit casually." This edamame is not bad, I didn't know how to grow it before, and I was worried that it would not be harvested, but I didn't pay much attention to it, but it was angry. It's thanks to Grandma for teaching me. ”

Grandma Niu lives close, and when she sees that they don't understand something, she always comes over to help, and Zhao Qingzao has always been very grateful: "Wait for me to go and pull out a few more Grandma plants, you can take them home, and taste the fruits of my labor." ”

Grandma Niu smiled: "I still have a bunch of them at home, and I can't eat them all." If you have this heart, it will become, grandma knows that you are filial to this child and good to my wife. ”

The two chatted while peeling edamame, chatted about preserved eggs, and Zhao Qingzao said that everything was fine. Grandma Niu also talked about the duck eggs in the village, so that Zhao Qingzao usually had more contact with the people in the village and had a good relationship. Zhao Qingzao agreed, complained a few more words, and said that he had specially gone to chat with the women in the village before, and his head hurt when he was noisy. Grandma Niu laughed.

Grandma Niu said something about her precious grandson again, and asked Zhao Qingzao about Chu Xingshan's situation in the Yamen, Zhao Qingzao said them one by one, and Grandma Niu also felt very relieved, this errand was still a favor from Zhao Qingzao and Shen Changting, otherwise Chu Xingshan would not have found such a good one. Grandma Niu likes both of them very much, and she is filial and sensible.

"If my family can find a good daughter-in-law like you in the future, my wife will have no other wishes. Grandma Niu is going to take this sentence out every few days and recite it, and Zhao Qingzao is used to hearing it.

She said in passing: "Grandma don't worry, Brother Chu is so good, he will definitely be able to find a daughter from a good family." ”

Grandma Niu smiled and sighed: "It would be really nice if that happened." I'm also older now, and I don't have any other thoughts about living one day at a time, so I look forward to Xiaoshan marrying a daughter-in-law as soon as possible, giving birth to a big fat boy, and the family is harmonious, and my wife can close her eyes with peace of mind. ”

Zhao Qingzao hurriedly said: "Grandma is talking nonsense again, you want to live a long life, in the future, Brother Chu marries a daughter-in-law and gives birth to a child, the family will respect you, and when the child grows up, he will marry a beautiful daughter-in-law and come back." ”

Grandma Niu laughed: "Then I'm not an old immortal, I've lived so long, you kid." ”

Zhao Qingzao laughed, although Grandma Niu is old, she is in good health, and she is more neat than Zhao Qingzao. Working women are really amazing, and Zhao Qingzao often admires them silently in his heart.

The two talked and laughed for a while, and Grandma Niu thought of something and asked, "Little date, it's been a few months since the two of you got married." ”

"yes. Zhao Qingzao swept the stems and leaves of the edamame and the pods together, piled them in the corner, let the sun dry well, and dried them can be used as firewood.

Grandma Niu looked at Zhao Qingzao's flat stomach and said with some concern: "It's been a few months, why is there no news at all." ”

Zhao Qingzao turned his head and said puzzledly: "What news?"

Grandma Niu said: "Child, it stands to reason that it has been so long, and it should be pregnant." You're in such good health, it should be easy to get pregnant. ”

Ah, this is the problem, the corners of Zhao Qingzao's mouth twitched, she couldn't say that they didn't have a round house before, and it happened once in total, or just a few days ago, if there was a small one in her stomach so soon, it would be really strange, she was not Maria.

Of course, these words can't be said to Grandma Niu, so Zhao Qingzao had to be vaguely confused.

Grandma Niu used to be shy, but it is normal for a young daughter-in-law to be embarrassed. However, as an elder, she still has to remind them: "Don't think grandma talks too much, you have to raise children while they are young." We, the poor people, are not as good as the noble wives in the city, who eat and drink well, and do not have to work. The poor have the way of life of the poor, and they can recover well by having children early while they are young, but when they are older, it will not be easy. ”

Grandma Niu was afraid that Zhao Qingzao would not believe it, so she gave two more examples, who is the so-and-so, because the time to conceive the child was too late, and as a result, the child has been in poor health since birth, and she has seen many doctors intermittently.

Grandma said earnestly: "Your family conditions are not bad, and you can afford to raise a child, so you don't have to worry about it." This has become a home, but you still have to have a child, and if you don't have children at home, how can it be considered a complete home. Mr. Shen is a good person, you have to keep his heart well, what better than a child to tie a man's heart?"

Zhao Qingzao has studied physiology classes, so he naturally knows the best age for childbearing, but he is not worried about this. However, what Grandma Niu said is also good, the level of medical care here is not as good as that of modern times, and having a child is also a risk. The most important thing is that since she has already lived here, she has to follow the local customs, and if she lives according to modern standards, she will only be treated as a freak.

For example, after getting married and starting contraception, until the right time to have another child, in ancient times it was a bit out of place, and generally after a year of marriage, there were no children, and everyone would secretly gossip behind their backs. Hey, these aunts and daughters-in-law who love gossip all day long are really not idle.

Zhao Qingzao knew that Grandma Niu had good intentions, and she also said seriously: "Grandma, I know, you can rest assured." ”

Grandma Niu was also very happy to see that she had listened, and said again, seeing that the time was almost the end of the Yamen, so she went back.

After sending Grandma Niu away, Zhao Qingzao began to cook dinner, thinking about what she said just now, what Grandma Niu said also made some sense.

She can't go back anymore, and she plans to spend her life looking for a way to go back. Moreover, these days, she feels that life here is also good, and she is slowly starting to get used to it. Although it is very backward, there are also things that modern society does not have, such as a better natural environment.

Once in the life of a male farmer and a female weaver, it doesn't seem to be so sad, anyway, ordinary people like her, no matter what era they are, are the same work and life, life here is a little more leisurely than the fast-paced modern life, and the life is dull, which can be regarded as another way of taste.

Thinking about it this way, once you decide to live here, it is easy to get married and have children. She came to this world, alone, without relatives and no reason, although she can rely on a strong heart and is not afraid of loneliness, but the feeling of not having relatives still makes people feel very uncomfortable.

If there is a child, then she is not alone in this world, that child, inherited her bloodline, grew up slowly in her belly, conceived in October, and raised little by little, this is the person closest to her.

Thinking about it this way, it is a good time to have a child, or rather, Zhao Qingzao began to look forward to it, such a small, soft little guy.

What's more, her current identity is someone else's wife. Shen Changting is a good person, has a good personality, and is good-looking, what is commendable is that she is responsible, loves her wife, and is also a sought-after commodity in modern times, and she is really lucky to say it.

And now that the two have had an intimate relationship, if Zhao Qingzao was to choose, of course she would choose Shen Changting, he was undoubtedly the best choice.

I just don't know what Shen Changting thinks, he usually behaves well, but children are a big deal after all. Zhao Qingzao thought, I have to find a time to talk to Shen Changting. In Zhao Qingzao's view, the two are in a relationship of living together, and in her heart, she actually did not really substitute herself in the position of his wife, nor did she regard Shen Changting as her husband.

At this time, she was asked to go to Shen Changting to talk about the child, and it was really a little difficult for her, Zhao Qingzao put the last spoonful of green vegetables into the bowl and waited for Shen Changting to go home.

Forget it, take your time, the boat will naturally go straight to the bridge, things can always be solved, she can live well in the world, what else can stump her?

Anyway, let's finish the meal first.