Chapter 818: Unclear attitude
"Sister Fu, are you saying that I am incorrigible?" Li Lei raised her head and looked at Qin Yafu with confused eyes.
"I know that I have many shortcomings, and I have thought about correcting them, but I don't know where to start, and I don't know if I will change them in a nondescript way, and in the end, others have not seen my progress, and this unintentional change will only make me more disgusted with myself. β
"We all want to work or live with people who share our interests, but in fact, how can we really do it?
The people we come into contact with have different personalities and temperaments, and we can't force others to adapt to ourselves, so we should change our views appropriately, just to make our lives smoother.
This is not a matter of principle that you have always adhered to, it should be regarded as an important sign of your growth, and no one can always remain simple and straightforward ...... when they were students."
"I'm just so stupid, I can't learn anything, and I can't do it well!" Li Lei's eyes were filled with tears, and she tried to blink hard, trying to force the tears back, but how could she do it?
"Where are you stupid? I've known you for so long, and I haven't seen you do a stupid thing," Qin Yafu asked strangely, "Li Lei, have you encountered anything unhappy?
"It's nothing, it's just a feeling, I feel like I can't achieve anything, I can't do anything. Li Lei lowered her head.
"Why do you think so? Haven't you been doing well lately?" Qin Yafu suspected that Li Lei had a falling out with Qian You again, but with her temperament of not being able to hide her thoughts, it was unlikely that she would hold back from early in the morning to now.
So, the only possibility is that Li Lei felt that she was stimulated by the topic of giving birth to a small life just mentioned, so she became unhappy.
If this is the case, Li Lei's behavior is not strange, when she sees her happy appearance after pregnancy, she pushes herself and others, and inevitably follows the idea of marriage.
"We're okay," Li Lei replied with little confidence, she pursed her lips and whispered, "I, I took him to see my sister yesterday." β
"And then?"
Then, my sister didn't say anything, she said that as long as we were really together, nothing should be able to stop us. Li Lei replied weakly.
"Isn't that good?" Leng Mei really loved Li Lei, although she was full of worries before, but she really faced it, knowing that she couldn't be separated from them, she immediately defended her sister's idea and made it clear that she supported her.
"I know she can't bear to see me sad, she has spoiled me since she was a child, as long as I want, she will try her best to satisfy me, including this time," Li Lei smiled bitterly, "It's really not my sister's blessing to meet a sister like me." β
"Don't say that, the feelings between people are mutual, although your sister rarely praises you in front of you, but if you are really useless, she can't be good to you, as for Qian You, it's the same, the so-called love house and Wuma, she will slowly accept him for your face, not to mention that she doesn't show anti-feelings?"
"Maybe," Li Lei nodded, still sighing, "I'm not worried about my sister's opinion, but I think I have to pass my parents' level, and then my sister does the work for me, I'm afraid it's not so easy!"
"Since you have chosen, you should naturally be prepared, don't sue me, you are a gamble, or an impulsive move, if so, there is nothing bad......"
"No, I don't have an impulse with him," Li Lei interrupted Qin Yafu's words, "I, I just feel depressed when I think about that long process, and I don't know how long it will take to get results." β
Qin Yafu suddenly understood Li Lei's thoughts, and she couldn't help but sigh: "You are still young, and your experience is naturally not enough, this process of gaining the approval of your family is obviously a good thing for you, why do you need to seize the day?"
Be patient and take your time, and when you go through this period of time, you will re-examine your feelings, and if you still like it very much, then you don't have to worry about anyone's objections. β
"But I'm also looking forward to being like you and Sister Swallow ......"
Li Lei's words were halfway through, and she was bored, although she was now facing the strange eyes of others and asked Qian You to pick her up, she pretended not to see the intriguing eyes of other people, and took Qian You in and out of a high-profile manner, but in fact, she was still very weak-hearted, because she was more concerned about what would happen if her parents couldn't get by?
With Li Lei's resolute temper, she can desperately try to make trouble with her parents, what she is worried about is not the strong opposition of her parents, it's a big deal, just don't associate with them.
Anyway, she didn't get much affection from them, of course, this feeling may just be Li Lei's own cognition, what she cares about most is Qian You, his attitude towards her is not too resolute, she is afraid that this will make her one step away from the small family she has built.
"As the old saying goes, you can't eat hot tofu in a hurry, take your time, and it will always get better and better!" Qin Yafu kept holding Li Lei's hand, feeling that she was confused, too simple, and longing for a perfect child.
It is estimated that Li Lei does not have a clear goal for the future in her heart, she simply thinks that when she meets a man who makes her heart, she should live with him as soon as possible, and she is willing to live and die with him.
As everyone knows, there are so many encounters in life, where is it so easy to go long-term with love at a glance? What's more, even Li Lei herself can't grasp Qian You's feelings about her.
When Qian You is happy, he will coax Lilei like a child, but when he is unhappy, he will frown and reprimand her for being naΓ―ve.
Such a life makes Li Lei insecure, but she can't let go, and at the same time, she is more and more envious of those people who are of the same age and are in love.
"Sister Fu, do you believe in love at first sight? Do you say that love at first sight can go a long way?" asked Li Lei with a blink of red eyes.
"Yes," Qin Yafu replied affirmatively, "As long as you are happy with each other and regard each other as your only one, it's okay." β
Qin Yafu didn't say much, and the truth was not deep, she just remembered that she and Lin Zihang came, one of them chased, the other hidden, tossing and turning for so many years, although the process was difficult, didn't she also come over?
Regardless of the age of his money friend and the quality of the conditions, as long as Li Lei likes it, then work hard, take one step at a time, maybe the love between the old and the young will have a good ending.
"Two loves, do you see each other as the only one?" Li Lei repeated, her eyes gradually becoming sad, and she murmured, "He is my only one, but am I his only one?"
"It's not the only one and it doesn't matter, after all, he's older than you, and you can't be demanding that he stay waiting for someone who doesn't know you in the time he doesn't know. Qin Yafu was afraid that Li Lei would drill the horns of the bull, so she was busy enlightening.
"Well, I understand this, but in fact, he ......"
"It's a customer!" Qin Yafu interrupted Li Lei's words and stood up first.
"It's Sister Xiao's customer. Li Lei whispered, and then smiled and beckoned the customer to sit down and rest first, telling her that Xiao Tong's work was already finished, and asked her to wait for a while.
The customer was busy saying that the time he booked with Xiao Tong was right, and he just arrived early because he had nothing to do.
Qin Yafu followed a few words of greeting, and saw that other beauticians sent out the customers with perfect appearances, and the surroundings became lively, but she was a little depressed, so she went back to the office.
After Qin Yafu drank half a glass of water, she felt a little more comfortable.
At this time, Chen Yan knocked on the door and came in.
"How is Sister Fu, what's uncomfortable?" Chen Yan carried a bottle containing a pale yellow liquid in her hand.
"What are you taking?" Qin Yafu did not answer Chen Yan's words, but directly asked her for the purpose of coming to her.
"Haha, Sister Fu guess!" Chen Yan smiled proudly.
Of course, in fact, Qin Yafu also saw it, but she didn't confirm it.
"Hehe, jujube flower honey!" Chen Yan smiled and unscrewed the cap of the bottle, glanced at Qin Yafu's cup with the lid on it, and discussed, "Let's try it first?"
"Where did it come from?" Qin Yafu didn't say anything polite to Chen Yan, opened the lid of the cup, and waited for her to pour an appropriate amount before asking.
"Peng Cheng bought it back from his hometown a few days ago, I don't know if my brother-in-law asked you to eat this kind of thing bought directly from the countryside, so I didn't bring much, thinking that if you like it, I can give you that big bucket ......"
"No, these are enough," Qin Yafu hurriedly interrupted Chen Yan's words and explained, "I don't like to drink honey water, but Zihang said that drinking it is good, it can enhance immunity, improve sleep, and more importantly, it is particularly good for regulating blood pressure, which can prevent the occurrence of pregnancy-induced hypertension."
I don't know if it's so effective, anyway, when he heard that it was good for pregnant women, he bought it all the time, and as a result, I still have four or five bottles at home. β
"I know you don't lack it!" Chen Yan pursed her mouth, "I almost asked Peng Cheng to move such a big bucket to your house, but fortunately, he said that this has to be different from person to person, not everyone likes it, first help me fill such a small bottle, it seems that it really patted the horse's legs." β
"What's the mess?" Qin Yafu smiled bitterly, "The main thing is that Zihang has prepared enough, plus yours, I estimate that I will have to eat until next year, and by that time, my child has already been born." β
"After the child is born, the nutrients lost by the mother will not be replenished by themselves, and the main thing is not to rely on the acquired slowly supplementation, so the nutrients needed can only be more, absolutely not less.
It is not easy for a woman to give birth, but it cannot be replenished in a while. Chen Yan said it very well, as if she was very experienced.
Chen Yan specially consulted her mother because Qin Yafu was pregnant, and learned many things that she hadn't noticed before, and the more she admired the spirit of these expectant mothers who were not afraid of hardships.